Cancer male acting like a jerk!

OK...this guy's acting like a jerk. I sent him a text and this was communication after quite a long time. So, it was meant to be a general hi/hello text, in addition to mentioning that I had a horrible week. What does he do? Doesn't respond. So, then I ask him why he's being such a jerk. What does he say? He says he's not one (which made me think he might have been offended). He adds that he hasn't gotten onto chat on msn since he can't do that at work. Ummm....he's not at work 24/7 and whatever happened to texting/email/phone call??? You have to realise that this is a long-distance friendship with a 3-hour time difference...but still...so, I was hurt and shot an email conveying how I felt....how distant I felt despite of him telling me that I was one of his "close" friends.....there were other reasons too why I felt distant (which I'm not going to outline here)....
I emailed on Saturday morning....what does he do? DOesn't respond....isn't that great!
Very frustrated with this guy, seriously....he needs to grow up!
Any thoughts? what's going on in his head? do they really mean it when they say thy are close to you even if they don't really "show" it? Is he really being a jerk? or is he insecure and doesn't know what to say or how to handle somethign like this?

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