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ok.. heres the low down on whats up:
him: march 28
me:nov 24
we work together, ive liked him for THE longest time, finally after an argument with him early december last year (argument consisted of me being pissed cause he would ditch his friends...i.e.-> me, when he would become infatuated with some other girl; unaware i liked him) and told him i liked him.
he responded and said he liked me too, but didnt think anything of it and we remained friends.
until the 23rd of dec, when we kissed and he asked me to be his. to make things
short:
--> i had the best christmas of my life and the worst new years. kissing me.
basically for the last few weeks ive been completely and utterly confused and depressed and all the crap in between. ive felt sooo bad about everything and i felt like b/c i told him i liked him that i messed things up. like its all my fault for everything.
by the way we were really close friends before all of this.
today i asked him flat out(well through a text cause he was somewhere else) if me waiting for him is really worth it.
and he said no.
i asked him why
he said b/c i was "smothering" him with my apologies.
my point of view->>>> what else could i do but apologise w
him: march 28
me:nov 24
we work together, ive liked him for THE longest time, finally after an argument with him early december last year (argument consisted of me being pissed cause he would ditch his friends...i.e.-> me, when he would become infatuated with some other girl; unaware i liked him) and told him i liked him.
he responded and said he liked me too, but didnt think anything of it and we remained friends.
until the 23rd of dec, when we kissed and he asked me to be his. to make things
short:
--> i had the best christmas of my life and the worst new years. kissing me.
basically for the last few weeks ive been completely and utterly confused and depressed and all the crap in between. ive felt sooo bad about everything and i felt like b/c i told him i liked him that i messed things up. like its all my fault for everything.
by the way we were really close friends before all of this.
today i asked him flat out(well through a text cause he was somewhere else) if me waiting for him is really worth it.
and he said no.
i asked him why
he said b/c i was "smothering" him with my apologies.
my point of view->>>> what else could i do but apologise w
when the one person i want to be with wont
really talk to me about anything and he claims to still feel the same way but acts differently? i was soo taken by him that i fell head over heels for him, to have him sweep me off my feet, give me that perfect fairytale dream for a moment and take it away from me and leave me confused..
i told him, and everyone around that i would do anything for him and was willing to wait for him, just as long as he gave me a reason that me waiting would be worth it.
we got in a huge fight, and now i feel he doesnt want anything to do with me...
problem is: we still work together.i still love him utterly
question-:::::>>>
is there any chance he would ever feel that way again towards me? is there really no glimmer of hope for the two of us in the future?
was it really my fault for apologizing the way i did, although he didnt help by not really talking to me???
i dont know what to do.
please help!!!!!
thanks!!!
really talk to me about anything and he claims to still feel the same way but acts differently? i was soo taken by him that i fell head over heels for him, to have him sweep me off my feet, give me that perfect fairytale dream for a moment and take it away from me and leave me confused..
i told him, and everyone around that i would do anything for him and was willing to wait for him, just as long as he gave me a reason that me waiting would be worth it.
we got in a huge fight, and now i feel he doesnt want anything to do with me...
problem is: we still work together.i still love him utterly
question-:::::>>>
is there any chance he would ever feel that way again towards me? is there really no glimmer of hope for the two of us in the future?
was it really my fault for apologizing the way i did, although he didnt help by not really talking to me???
i dont know what to do.
please help!!!!!
thanks!!!
love is something different for everyone. it can't be defined.
Ok, so I appreciate all of your advice UC, and picse dork...but I did slip and call him! doh! This is the first time that I have let myself slip though, all along I have let him do the calling and 2 weekends ago I broke and called him first! He said he wanted to do something the following night, and then never called! I was so hurt, when I saw him at work the next day, he asked me how my night was and I played it cool and said I had a good time with my friends...but I didn't say anything negative or nasty to him for not calling me when he said he would. He left the next day for a trip, and said he would call me when he got back....he returned this Monday...it's Friday and still have not heard from him...it really looks like things are over...but the sad part is, I am ok with just being his friend, in fact I think we are better off as friends...but I just don't get it, I have been nothing but cool with him, put NO pressure on him to get invovled in a relationship, and now he's playing a disappearing act? I knew I should have stayed away from this guy from the beginning, simply not ready for any emotional attachment, even as friends I believe...Still hurts that he didn't even call...he's leaving again next week for another week vacation...So Over.
shouldn't it be vulcanrulesvirgo?
or are you trying to make a statement?
or are you trying to make a statement?
Check out whats happening in the stars...maybe theres some weird stuff going on!..lol
there there, shaka. *pats head*
you really shouldn't snap that way at an ex-convict.
you really shouldn't snap that way at an ex-convict.
VirgoRulesVulcan, upon your return, i do believe that shaka has made a request of you. 