Cancer men and negative thinking
You're right there MsPisces -
I am condradictory. Thanks for picking up on that here. I reckon its in my nature to be..I cant help it.
What I meant was.. I would like him to remain Himself but just a little more positive. I am a very good listener and I understand him a great deal (He knows this), but to be honest..it drains me sometimes.
I do have a good listening ear but when I am in a low mood, I hide it (as most Scorpios do), so he doesnt know that I am feeling low, therefore he rants on anyway.
But if I tell him that Im not feeling up to listening to him -I dont im to feel offended or rejected. He will then ask me whats wrong and I cant talk to people about whats bothering me. I can handle my own problems and I hate being a burden on others. I just need time.
I am condradictory. Thanks for picking up on that here. I reckon its in my nature to be..I cant help it.
What I meant was.. I would like him to remain Himself but just a little more positive. I am a very good listener and I understand him a great deal (He knows this), but to be honest..it drains me sometimes.
I do have a good listening ear but when I am in a low mood, I hide it (as most Scorpios do), so he doesnt know that I am feeling low, therefore he rants on anyway.
But if I tell him that Im not feeling up to listening to him -I dont im to feel offended or rejected. He will then ask me whats wrong and I cant talk to people about whats bothering me. I can handle my own problems and I hate being a burden on others. I just need time.
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"Leo - libra is such a strong, strong, strong connection. I (Libra) went through the ping pong with a Leo man for awhile, Chatz (A leo) went through it with a Libra man. I think Leo-Libra can be a perfect relationship *IF* the time is right. Unfortunetly, in all our cases it wasn't so we are all licking our wounds and they seemingly take such a long time to heal.
I think if you want a loving committed partnership this guy is incapable of being that person for you right now. Instead of forcing things, perhaps if you step away for a year or so he will seek you out in the future when you are both ready. Nothing is certain in life these days ... not even good-byes"
ABSOLUTELY.....my advice? hmmmm ok well having gone through just over a year of this same sort of scenario (a bloody Libran who has so much emotional baggage from exes, kids, trust issues, etc) I can only say..Remember what you had and hold it dear to you but you must move on and date other men...he maybe the best connection, the most handsome man, the sexiest voice and OMG the sex is amazing but he's not ready and its not worth waiting and hanging onto...if he really truly wants you, he will seek you out (and yes mine continually pops back into my life when Ive ignored him - not intentionally but if he wasnt ready for me then he doesnt deserve all of my time either). Perhaps in a year or so if you are both single you can hook up again. Im sure he isn't angry at you - they dont like being angry and trust me, I have given mine enough reason to be angry at times but he always shines through in the end and that's what r/ships and f/ships are all about - give and take.
Leos are very proud and we hate to lose something precious and losing a love?? OMG the pain!!! but we do bounce back. I dont know about you hurt-heart but when I finally close the door there's no going back to somebody who didnt value me as I did them and that is why we leave the door open for so long.
If you have apologised and he acknowledged it, I'd go on with my life (I know its easier said than done)...there are so many wonderful men out there though who are ready, willing and able to give you what you're ready for. It is frustrating that he pursued you (as was the case with me) and then left you hanging but Im sure that deep down inside he is hurting too - he has a LOT to deal with and the timing just isn't right. Again, maybe some time down the track. As LS said, nothing is certain - not even goodbyes!!
I think if you want a loving committed partnership this guy is incapable of being that person for you right now. Instead of forcing things, perhaps if you step away for a year or so he will seek you out in the future when you are both ready. Nothing is certain in life these days ... not even good-byes"
ABSOLUTELY.....my advice? hmmmm ok well having gone through just over a year of this same sort of scenario (a bloody Libran who has so much emotional baggage from exes, kids, trust issues, etc) I can only say..Remember what you had and hold it dear to you but you must move on and date other men...he maybe the best connection, the most handsome man, the sexiest voice and OMG the sex is amazing but he's not ready and its not worth waiting and hanging onto...if he really truly wants you, he will seek you out (and yes mine continually pops back into my life when Ive ignored him - not intentionally but if he wasnt ready for me then he doesnt deserve all of my time either). Perhaps in a year or so if you are both single you can hook up again. Im sure he isn't angry at you - they dont like being angry and trust me, I have given mine enough reason to be angry at times but he always shines through in the end and that's what r/ships and f/ships are all about - give and take.
Leos are very proud and we hate to lose something precious and losing a love?? OMG the pain!!! but we do bounce back. I dont know about you hurt-heart but when I finally close the door there's no going back to somebody who didnt value me as I did them and that is why we leave the door open for so long.
If you have apologised and he acknowledged it, I'd go on with my life (I know its easier said than done)...there are so many wonderful men out there though who are ready, willing and able to give you what you're ready for. It is frustrating that he pursued you (as was the case with me) and then left you hanging but Im sure that deep down inside he is hurting too - he has a LOT to deal with and the timing just isn't right. Again, maybe some time down the track. As LS said, nothing is certain - not even goodbyes!!
Catholics struggle with it yes...it is frowned upon BIG TIME!!!
Hurt-heart Little Sparrow is right...he's just not ready and he's probably more angry and hurt at himself for dragging you into his nightmare. From what I have seen and experienced with my particular Libra is that they just hide in their shell until they think things have calmed....yours is probably doing the same and in his own way PROTECTING YOU from more pain even though you think he might be an ass for not wanting to talk/re-hash everything - they dont like talking about emotional issues....from my experience anyway.
Protect your own heart and understand he probably does love you but he's not in love with you or he'd move mountains to be with you. He just can't right now.
I accepted this a few months ago myself and yes my Libra even said to me ...."at the end of the day, the timing was just so wrong for us and we wanted different things" but then he went on to say "it will be interesting to see where we both are in a year from now" and "who knows, things might change tomorrow"...you see with mine he would say things like that to keep options open...don't do it to yourself and count yourself lucky that he doesnt continually reach out as mine does - keeps the hope there!!!....you have to heal your heart and the only way to do that is to replace one man with another hehehehe.
It was the only way I could, as LS said..."breathe" again.
Good luck with that too and if you ever need a shoulder/ear/advice? this is the BEST place to come to
xx
Hurt-heart Little Sparrow is right...he's just not ready and he's probably more angry and hurt at himself for dragging you into his nightmare. From what I have seen and experienced with my particular Libra is that they just hide in their shell until they think things have calmed....yours is probably doing the same and in his own way PROTECTING YOU from more pain even though you think he might be an ass for not wanting to talk/re-hash everything - they dont like talking about emotional issues....from my experience anyway.
Protect your own heart and understand he probably does love you but he's not in love with you or he'd move mountains to be with you. He just can't right now.
I accepted this a few months ago myself and yes my Libra even said to me ...."at the end of the day, the timing was just so wrong for us and we wanted different things" but then he went on to say "it will be interesting to see where we both are in a year from now" and "who knows, things might change tomorrow"...you see with mine he would say things like that to keep options open...don't do it to yourself and count yourself lucky that he doesnt continually reach out as mine does - keeps the hope there!!!....you have to heal your heart and the only way to do that is to replace one man with another hehehehe.
It was the only way I could, as LS said..."breathe" again.
Good luck with that too and if you ever need a shoulder/ear/advice? this is the BEST place to come to
xx
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(( the Aquarian Age will have arrived. ))
they say 2150, but i think it will be gradual. If things are as what they say, then slowly humans will learn to get out of their spiritual and emotional blunders and become happy people like aqua's. Or if things go wrong, we will need a chain of mental hospitals like 7-11 around every other corner.
they say 2150, but i think it will be gradual. If things are as what they say, then slowly humans will learn to get out of their spiritual and emotional blunders and become happy people like aqua's. Or if things go wrong, we will need a chain of mental hospitals like 7-11 around every other corner.
nice post. Now i wonder how they can teach people about their strengths and weakness without teaching them astrology. Without astrology, all they have is a general character definition for human beings which technically makes things more and more complicated.
Aw, how sweet Eaglegirl. I have yet to an aqua male counterpart for myself.
How much does that suck!!! !!! !!!...