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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
Of the people I know in real life, I don't know any divorced Libras. I know a ton of Libra ladies. Most are married.
I am best at everything.
That is all.
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
* I sort of feel hurt by her just leaving me without even telling me that she wants space or doesn't think we should pursue anything at the moment. She just left me hanging here......
She told you she is really freaked out right now. She also loves her boyfriend and possibly feels like she already did something wrong by going shopping with you so she is avoiding all the drama.
She probably doesn't want to upset her boyfriend. That is where her loyalty lays.
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Oct 13, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 436 · Topics: 12
How many red flags do you need to acknowledge....... the bridge is OUT? Sweetie, just TRY to remove your emotional attachment you have for HIM and keep it in perspective: You are dating him and still trying to get to know one another. What you do know of him so far is he is indecisive, immature, and likes to play games. Don't ever think you are going to change that. That has to come from within him to WANT to change when he is ready!! You're expectations are what are disappointing you because he isn't meeting those expectations.
Also: *****he wanted to know where I wanted to meet him to get it. He said well just call me tomorrow and let me know. He text me bright and early 7:00 a.m. and asked if I was awake and then wanted to know when I wanted to meet him.****** He is asking you when and where. You should have given him a place and time. I am suspecting that things got out of hand when you threw it back at him to decide when or where or something equal to his indecisiveness. (Libras will take FOREVER to decide) He then turned it around on you by saying: ****"if you don't wanna see me then I'll just mail it to you".**** Again, more games. If it's like this now.....it will likely be this way with him again, and again, and......
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Jul 17, 2007Comments: 7 · Posts: 2275 · Topics: 58
Thank you Krobe. I was pretty much morose when I read different articles that told me how much he NEEDS the alone time and that it wasnt a matter of him not wanting to be with me. I felt like I had been pushing and pulling when all he needed me to do was leave him alone lol. I know one solution is that when he does spend time with me, make it calm silent time so that he can regenerate and think even when we are together. I definitely dont want him to feel like I'm trying to trap him, at the same time if I act like I dont want him around he acts like I've said I dont want him around. Which is hard for me because that's played out in a scenario in which I have to be there for him even when he wants to be alone...which leaves me alone and wanting him for the sake of him getting his alone time yet still feeling wanted. And yes, I realize that is balanced by his compromising to come out and let me know I am wanted even when he wants alone time. I know I'm learning from and I do want to be with him so it really isnt a complaint, its just something different and frustrating that Im trying to learn to deal with.
Thanks for your input templeofjaguar ... even though it's not what I wanna hear. It's funny cause he is 24 (the oldest guy I have ever been with) and yet he is the most confusing. Go figure. I thought libra's tell you how they feel?
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Jan 17, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 207 · Topics: 27
Too confusing to look at. Maybe I'll check later if I'm feeling a bit ansty. =)
Pretty nifty, though.