taurus man/libra girl
"If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with!"
so your telling me to settle...? hahahahaha..... no =P
so your telling me to settle...? hahahahaha..... no =P
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I have had a one night stand or two. Most turn into relationships though. I really have no problem whatsoever having sex with someone I am not in love with. I really don't need sex to have meaning to be fufilled. Sure it is better when you have a partner you are connected to and will repeat the experience with but that is because you aren't worried, "where your next shag is coming from." Sorry to be blunt but that is how I think and where my next shag was coming from was very much the huge worry of my single life.
I use to be more prudish but having gone through a few years of being single after spending my whole adult life in monogomous long term relationships ... I don't think sex is half the deal I made it out to be and I found the lack of reliable sex painful.
I actually think sex with a friend is a beautiful thing because you love the person but there is none of that possessive bullshit people get into in unhealthy romantic relationships. You love them but they aren't it for you long term. If you are friends, you aren't dating probably because both or one of you know it isn't going to work longterm.
I use to be more prudish but having gone through a few years of being single after spending my whole adult life in monogomous long term relationships ... I don't think sex is half the deal I made it out to be and I found the lack of reliable sex painful.
I actually think sex with a friend is a beautiful thing because you love the person but there is none of that possessive bullshit people get into in unhealthy romantic relationships. You love them but they aren't it for you long term. If you are friends, you aren't dating probably because both or one of you know it isn't going to work longterm.
A cap man will do anything to make you happy whether it makes him happy or not. Still doesnt meen your ment for each other. Other men will do the same but in their own way. Not just caps.
(((HP)))
Not sure what is going on with you but just lettin' you know I am thinking of you.
Not sure what is going on with you but just lettin' you know I am thinking of you.
Two things, CapVirgo .. ok, maybe more because I think a lot, and one thought leads to ten others.
1. Her getting defensive when you asked this question: We have this sense of honour about the self (probably inflated), in which we will defy against another person who doesn't believe in it, in us. And this usually leads to getting our fins ruffled. However, we normally only do (behave) this, if we care about what you think. If we didn't care, then you could accuse away and we'll remain composed (which she did with Leo = she stopped caring what he thought). So, this attitude she had with you is double-fold .... she got her knickers up because you doubted her integrity of having control over herself/she only got her knickers up over it because she cares about what you think about her.
2. And I'm sorry to say this, but .... we live within our environments, and though her intentions are to just live with this other man for economical/other beneficial reasons ... eventually, she will adapt to him and his needs. Our purpose in life is to provide love to the people we care about/to the people who care about us. So, IF this Virgo man is caring and concerned, gives her a shoulder to lean on, helps her (which is the Virgo mission = to assist/provide) .. then her heart will become enamoured over him. Now, this isn't to say that she will fall "in love" with him, for a connection has to be present for a Pisces to give their love .... I'm saying that even if she is just friends with this man .. she WILL take care of him in a loving way, if he is taking care of her.
*** It's not a good idea for her to live with another man ... warning, warning, warning ***
And the thing is, if you try to tell her your concerns .. she will likely defy you because you didn't trust in her. In your position, I would probably go behind her back and have a talk with the Virgo, though, if she ever found out about this then she would be rightly pissed. But, Virgo's understand honour, trust and dignity, so it's likely that he would maintain his boundaries. Tell him that she is vulnerable right now, and alone .. a man talk from one to another about territory.
**Girls will likely kick my butt for saying that**
1. Her getting defensive when you asked this question: We have this sense of honour about the self (probably inflated), in which we will defy against another person who doesn't believe in it, in us. And this usually leads to getting our fins ruffled. However, we normally only do (behave) this, if we care about what you think. If we didn't care, then you could accuse away and we'll remain composed (which she did with Leo = she stopped caring what he thought). So, this attitude she had with you is double-fold .... she got her knickers up because you doubted her integrity of having control over herself/she only got her knickers up over it because she cares about what you think about her.
2. And I'm sorry to say this, but .... we live within our environments, and though her intentions are to just live with this other man for economical/other beneficial reasons ... eventually, she will adapt to him and his needs. Our purpose in life is to provide love to the people we care about/to the people who care about us. So, IF this Virgo man is caring and concerned, gives her a shoulder to lean on, helps her (which is the Virgo mission = to assist/provide) .. then her heart will become enamoured over him. Now, this isn't to say that she will fall "in love" with him, for a connection has to be present for a Pisces to give their love .... I'm saying that even if she is just friends with this man .. she WILL take care of him in a loving way, if he is taking care of her.
*** It's not a good idea for her to live with another man ... warning, warning, warning ***
And the thing is, if you try to tell her your concerns .. she will likely defy you because you didn't trust in her. In your position, I would probably go behind her back and have a talk with the Virgo, though, if she ever found out about this then she would be rightly pissed. But, Virgo's understand honour, trust and dignity, so it's likely that he would maintain his boundaries. Tell him that she is vulnerable right now, and alone .. a man talk from one to another about territory.
**Girls will likely kick my butt for saying that**
Aren't Tauruses and Scorpios polar (opposite) signs?
You've been posting about her for some time now, CapVirgo, and it breaks my heart because you obviously think the world of her. I hope she realizes how fortunate she is to have such a caring companion.
We confuse a lot of people, so I understand your feeling so left in the dark. One thing about us, that you already know, but, I'll say it anyway .. what we want/desire more than anything else, is to have a person who believes in us .. not just tolerate, or passify .. actually stands by our side because they KNOW who we are, why we are .. so, if you continue to validate this within her, even via phone/text .. she'll remain loyal to you because you "get" her.
That's a lot of effort on your part, however, from how much you love her, I doubt it will be a burden to you. We are funny creatures .. we want you to dominate your loving feelings for us, without actually dominating our choices/decisions .. in other words, if we know that your determination is for the purpose of loving us completely, then we will respond accordingly on our own.
I feel bad now that I said all this to you because I know you love her with all your heart and you're looking for some kind of answers and I don't know what to tell you.
We confuse a lot of people, so I understand your feeling so left in the dark. One thing about us, that you already know, but, I'll say it anyway .. what we want/desire more than anything else, is to have a person who believes in us .. not just tolerate, or passify .. actually stands by our side because they KNOW who we are, why we are .. so, if you continue to validate this within her, even via phone/text .. she'll remain loyal to you because you "get" her.
That's a lot of effort on your part, however, from how much you love her, I doubt it will be a burden to you. We are funny creatures .. we want you to dominate your loving feelings for us, without actually dominating our choices/decisions .. in other words, if we know that your determination is for the purpose of loving us completely, then we will respond accordingly on our own.
I feel bad now that I said all this to you because I know you love her with all your heart and you're looking for some kind of answers and I don't know what to tell you.
Abnormal Virgo behaviour for an unusual Cancerians....
Come on old buddy?..!
It is no surprise at all?.!
Come on old buddy?..!
It is no surprise at all?.!
I like the tarot too, and basically read for myself every now and then. i own a small collection, at the moment. i really like this Egyptian set, quite interesting; said to have talismanic qualities. My next tarot cards will contain no major arcana, so something unique and different there. Tarot decks really are works of art and fun to collect! s*
(i also own a set of 'rune stones'...easy to use & amazingly accurate.)
(i also own a set of 'rune stones'...easy to use & amazingly accurate.)
Well ya, he collected some connections during my rift with him, and do you think they could let go even if he wanted? One in particular is still sticking around, even though he made it subtly clear. We can't undo what we start; I learnt my lesson.
I have a feeling libra gets the connection from talking to a friend about their relationship troubles - that's where the other connection starts.
My guy has venus in libra; he's a bit different from you though, so I'm not lumping anyone in categories.
"You are making women a sport by playing with their hearts and lives for your pleasure."
I got to disagree there TOJ, they don't play for pleasure this way.. it's just libra sometimes enjoy people too much and like being with different energies.
They don't sleep around; just the emotional connection in friendships. The girls don't realise that he is different as a friend and a lover. I had to take a breather, because my Libra as a friend and a partner is different. He is not afraid of the formality of friendship.
I have a feeling libra gets the connection from talking to a friend about their relationship troubles - that's where the other connection starts.
My guy has venus in libra; he's a bit different from you though, so I'm not lumping anyone in categories.
"You are making women a sport by playing with their hearts and lives for your pleasure."
I got to disagree there TOJ, they don't play for pleasure this way.. it's just libra sometimes enjoy people too much and like being with different energies.
They don't sleep around; just the emotional connection in friendships. The girls don't realise that he is different as a friend and a lover. I had to take a breather, because my Libra as a friend and a partner is different. He is not afraid of the formality of friendship.
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