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why the hell are all these Virgos cryin' sheesh!! I've been very popular in school and actually know that many Virgos in my ex high school are quite popular if we're not making people laugh their assess off, then were usually doing something out there.....Virgos try to come off as serious and austere, but fact of it is, we're usually clowns, and rather silly but have a aloof charm/magnetism....I was popular but probably for all the wrong reasons....lol 
Sorry, feeling sorry for myself is just not one of the things that this Virgo will do. Life is what a person makes it, and if you're afraid to step up and take the initiative, then I would expect that person to weep. Why be afraid of the size of life, when you can change it?
Sorry, feeling sorry for myself is just not one of the things that this Virgo will do. Life is what a person makes it, and if you're afraid to step up and take the initiative, then I would expect that person to weep. Why be afraid of the size of life, when you can change it?
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I suppose my question is should you change yourself for someone? What if you feel that these changes are gonna change the person you are too much? How much should you change if you haven't noticed a problem before?
I like the idea of having a partner that makes you a better person, but I feel that sometimes he's draining me. Other bf's haven't mentioned this problem, and I'd been with some of them longer. And none of my friends understand what he's on about.
I'm confused
I suppose my question is should you change yourself for someone? What if you feel that these changes are gonna change the person you are too much? How much should you change if you haven't noticed a problem before?
I like the idea of having a partner that makes you a better person, but I feel that sometimes he's draining me. Other bf's haven't mentioned this problem, and I'd been with some of them longer. And none of my friends understand what he's on about.
I'm confused
* I sort of feel hurt by her just leaving me without even telling me that she wants space or doesn't think we should pursue anything at the moment. She just left me hanging here......
She told you she is really freaked out right now. She also loves her boyfriend and possibly feels like she already did something wrong by going shopping with you so she is avoiding all the drama.
She probably doesn't want to upset her boyfriend. That is where her loyalty lays.
She told you she is really freaked out right now. She also loves her boyfriend and possibly feels like she already did something wrong by going shopping with you so she is avoiding all the drama.
She probably doesn't want to upset her boyfriend. That is where her loyalty lays.
How many red flags do you need to acknowledge....... the bridge is OUT? Sweetie, just TRY to remove your emotional attachment you have for HIM and keep it in perspective: You are dating him and still trying to get to know one another. What you do know of him so far is he is indecisive, immature, and likes to play games. Don't ever think you are going to change that. That has to come from within him to WANT to change when he is ready!! You're expectations are what are disappointing you because he isn't meeting those expectations.
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Thank you Krobe. I was pretty much morose when I read different articles that told me how much he NEEDS the alone time and that it wasnt a matter of him not wanting to be with me. I felt like I had been pushing and pulling when all he needed me to do was leave him alone lol. I know one solution is that when he does spend time with me, make it calm silent time so that he can regenerate and think even when we are together. I definitely dont want him to feel like I'm trying to trap him, at the same time if I act like I dont want him around he acts like I've said I dont want him around. Which is hard for me because that's played out in a scenario in which I have to be there for him even when he wants to be alone...which leaves me alone and wanting him for the sake of him getting his alone time yet still feeling wanted. And yes, I realize that is balanced by his compromising to come out and let me know I am wanted even when he wants alone time. I know I'm learning from and I do want to be with him so it really isnt a complaint, its just something different and frustrating that Im trying to learn to deal with.
Thanks for your input templeofjaguar ... even though it's not what I wanna hear. It's funny cause he is 24 (the oldest guy I have ever been with) and yet he is the most confusing. Go figure. I thought libra's tell you how they feel?
Too confusing to look at. Maybe I'll check later if I'm feeling a bit ansty. =)
Pretty nifty, though.
Pretty nifty, though.
I 2nd what Outcast said. Your zodiac sign really just says what you're prone to do. But not neccessarily what you will do or how you will act.
I think everyone procrastinates from time to time. We all have different ways of showing/hiding it so you can't really point to one sign or another.
I think everyone procrastinates from time to time. We all have different ways of showing/hiding it so you can't really point to one sign or another.
I've had 2 relationships with Gems, both of whom I still speak to now, but one more than the other. The last one already had a gf, but didn't feel the need to tell me, and that really hurt me cos I really, really liked him. I love their flirtiness and the way they can transfer their energy onto me so that I actually go out and do things instead of just thinking about it!
Maybe I like Gems more cos of my Gem moon.
And I agree with SF about their friendship!
Maybe I like Gems more cos of my Gem moon.
And I agree with SF about their friendship!
I don't believe in this new age thing but it kinda just makes wonder if it is- the one world goverment- that will come to be that is written of in the bible? And one of it's teachings it says that the world or what ever it is they are trying to cram down ppls throats is that; one of their famous lines, might i add, 'is that the world is moving towards it or something like that.'
This stuff is bull-shit but I have this Aquarian who says/claims that New Age is from Astrology,
I told him he's deluded, that New age takes alil of this and that from other religions cos they are not original enough to come up with their OWN shit.
So that is why I ask?
My original question up there......
Does anyone know??? cos I not sure if I do but I read that -what I said of it- up there on the web.
This stuff is bull-shit but I have this Aquarian who says/claims that New Age is from Astrology,
I told him he's deluded, that New age takes alil of this and that from other religions cos they are not original enough to come up with their OWN shit.
So that is why I ask?
My original question up there......
Does anyone know??? cos I not sure if I do but I read that -what I said of it- up there on the web.
I really wouldn't call it alone time. It is not like he "wants" to be alone, it's by nature he wants freedom and independence and time to "think". He can feel you in his heart but he doesn't require spending alot of time with you in order to love you. I know it doesn't make sense to you because you want him to be there with you alot. However, the more time he spends with you esp if you are making demands, the more he will feel like you are trying to "trap" him by taking away his freedom from him.
I know how you feel too but I don't know it is something about feeling trapped that makes him distance himself from you because deep down inside the more he longs for you, the more he will love you. I know with me, I can love you as long as I am away from you but as soon as I start giving you more time, I feel like you are trying to "trap" me so I will go in the opposite direction. It is hard to explain I would say just don't take it personal. It has nothing to do with you it is how how introverts feel "inside", they don't need alot of approval or validation because they seek happiness from within instead of outside of them. It is a nature thing.
I know how you feel too but I don't know it is something about feeling trapped that makes him distance himself from you because deep down inside the more he longs for you, the more he will love you. I know with me, I can love you as long as I am away from you but as soon as I start giving you more time, I feel like you are trying to "trap" me so I will go in the opposite direction. It is hard to explain I would say just don't take it personal. It has nothing to do with you it is how how introverts feel "inside", they don't need alot of approval or validation because they seek happiness from within instead of outside of them. It is a nature thing.