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Apr 10, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 329 · Topics: 23
This is one of those things that's easier said than done, especially for me, but it's had remarkable results whenever I've managed to put it into practice. This has also been hinted at earlier, but bears repeating.
Go out and live a glorious, full life.
If you want to date someone else, date him. If you want to sleep with someone else, go right ahead. If you want to go to Ohio alone, go, or otherwise don't. If you want to spend 72 hours in bed with ice cream and books, rock on.
What I'm getting at is that you should find as many ways as possible to inject as much joy and life into your world that you can. Stop for a moment and look deep inside your heart to figure out what **you** (as opposed to anyone else) can do to make yourself happy.
I'm saying this not to judge you katout, but because I see a lot of myself in you. I'd be a total hypocrite if I didn't add that I struggle with this every day. I wear my heart on my sleeve, am ridiculously prone to romantic fantasizing, and have a perhaps too healthy sexual appetite. Sue me. I'm learning. It takes a lot of practice to put myself first, but I'm getting better at it (slowly and in very small increments, but hey).
I'd say your virgo is probably no better or no worse than anyone else in the world. He's doing his thing and, if you not liking it makes him a douche, so be it. My personal label of choice is fuckwad, but let's not get into semantics. Just remember that he, like you, is probably doing the best he can to make it through the day. Let him concentrate on himself while you do the same for yourself.
Good luck with everything!
I've been with my Virgo man for 2 years....never had a problem with this - probably because i kept him chasing me for awhile because i wasn't sure i wanted to be in a relationship.
I know my Virgo doesn't always respond to texts and phone calls....sometimes he's just sitting at home doing his own thing and doesn't want to be bothered. It took him months before he would even hold my hand in public....Its like they need to be eased into the whole relationship deal.
Don't pressure him, Leave him be - if he likes you he'll be back! I know i know, easier said than done. Just keep doing your single gal things! They respect that!
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Mar 13, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 7566 · Topics: 155
Wysdum, but look at the main ones.. starting from the top and the ascendant.. I only see fire and scorpio. I won't debate it with you; I agree air is important, especially mars.
Latina, you're right about the magical and whimsical thing. Things are always the first time and are never boring. When it gets boring, it gets shaken up so it's new again. That's how boredom is prevented.
Actually, everything can be solved with love. Alot of couples charts are very difficult, but they choose to stay on. It depends on preferences of course, but nothing is impossible. Take for example if your child was difficult, lets say you have a libra child.. would you abandon them and not look back? No, you stay together for what is.. It's a choice.. and there's no perfect partner, it's just what you learn about yourself from it, like latina said.
I don't know I'd say that in a few years down the road, but if my guy turns abusive or repeats the same thing out of spite vice or anything that isn't justified, I may break it off with him too. So I guess it's the journey that counts, and the love you share.
But you can be sure that a libra won't hurt someone they love, except through the parts of themselves that they are trying to resolve, or to get a better reaction of love from their partner.
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Oct 08, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 2906 · Topics: 93
P-Angel: "That was on July 1, 1982 ... he's still here."
Yeah, but if your Virgo husband of 25+ years really is having anal sex with a man, what kind of marriage are you in? Talk about a bizarre new twist on marital bliss!!
v-lady: "Go out and live a glorious, full life." & "Let him concentrate on himself while you do the same for yourself."
Great Virgo logic!
He may grow up one day, but why should you wait for him??
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