The Leo and His Den!
" he feels safe and comfortable in his own home and that he has control issues about having all of his stuff around him and having what he wants when he wants it. He said he is a creature of habit and needs his creature comforts. He then half heartedly said "I guess I could come to your house on Friday" like he is being tortured or something. LOL!"
He told you the truth, his truth and yes it is torture lol! For him atleast it is.
"I'm not totally satisfied with this answer and still think it seems pretty selfish."
selfish is the operative word, get used to it when dealing with some leo men, he wants what he wants, how he wants it, when he wants it, he's already showing these signs, if u give him a struggle about it he will soon move away from the relationship, can't force a lion to do anything ever. He may give in but he will not be happy about it and may find someone a bit more flexible to his needs. There are ways to get what you want but it won't be thru too much talking, nagging, ultimatums, it won't be thru struggling with him.
"I feel like he is not concerned about my comfort only his own even though when I am there he goes way out of his way to spoil me and make sure I am comfortable and in fact I do feel very comfortable at his house. It's just the principle of the fact that he is so inflexible and I'm worried that if he is this inflexible about this that he will be inflexible about other things too."
Your leo is concerned with u and your comfort on his terms not yours, he's concerned with his effect on you but that doesn't mean he's all that concerned about you and your needs on your terms, sorry if that sounds harsh but I been dealing with leo men through out my life, I would suggest you slow down, let him chase a bit, he will become bored quickly so don't lay all your cards on the table jus yet, be a bit elusive and indifferent to him, don't allow him to see it bothers you so much, his inflexible nature isn't going to change b/c he loves you.
Your already caught, you have been snared in the lions den, he's not going to put in a lot of effort to go further thus he feels no need to pursue you by coming to your place they can be some lazy lions, you sense the lack of balance already lol, do things as you said only at your convienance, back up a bit okay, don't be so accessible and this will get him back into chasing...never let a male lion conquer you, he will soon ignore you out of boredom, its not personal, its jus the way is
He told you the truth, his truth and yes it is torture lol! For him atleast it is.
"I'm not totally satisfied with this answer and still think it seems pretty selfish."
selfish is the operative word, get used to it when dealing with some leo men, he wants what he wants, how he wants it, when he wants it, he's already showing these signs, if u give him a struggle about it he will soon move away from the relationship, can't force a lion to do anything ever. He may give in but he will not be happy about it and may find someone a bit more flexible to his needs. There are ways to get what you want but it won't be thru too much talking, nagging, ultimatums, it won't be thru struggling with him.
"I feel like he is not concerned about my comfort only his own even though when I am there he goes way out of his way to spoil me and make sure I am comfortable and in fact I do feel very comfortable at his house. It's just the principle of the fact that he is so inflexible and I'm worried that if he is this inflexible about this that he will be inflexible about other things too."
Your leo is concerned with u and your comfort on his terms not yours, he's concerned with his effect on you but that doesn't mean he's all that concerned about you and your needs on your terms, sorry if that sounds harsh but I been dealing with leo men through out my life, I would suggest you slow down, let him chase a bit, he will become bored quickly so don't lay all your cards on the table jus yet, be a bit elusive and indifferent to him, don't allow him to see it bothers you so much, his inflexible nature isn't going to change b/c he loves you.
Your already caught, you have been snared in the lions den, he's not going to put in a lot of effort to go further thus he feels no need to pursue you by coming to your place they can be some lazy lions, you sense the lack of balance already lol, do things as you said only at your convienance, back up a bit okay, don't be so accessible and this will get him back into chasing...never let a male lion conquer you, he will soon ignore you out of boredom, its not personal, its jus the way is
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(( But where's the looking into someone's eyes, or reading their body language? )) some people are good in hiding it and we always get the wrong idea about their character. Appearances can be deceiving. And our brain miscalculates so much when we get fake body languages and gestures.
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Atlantic Myst, which deck do you have?
I bought myself a new one for 2008 - The Medieval Scapini Deck:
http://www.aeclectic.net/tarot/cards/medieval-scapini/
It's so lovely and I've been wanting it for years.
Atlantic Myst, which deck do you have?
I bought myself a new one for 2008 - The Medieval Scapini Deck:
http://www.aeclectic.net/tarot/cards/medieval-scapini/
It's so lovely and I've been wanting it for years.
As for my resolutions:
I dont like to make any so i cant say I've broken any. I just want a good year.
I dont like to make any so i cant say I've broken any. I just want a good year.
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Your welcome thelibran.
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I dont agree.
I dont agree.
(( cmon babe be a little positive. ))
being positive is easy for me. it comes naturally. But its gonna end up making 2 people hurt. too much to pay for being positive. and we cannot do anything about other water signs being boring.
being positive is easy for me. it comes naturally. But its gonna end up making 2 people hurt. too much to pay for being positive. and we cannot do anything about other water signs being boring.