When can you tell it's over
Ok sorry too. LOL! I my be exposing to much of the commitment phobics man's way of getting his needs met out loud so, maybe I might need to just shut up myself and let the women on the boards who have experience excruitiating pain for loving too much hurt lol!
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you know what, I believe that. I guess I was getting a lil caught up in the moment and all. So Im just going to say No if he ever asks me out. Its just that sumtimez i think I am never going to find someone to real. My last relationship was a flippen joke. Im not going to turn into a man hater. Its just that i give my real self and expect them to be honest as well but in the end, It was just a temporary distraction. Im going to focus on me. but every now and then i get sentimental....
***Doesn't it look weird to you Casper that you are asked to walk away by a group of non libra people? Even non air to begin with. It reminds me those camera men in India who claim to have expertise on shooting visual effects shots just because they have handled the camera for a set of lousy dance films.***
LoL!!! Casper - remember this is advice coming from a person who flew to stalk someone who didn't want to be with him!!! Don't get your feelings hurt like he did. The scorps and Taurus (by the way who is still in a relationship with a libra) are women who have dealt with libran men in relationships, and for myself a long compatible marriage for mose of our 8 years together. Remember thelibran hasn't been in a long relationship with any sign. He is also a libra male... LOL!!! They love when people chase them even when they know they won't or aren't ready to reciprocate. Be smart girl, which I know you will be being an Aries... Not that you aren't compatible with Librans, this one is just not emotionally available. I personally think you deserve the love and affection you give to be reciprocated. Life is short, be happy...
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LoL!!! Casper - remember this is advice coming from a person who flew to stalk someone who didn't want to be with him!!! Don't get your feelings hurt like he did. The scorps and Taurus (by the way who is still in a relationship with a libra) are women who have dealt with libran men in relationships, and for myself a long compatible marriage for mose of our 8 years together. Remember thelibran hasn't been in a long relationship with any sign. He is also a libra male... LOL!!! They love when people chase them even when they know they won't or aren't ready to reciprocate. Be smart girl, which I know you will be being an Aries... Not that you aren't compatible with Librans, this one is just not emotionally available. I personally think you deserve the love and affection you give to be reciprocated. Life is short, be happy...
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"If you're looking for non-stop, intense, imaginative (& perverted if you request) action, you know who to turn to."
Oh, I know all too well. It's the the mind games with the Scorps that I have a problem with. Well...and the lying. lol But I've just been with the bad ones, I think.
Oh, I know all too well. It's the the mind games with the Scorps that I have a problem with. Well...and the lying. lol But I've just been with the bad ones, I think.
***So I sure hope he says something to me! lol otherwise I will then realize he seriously doesn't give two craps about me and never did.***
This doesn't mean he never cared about you, just not ready for a relationship.
This doesn't mean he never cared about you, just not ready for a relationship.
"You just need to give em a good spanking every now and then
Keep em in check. Know what I'm saying??????"
I tried that. But, you know, when they're begging for it, it's not really a punishment.
Keep em in check. Know what I'm saying??????"
I tried that. But, you know, when they're begging for it, it's not really a punishment.
"Me too. It's hard to find a good Scorp though. A lot of them are cruel. Still, there have to be some good ones somewhere."
Women like to play mind games, and so do Scorps.
So when you have a Scorp women, prepare to be mentally lubed....
Women like to play mind games, and so do Scorps.
So when you have a Scorp women, prepare to be mentally lubed....
"You just need to give em a good spanking every now and then"
I was thinking you needed a good spanking TB.
I was thinking you needed a good spanking TB.
** Written today during my 1 hour civil service lunch period. **
katout,
I'm a Virgo man, and my first adult love was a Taurus woman - I fell for her like a ton of bricks. There was no doubt in her mind that I was smitten!
Your Virgo sounds young and/or immature. If he's not, then odds are he's not interested in you as a girlfriend. If he is young, try and be patient with him - we're not easy guys to date when we're young! I'm much more persistent when I'm really after a girl, but lots of Virgs I know are more of the typical start / stop / start again variety. It'll drive you crazy! The best advice I can give is just be your groovy Taurus self, and let him make the next move. If he doesn't after another week or two, try to move on... he may just not be ready for the real thing!
Ferghus, welcome back!
You missed some zany stuff: I married my Scorp back in OCT '06, and we just had Twin Scorps - a girl & a boy - back in NOV. Add my original Scorp daughter to the mix, and I now have four Scorps to contend with... holy moly!
I hope your year or so away from DXP has been saner!
virgo_nation: "If a Virgo guy likes you he's not going to go missing for 3 weeks."
I tend to agree with you, because I'm that way -- but I work with 4 VirGuys, and 3 of them are not as decisive as I am about women. My Virgo Dad was also more push-pull -- drove my Leo Mom nutz! So what'd she do? Married him! (That'll teach him a lesson!)
I've said it before: Virgos make lousy boyfriends / dates, but very good husbands / fathers.
katout, I agree with Confused Cancer: "If you really believe that giving him space will bring you closer...try it...but I would see other people in the meanwhile as well."
Oh, and about this you can't change a Virgo bullsh1t: Yes, we are resistant to change, but we are also a mutable sign - Virgo is considered mutable because of their flexibility in filling for other people, their reliability, and ability to work and think in the spur of moment. [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mutable_sign]
HP, what TJ said and also add... "You should be afraid to eat the candy since he made a natural air condiioner in their ceiling." Maybe he should give the candy away and join Jenny Craig... LOL!!!!
Here's the Real Deal: If we like/love you, we'll change some for you. But, you have to be in our Circle Of Trust to have the influence, and lots of people give up before they get there. Just started dating? Forget it! Unless I'm really hooked on you, I'm not gonna move much in the beginning (Earth Sign here!). Once I commit, it's a totally different story - I let my ScorpWife talk me into starting a family again, and I'm bucking 50! (Uh, and I had to get my vasectomy reversed, too!)
My VirDad remarried back during the summer after 11+ years as a widower -- his new wife is a Taurus (Aries cusp); and even at 83, he's made some changes for her in some of his sacred routines.