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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
MsVirgo .. I'm gonna be frank with you here .. Water People find it very difficult to be with Virgo's because we find the majority of Virgo's to be passion handicapped when it comes to everyday situations. During sex, the Virgo will become impassioned, but, not with anything else.
It's hard to explain this .. when he loses his job, or tells you a sob story, or tries to test you .. he's attempting to evoke emotions. Though people say that Scorpio's and Virgo's are good together, I doubt that to be true .... when something happens in the Scorpio life, they "feel" it extremely, intense. So, now you have a Virgo sitting there, cool/controlled/emotionless about the issue.
Water people have zings that surge through their whole bodies when they encounter most situations, and to be around somebody who doesn't feel these things with us, leaves us resentful.
Example: He lost his job .. at this time, he was having all kinds of feelings run through him. If he had talked to you, since you are a Virgo, you would have likely pointed out all the reasons why he lost his job, where he needs to improve, options open to him of finding new employment. And the thing is .. he is NOT going to be looking for direction in his life ... he will be looking for someone to let him "feel" whatever this intensity is and live it with him, rather than guide him.
Another example: He would tell you sob stories and about how someone came to his rescue. In your eyes, I'm sure you saw this as looking for pity, for you referred to it as "sob" .. you completely disregarded the emotional side of the story and just looked at it logically. He wasn't looking for pity, he was looking for you to show some kind of PASSION.
I don't know how to explain this to a Virgo .. for if I knew how, I wouldn't be failing with trying to get mine to comprehend. We don't need guidance, structure .. we just need you to embrace our feelings with us.
The response from a Virgo when we tell them about what is going through us emotionally .. is a stone-cold wall. And we simply can't live this way .. all Water People. And, I'm not saying the Virgo is wrong, nor the Scorpio, rather ... just too different in the way the two express themselves to find satisfying compatibility.
I thought this was about the kids and not about who's better. Both types of moms have good intentions for their kids. They both display love for their kids just in different manners. The topic about which mom is stronger is better left unspoken.
it's free. what the hell more could you ask from that.
The storyline of the movie was pretty good, but I thought the movie was disappointing. You've got a director who use to direct music videos, now directing a big budget movie. The movie was just a little too short and the ending sucked. There was room for much improvement.
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Feb 19, 2005Comments: 1 · Posts: 4444 · Topics: 44
It depends on how much I love (or loved) the person and the reason we split.
I've gone back with an ex before, and fallen for the "i've changed" line, which, actually, was not a complete lie, but the change wasn't complete enough. It depends on what didn't work in the relationship to start with. If the problems were minor and you've both matured, a second go may work. If the issues were a fundamental part of the personalities, then it's not worth it. The ending will be the same.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
I wonder .. do people ever really "think" about WHY people do stuff?
Or, do they just "see" that things happen and then toss aside?
You say he does things that irritate you, but, just "that" he does them, isn't sufficient enough .. "why" do people do things.
"If things were not on his terms he ignored me and acted as though I wasn't there."
Why? Do you ask yourself this question, or just see that he does it?
There's a reason
"He also has a habit of stretching the truth and everyone knows what is going on with him but, me. When he quit his job... I was the last to know"
Why?
I guess what I'm getting at is that you comprenhend that things are done by him .... yet, want him back, anyway. But, would you want him back if you looked at the reasons why?
If he's ignoring you because he doesn't truth you, then would you want him back? If he just means to control, and has no feelings for you, would you want him back? If he's a compulsive liar, would you want him back?
People just see "that" the wind is blowing .... they rarely look at "what" is in the wind.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
*** trust .......
If he ignores you because he doesn't TRUST you
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
* I have to agree with Little Sparrow (finally ).
Hey! I object! I think! lol!
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
Think about that ...
He ignores me ...
He tests me ...
He treats me bad ....
He's a liar ....
He just wants pity ..
He's all these bad things that made me come in here and vent ..
I want him back ....