I've just had a first date with a cap- please help

What was your initial text to him? I don't think meeting others should even be discussed at this stage, let alone agreeing or expecting him/you not to consider others. Just get the 2nd date and see where it goes. I'd just respond with something like, Look forward to that and seeing you again!

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LOL....must be!!!
i'm thinking strong Taurus in the chart would be great ..'passion & sensuality combined with strength & stability. And if Taurus is on his 7th house descendant of (relationships), which i think, then an added bonus!
dont sweat him .......lots of fishys in the sea.....smile
hmmm, I always forget about earth signs...especially taurus. That doesnt sound too bad for him. I reckon it could work well actually.
How lovely!
Perhaps it was to help with your low self-esteem! smile
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(( Whatever the case you went to see her without her knowledge or agreement))
I mailed her twice and called her once before I landed there. I dont just walk into someones office. And my ex scorp wanted me to leave her and concentrate on my career for a while. I asked her to join me when I felt I was settled. She didnt wanted to. See.... Again assumptions. When will you ever stop assuming and judging a libra based on that?? I never like this part whenever i deal with scorp women. They just assume over our head even when we have told them everything we know. They simply cannot put those simple words together and try to understand the situation as how we know.

(( So, clearly I am speaking from MY EXPERIENCE with them as well as my lasting relationships and marriage with librans. ))
You know sometimes when a person is a bit of a bully, most people avoid them. Still libra takes them under their wings and give them company. If things didnt worked for you with taurus, cancer and pisces, have you ever cared to find out what was their side of story? Or check out another cancer, taurus or pisces? No. You were quite prejudiced by then. You only tried to experiment with libra bcoz only they made you emotional. Bcoz of the same emotional components, you wish to think that it works better for you.
To me, making a thing work is not like making it work for 4-5 years. Its like building a phone which can work only for 5 years and after that it faces forced obsolescence. So unless you have any plans to stick with a libra forever, why try chasing a libra? Why leave them broken and then let them chase you? Do you enjoy doing that to a libra?

(( It always going o be the woman bending 'a little'. In any pairing/sign relationship ))
air with air - both bends
air with fire - air bends more than fire
air with water - obviously air bends
air with earth - air has once again no choice than to bend.
it doesn't change for man or women.
1) I don't know if I'm a good detective but I can think of solutions for emergency situations very quickly - that's what my friends told me.Curiosity ... I'm curious about human nature ...everything about the human being... YOU are so fascinating...I love all of you ... your beauty...your bright side ... even your wicked side... so fragile..so lovely...that's what make me feel more sympathised ...it touches me deeply....Love that I feel for all of you is so deeply that sometimes I think it can overwhelme me and make me forget about the special person I'm supposed to focus my attention lol! That's why I can appear so aloof and evasive ... My mind need some recharge ...My heart needs to rest for awhile ... It isn't game playing...I just love too much ...
There are many questions and many answers but I've learnt long time ago that there aren't definite right or wrong answers . Everyone has their own version of truths and I respect that.I hope you can respect me for that too . However , if you insist to stick with your view and yell at me that I'm wrong,I still respect you for your passion and your persistence!Basically,it's really hard to get to me because it seems that I can always see the lovely side of YOU.
2)I'm curious but definitely not nosy so I respect your privacy . I want to know you because I hope we can connect but there are different level of connections so I can find other ways to suit both of us !
3)I never notice that I stare at people till one of my Pisces friend told me "Stop that stare or one day you can get someone misunderstand that you fancy them/scare them !" Honestly , I've no intention of that....I didn't know my eyes are too intense...Often I look at you but my mind is somewhere else ...
4)I appear like a Gemini .. too talkative and flirty...Unless you've known me for along time,otherwise most people think I'm a Gemini...I don't like that image but oh well , it's useful in some other time Tongue
5)Pisces seem nicer than Cancer ... I feel Cancer can be too dark and moody for me ...I love joking and laughters... I'm not so sure ...
6)Yes,definitely!I can be too determined and persistent , especially when the situation becomes difficult and impossible to turn around(people said that)
Aries are often confrontational and loud.I prefer compromises, what work best for both parties but if I sense something unfair,subtlety is more my style .Hopefully,I don't have to use the last tactic in my book : manipulation . I detest that
~mystic_fish now you know all my secrets , you should lock your doors tight at night Tongue
Just kidding smile