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Nov 27, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 1914 · Topics: 139
I'm a virgo and I proscrastinate a lot...but I don't think it's a sign thing...
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Jul 17, 2007Comments: 7 · Posts: 2275 · Topics: 58
My cancer love is an introvert. While I always suspected this I also coupled it with the speculation that he was just a big meanie ignoring me. Well he came out and told me he is an introvert and recently he's just been so frustrated because he hasnt even had time for himself. And at first I took it to meant he wants to be alone, but then he went into how he feels he can open with me and tell me things he doesnt usually tell people and that he does want us to become progressively closer. Now dont get me wrong I accept him the way he is and I wouldnt want to change him, Im not asking for tips on how to get him to change or looking for anyone to tell me whats wrong with him. Mostly because Im a bit introverted too....except on a scale from 1 to 10 with him being an 8 introvert Im maybe a 3 or 4. Im not real big into groups and going out but Im also really comfy with letting HIM into my own little intimate world. Im still having to press myself to be really really patient and give him time to let me in his, because he has said he will let me in...he just needs the time and patience. So I need some help from his fellow introvert Crabbies and my fellow introvert Crabby Lovers. I guess I dont have a simple direct question just tips and examples or sharing experiences will work.
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Oct 29, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 335 · Topics: 19
lolz, yes my original post is FAR TO LONG. probably why i havent gotten many responces. next of all... i honestly have known this guy for a year and a half. he knows my sarcastic tone on everything and we have gone on and on for hours with sarcastic remarks on many different issues refering to each other over the year.
I don't think im comming on to strong, even tho internally i just wanna run-jump-and fly into his arms. ive honestly never put that much effort into him since our 'first encounter' where we spent an entire week with each other. i just stoped jumping at him, because i learned that it'll just as candlz said, it will drive them away.
yes i have called him a jackass, because unlike you scorps i DO NOT appreciate the dry humor in regards to my relationship with the person. he's so distant when i'm as happy as a bird in the sky, then hes far to clingy when i dont wanna deal with his words. then he goes on to talk about being with me forever, when i call him on his BS. it doesnt make sense, i havent spoken to him since sat morning and as usual no call (nothing particularly new) and even tho he'll message me sweet things, he will never call. hes a libra / scorp. so hes flaky, possesive, and always has something to laugh at me about. i like being goofy and care-free and it seems like he doesnt get why i can be.
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Jul 17, 2007Comments: 7 · Posts: 2275 · Topics: 58
lol I dont give uh dayum about my ex's. I'd rather devote my time and energy to my current. Pimpin backwards isnt pimpin Pimpin!
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Oct 29, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 335 · Topics: 19
I think from hearing from firestarter, that probably is the best choice of how to deal with a scorp while being a aires. and the disappearing act... is mentally exhausting.