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Oct 13, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 436 · Topics: 12
Spica I get that they are very social and they like to be around a lot of different energies but wouldn't "keeping your options open" also include the opportunity to sleep with as many different women as they can with no intent to develop a relationship with any one of them beyond that? to live like a "virus" (as the Libran is doing) infecting people ultimately with pain as "experimental subjects"?
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
* But the relationship is so unfairly unbalanced and that just defies logic because Libra's are supposed to be the scales and work at balancing things fairly.
Libra is a *BALANCING* sign NOT a balanced sign. There is a huge difference.
Joi
Your relationship is off-center because you give away all the power in the relationship. You accept less than you deserve. Many women do this. You cannot expect the relationship to be balanced when you aren't holding your end.
(((joi)))
I have been there. I know.
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Dec 12, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 990 · Topics: 22
I'm sorry, what was that, Roxi the Reefer girl?
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
* LS is against anything that originates from web.
Clarifying.
I am not against anything that originates from the web. I am sceptical of ANY long distant relationship where you are dependent on knowing the other person through what they tell you, whether it be meeting the person on the plane once or meeting online. I am HIGHLY sceptical of online relationships that drag on for years without ever meeting/seeing the other person.
You fall in love with a fantasy not the reality.
If they aren't in your life on a daily basis, you have no real idea who they are or what they are up to. They can be lying about any or all of it.
How can you possibly know someone's character without watching them in daily situations? How do you know how they talk to the taxi driver or the waiter? How do you know they offer their seat to an old lady on the subway unless you are there to witness it day after day?
If someone is right around the corner or in your city and you meet online then meet in real life ... I have no issue with that at all. Lots of people do it. But when it starts online and stays online with no real daily interaction ... you need to ask why and what they are hiding.
I find a lot of people in long distance relationships crave a relationship/partner but fear the intamacy of day to day life. MOST long distance relationships end when the one of the partners decides they want the real thing.
The girl didn't want to meet you. Looking her up and showing up at her workplace even if it wasn't her *STILL* is stalking and bad form. It is the intent that matters.
* Living with and knowing someone for a lifetime does not necessarily mean one understands them. I have lived in close proximity with a water sign who has never known me truly. They can only guess from what I tell them, or if they really tried, remembered my responses.
Hear! Hear!
People believe what you tell them. Unless some natural level of understanding exists between the two people (what I call compatibility) they will never truly understand each other at a deep level.
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Dec 01, 2005Comments: 11 · Posts: 1565 · Topics: 18
You told him it's over. You don't trust him. You can give him another chance, but first it's evident that you need some time to get control over your own insecurity when it comes to a relationship with him.
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Dec 12, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 990 · Topics: 22
"i like 'em more rugged than that - i bet he smells like a girl too."
Well luckily for you I don't ever shave. I've got rugged writen all over me with my ripped leather jacket and jeans, unwashed t-shirt, and hairy butt. And you don't have to worry about me smelling like a girl either. By the time I'm done with you, you'll smell like a piece of crap too. You'll be begging for more.
Some say it's bad hygene... I tell them it's ...bad ass.
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