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"I had it ALL under control when we were JUST FRIENDS" There wasn't any control needed on my part when I saw him , I just immediately knew that was it , we couldn't go back ...perhaps it was an illusion ... sometimes I wondered if I was confused between TRUST and LOVE! Yes ...Meeting him again was a right decision to answer my question : Have I moved on ?
During my healing process , I also realised what made me hold on to him before : I invested so much in the relationship and regretted of the effort and felt like a complete idiot ... My ego made me hold on ,told me not to give up but Love isn't supposed to be so hard and suffering. Yes , it was all about PRIDE. When I accepted my defeat ,relinquish my control, I'm free from myself. He wasn't the reason from the start.
During my healing process , I also realised what made me hold on to him before : I invested so much in the relationship and regretted of the effort and felt like a complete idiot ... My ego made me hold on ,told me not to give up but Love isn't supposed to be so hard and suffering. Yes , it was all about PRIDE. When I accepted my defeat ,relinquish my control, I'm free from myself. He wasn't the reason from the start.
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cuz im under a magic spell?lol
Im not a Taurus male, but I am a Taurus female, and from reading Im guessing that he told you what is going on. I think during those times apart where there was no physical contact he realized things might be getting too "relationshipy" on him. He told you that he is transitional and not quite into that right now, which is most likely true and is pretty commendably honest of him. Yes, yall probably should have discussed it before then, especially with all the physical things going on, but he most likely figured if you didnt see it as something warranting discussion than neither did he. And though you might feel he was vague he was obviously clear enough for you to get the jest of where he was going with it. He might sense that things are now getting deeper than he wants them to be and he is trying to keep that from happening. My main piece of advice is not to try to push him into more, because although it might be easy to convince him to go further than he wants to it wont be easy to convince him that it's what he wants and you may be very unhappy when he decides that he really wont go any further and decides not to deal with you at all to avoid being persuaded. That doesnt mean leave him alone entirely, but just give him a little room and space to really decide what he wants and then allow him that choice. If that choice doesnt work for you, then move on.
that's right 
and if they arent real relationshipy he might have realized that the physical thing is too much for something as casual as what is going on between you and him.
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