The Leo and His Den!
I sent him an e-mail about my feelings on this and he basically wrote back that he feels safe and comfortable in his own home and that he has control issues about having all of his stuff around him and having what he wants when he wants it. He said he is a creature of habit and needs his creature comforts. He then half heartedly said "I guess I could come to your house on Friday" like he is being tortured or something. LOL!
I'm not totally satisfied with this answer and still think it seems pretty selfish. I feel like he is not concerned about my comfort only his own even though when I am there he goes way out of his way to spoil me and make sure I am comfortable and in fact I do feel very comfortable at his house. It is much bigger and nicer than my place and he has offered to move inland about 20 minutes if it works out between us. It's just the principle of the fact that he is so inflexible and I'm worried that if he is this inflexible about this that he will be inflexible about other things too.
Argh!! I'm so torn. Everyone has their issues and I guess if that his only one I can live with that. I just won't go to his house unless it is totally convenient for me which will be basically just once a week and if he wants to see me more than that then he will have to either come to my house or put a ring on my finger and move me in :-)
I'm not totally satisfied with this answer and still think it seems pretty selfish. I feel like he is not concerned about my comfort only his own even though when I am there he goes way out of his way to spoil me and make sure I am comfortable and in fact I do feel very comfortable at his house. It is much bigger and nicer than my place and he has offered to move inland about 20 minutes if it works out between us. It's just the principle of the fact that he is so inflexible and I'm worried that if he is this inflexible about this that he will be inflexible about other things too.
Argh!! I'm so torn. Everyone has their issues and I guess if that his only one I can live with that. I just won't go to his house unless it is totally convenient for me which will be basically just once a week and if he wants to see me more than that then he will have to either come to my house or put a ring on my finger and move me in :-)
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