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No we can't. We are the average male with enhanced penis drive and more tears.
The Sag friends I've had always want to do something. Sags are very wise people, but don't use their wisdom to make the right decision sometimes or half the time.
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***I'm trying to let him be cuz he just got out of a realtionship and has explained to me he doesn't want anything "serious" right now. And I know this for a fact he's not lying. It just happened for him in September and he's hurting. But despite the fact he is a "Libra" he is also a man with sexual desires regardless of his "feelings". So that was my mistake. Not being truthful with him from the start as to what I was looking for which is not just sex, but a relationship. I did tell him in October how I felt about him and he asked me to give him time and that he wasn't ready. It obviously didn't scare him off cuz he continued to see me up until now.***
Cap - because the two of you were never in a relationship he really isn't obligating to do the things you asked. Librans will become distant and act in this manner if they feel the other party wants more than what they are willing to give. In their own right too, because like you said, he made it clear that he didn't want more. You didn't make it clear, so you seem, there is no relationship and he isn't obligated to do or act any way. It is more of a FWB situation. Sex is all there is.
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***I wonder if he will even say anything to me the day of? If he doesn't- then I won't be making any efforts to stay in touch with him. He has my number he can call when and if he's ready. It just sucks letting go of someone who you care so much about, but yet it hurts so much to hold on to someone who doesn't treat you the way you should be treated.***
CaperAries - he isn't mistreating you in any way according to what the two of you have. Sex - he is being distant because he senses you want more and he isn't ready for that. He is trying to be fair to you and he can tell you can no longer handle a casual relationship. No he won't speak to you at work, they don't take well to emotional talk and don't like to mix business with pleasure. He would be a different person if you were in a relationship, but you aren't.
Astrology is more like a guide or Personalities for Dummies. You need to get to the root or source of your depression.
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***BTW- this will be the first guy who I was unable to win over. So I'm just hoping to God my out of sight out of mind tactics will work for me.***
It won't work. If he isn't emotionally available and he sees you want more it pushes them further away. Librans can be very capable of having unemotionally attached sex. He told you he isn't ready, there is really nothing you can do to persuade that. He isn't emotionally available right now, not to anyone. So let him go. If he wants a relationship with you later, he will find you, trust me.
Also, if he cares for you and still isn't ready he will still find you once he thinks your emotions have cooled down.