Hi Transient -
I'm a Gem female dating a Sadge male, so I can relate to the attraction of opposite signs. I totally love being with him, we have a very intense connection like nothing I've ever experienced before.
One thing that might help you understand the "wall" is that Gemini's are typically more intellectual than emotional. However, in my experience with my Gemini/Sadge relationship, there is no way to avoid heavy, deep emotions. Since I am used to dealing with my emotions in a more intellectual/detached way, this is a challenge for me. I need my space from the relationship just to feel like I am staying in balance between emotions and intellect. I also have a slight fear that if I let go of my intellect and put my emotions out there honestly, I will be hurt like I didn't know I could be.
Gemini's NEED intellectual/emotional freedom in a relationship. We do a lot of processing and analyzing which can keep us detached from our feelings. It's not that Gemini's cannot express feelings, but it will generally take us a long time if the feelings are intense. Especially if he's been burned before....
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
When people are in a relationship, oftentimes, they get upset about their partners wanting, needing .. to find experiences with other people outside of the relationship. And I'm not talking about sex specifically here, rather, just talking, or sharing, enjoying the company of another person ..... and their partner immediately believes that it must mean they are being cheated on, that their partner is trying to hurt them in some way.
To Ladies: Why can't your man go have lunch with a female friend or give her an affectionate peck on the cheek? Why can't he love to have a heart-felt talk about life with her, or share with her what is happening in his world, or go to the movies together?
I honestly don't see where this is any reflection on how he regards his intimate partner.
Why can't a friend of a man, be just that ... even if this friend is female?
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Apr 07, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 525 · Topics: 12
You're right, i should give away all my worldly goods.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
For me, Starfish .. I just have a hard time in relating with people who are driven by jealousy of others, and this is what I see with Gemini's. I guess it's what you mean by playing mind games.
However, this would break-the-deal, no matter the sun sign .. to play for attention because of being jealous of other people, would send me swimming rather quickly for I have many people in life to whom I enjoy and if a partner became displayed any kind of resentment because of not getting ALL attention from me .... the relationship would cease.
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Aug 02, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 109 · Topics: 16
Being a Libra my self, Angel was given to me as a gift for Christmas and I didnt really care for it. I spray it around my room as a air freshener, but I love Dolce and Gabbana light blue.
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Aug 02, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 109 · Topics: 16
They have one for men that smells really good.
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Roxi
i should imagine alot of my resistance is to do with the fear of what change might bring but sometimes the fear of what NOT changing might bring outweighs that.
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