i've run into this situation before with two separate cap men and i'm curious to know if this is some running theme.
it's pretty much the same story: it was their first "real" relationship in their adult lives. been together for a long amount of time. matured within the relationship. knew they didn't belong together, but stuck it out to see if it can be salvaged. bad break-up. some time passed. now just cordial.
and then when they enter a new relationship (even years after the fact), they still manage to speak of these ex's so fondly despite the reason of their break-up. they would always randomly bring them up in conversation without my asking and speak about them in a "love of my life", "best times of my life"-type fashion that always struck a wrong chord with me. brought out an insecurity where i felt compelled to start making comparisons between myself and the ex. my thinking: "well, he's bringing up his relationship with his ex so much, something must be wrong."
granted, this would occur within the first year of our relationships and then they would eventually stop mentioning them afterwards, but i've always wondered what exactly they were doing. pining, maybe? reminiscing? comparing? did i just have the (un)fortunate luck of dating two similar guys or did their sign have anything to do with it?
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I just looked up my element and my love interest's element and found out that we're both fire... however I'm rabbit and he's tiger... and from what I read he'll basically take advantage of me without knowing it because I DO tend to let people get away with a lot. What do you all think about this pairing? (Rabbit - Female, Tiger - Male)
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6 Cardinal
4 Air
Libra
and I am a Libra
LOL
no wonder i have to beat people off with a stick,
but very gently
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