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Thanks your comments make me feel better....and make me feel stronger..
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Oct 13, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 436 · Topics: 12
****No. Why worry about it? Maybe he knows. Maybe he doesn't. Who cares?**** Sorry LS but that's just cold. Why should you care? Because thoughtful, considerate people care. If you care about the other person than you tend to take those things into consideration.....it shows the kind of person you are. The fact that LATININDIA does care shows concern towards her intentions and interest with the guy and isn't just using him for "a fabulous time" at his expense and embarrassment.
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Thought provoking and one of the greatest Sci-Fi I have ever seen since the Contact..!
Give it a try, won't be disappointed..!
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Oct 13, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 436 · Topics: 12
LatinaIndia you could certainly suggest to him this great place and how much you think he will like it too and with a little laugh in your voice tell him how much you enjoyed the first date but like that first date.........they only take cash!
At least he'll know you really had a nice time on that first date, let him know it was "memorable", but even though maybe he felt uncomfortable about it you'll be showing him it wasn't a negative memory about the shortness of cash. The whole evening kind of stands out more because of it (in a good way). Then offer to pay for the drinks again!
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Oct 13, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 436 · Topics: 12
****Who we are is what we do when no one is looking. How can you know that unless you are watching?
The feelings may be true but that doesn't mean they are based on anything real.****
I'd have to agree with you 100% . I did the LDR and it turned out to be very misleading. When I moved closer and we started to spend more time I was able to make observations and life experiences that could never be ascertained from online dialog. Some things got better for me from the observation and interaction but other things became apparent were things I was not going to accept since I had moved closer. (ie: disappearing and lack of regular communication and contact the way he spoke to strangers, etc.)
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lol ...... even with the right programming, a robot can't "feel" passion. What a hoot !!!!!
Or, one could just hook up with my husband, same thing.
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werner one:can anyone list differences and similarities between Leo and Virgo?
both signs deal with love; more specifically, self love; Leo shows this through his pride, and ego being on display for everyone, and Virgo by tenacious self-containment, and aloofness
innate pomposity/narcissism (Leo is more 'direct' with it and Virgo is just more self-contained, and subtle about herself; she feels no need to show her self to someone beneath herself but this is shown outwardly as 'modesty' and timidity; remember, we often pride ourselves on our ability to be self-contained and stoic. If you've ever seen a Virguy/gal who's just intently watching the world from a corner or with that relaxed gaze in their eye's and a slight smirk, then they're up on that pedestol again; I know many Virgoans would refuse to adimit this but the modesty is a conventional 'mask' that hides what lies beneath; 'still waters' right? that's the way it is; perfectionism is just the indirect form of narcissism.)
Snobbery/arrogance (Again, Leo is simply more direct with it, and Virgo simply shows it through action, rather than words. Virgo is 'morally arrogant' and CAN believe that no one, but NOBODY can be as pure, or as moralistically/idealistically/mentally equal/superior as a result a smug, arrogant character can set in on Virgo that will cause them to brood about inferiority and superiority....end results include some self-inflicted lonliness. Modesty is a way to gain narcissistic supply as well as overt displays of showmanship.....Modesty is just a more 'rational' way of garnering attention 'acknowledge my generosity and kindness; I truly am one extrordinary human being aren't I? Being able to be so beneveolent)
this isn't saying Virgo isn't genuinely all of these things just casting some light onto the character from my perspective; A human being should know that they can't be all good, and possess no shadow side...it's inevitable; you will collide with it for the rest of your life if you fight it. Accept it, and bend it to your will.
Long and short of it, Virgo has more ego than you think, but it's tempered by a rational and flexible mind. She/he despises going beneath herself/himself, and making an 'ass' of her/himself; this woman/man wants things to go according to how she designs them. She is willful, and difficult, but moves only when she deems it 'right' to. I was never a difficult child as far as behavior went, but if my proverbial 'foot' was steped on I woul
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Oct 13, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 436 · Topics: 12
"I always hope that you will try to understand beyond your restricted way of thinking."
LMAO. There's calling the kettle black!. Your arrogance is insulting to some and so extreme at times I can't take you seriously and I have to laugh. It seems that you have been so deeply hurt by someone that you're just bitter and angry. Your perspective is consistently & negatively askew because of it. It isn't because people aren't "getting you" it's because you're so severely "unbalanced" with some kind of inner hostility going on with yourself and you seem to be directing it outward. Go ahead,...get angry and blast me back. I'll be expecting it.
I will say this Libran, sometimes........you come up with some good ones!!
Happy New Year!