Tired of Not being in a Committed Relationship
atta boy, atom...
LG has screwed up your self esteem and confidence (based on the way you write on here), so it's about time you get out there and date other people.
Like I said earlier in the bost, stop trying so hard to find someone and just let it happen.
LG has screwed up your self esteem and confidence (based on the way you write on here), so it's about time you get out there and date other people.
Like I said earlier in the bost, stop trying so hard to find someone and just let it happen.
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I'm right. Happy Birthday, satyrsmind!
I'm right. Happy Birthday, satyrsmind!
I know aquas are generally not jealous...but I work with a guy I've been "seeing" but we really have not defined our relationship...we're hooking up, we're friends...it's all over the place right now, recently, I was at work talking to a friend of the guy that I'm seeing...they are friends, but he does not know that his friend even knows about our relationship....I did not tell her, but we work in a restaurant, so enough said I guess...anyways, the girls and I were talking and I was very open abotu the fact that I was out talking to other guys and meeting people...I really the like aqua guy, but I don't feel I owe him exclusiveness at this point, becuase he has not committed to us in any way...but I'm unsure about how aquas define relationships in their minds...to him, maybe we're dating, but to me...he sure doesn't act like it when he doesn't call for days at a time... My point is, if this gets back to him, do any aquas out there know how he might feel...the last thing I want to do is make him jealous, but will he back off if he thinks I'm talking to other guys...I'm not reall talking to anyone, I'm just open to meetin someone who actually wants be in a relationship with me, unlike this aqua who is scared of hell of committment...
I want to discuss where things are going, be we had a discussion a few weeks ago, when we decided to keep it casual, because he wasn't sure he could be in a relatinshp with his busy schedule..but now my feelings are changing, I want to get to know him on a deeper level, I wouldn't even mind suggesting just being friends at this point...because I think the hooking up is confusing everything...but I'm nervous taht he might find out that I have been open to meetin other people and now he might blow me off...but is that even fair of him when he hasn't committed to our friendship?
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That's my girl!!! If you changed your mind about the gift just because the roomate was an a-hole then you would have given him power. You took it from him when you continued to be yourself. I bet he is baffled. Good luck.
Hmmm, in my experience the beginning is easy. They see you, they like you, they come after you. It is when you reciprocate that they wonder if they moved to fast or if you are. LOL!!!
Oh and when they do that, just insure them they have made the right choice and if they still aren't sure, then insure them clearly they need time to themselves to figure it out. LOL!!! Worked for me.
Stay low and quiet. There is no need to call him now. You sent a Christmas message to which he didn't respond to. It could be he is very busy at the moment. Chill out and be yourself. Yesterday, I got a Merry Christmas text from a Leo guy also which I wasn't expecting either. In fact, it's very new and bizarre the whole thing. I sent a Merry Christmas text back. Point is just relax. Also when you do see him or whatever, do not spend too much alone time with him. Stay strong and positive.
He probably has something bothering him at the moment so he's backing off for a while. Give him time and he'll more than likely turn around when he's ready. It could take a while though and if you have the patience, then stick it out. It's hard when you really care for someone and things are rocky, that they clam up and don't talk to you. Heck, I remember that with a certain Virgo guy I knew. It was very frustrating when he was in one of his moods to get him to talk. Finally, I had enough. Remember be true to yourself. Good luck.
***With the other combo, the scorp woman will have to give in because the man is very self centred by nature and will take more than he gives. A fire or water woman will be very very unfulfilled.***
Wow, spica, I can say this to be true in atleast two of my envolvements with Librans. Funny how you see the opposite of what thelibran sees. To him Scorp women can't fullfill the librans expectations, which I KNOW isn't true from experience. When I have ended things with them, they always want me back ALWAYS relentlously until they intellectually realize it isn't going to work.
***The thing with scorpio is that they seem to have an ideal version of libra and expect him to fulfill it. She will goad him on to fulfill her expectation of him. Little orders, like telling him what to do, how to do it. Basically absorbing his whole personality into herself and running it. He yields because he secretly needs some direction in his life, but will eventually rebel when he realizes he wants to be in control of his own life.***
I must admit this is a mistake I made with one early on in my libran experience, and have learned through the other experiences that you must let them be them. They will come through in the end. We scorps just get impatient sometime and if it isn't done when we think it should be, we do it ourselves and that can damper their manhood somewhat. Yeah, I definitely have done this in one of my closest relationships with a libran. Very true unless the scorp realize this and change this can be a real problem.
Exam, My libra friend did and still asks me for advice even with new and past relationships, designing his new home etc. Funny!
Wow, spica, I can say this to be true in atleast two of my envolvements with Librans. Funny how you see the opposite of what thelibran sees. To him Scorp women can't fullfill the librans expectations, which I KNOW isn't true from experience. When I have ended things with them, they always want me back ALWAYS relentlously until they intellectually realize it isn't going to work.
***The thing with scorpio is that they seem to have an ideal version of libra and expect him to fulfill it. She will goad him on to fulfill her expectation of him. Little orders, like telling him what to do, how to do it. Basically absorbing his whole personality into herself and running it. He yields because he secretly needs some direction in his life, but will eventually rebel when he realizes he wants to be in control of his own life.***
I must admit this is a mistake I made with one early on in my libran experience, and have learned through the other experiences that you must let them be them. They will come through in the end. We scorps just get impatient sometime and if it isn't done when we think it should be, we do it ourselves and that can damper their manhood somewhat. Yeah, I definitely have done this in one of my closest relationships with a libran. Very true unless the scorp realize this and change this can be a real problem.
Exam, My libra friend did and still asks me for advice even with new and past relationships, designing his new home etc. Funny!