Aries are wimps
yeah joe, i agree, there's been something rather feminine about most of the scorpio men i've known. aries men have a masculine force but it's excessive. the aries men i've known are so backwards with their "masculine" selves, claiming they have the right to be in control, that being aggressive and forceful is the way to get things done... ugh. one particular aries man i had the misfortune to be involved with wanted to have everything done his way and if i didn't do as he ordered he threw fits and tantrums. he was so unbelievably dramatic and pathetically attention starved he would turn the slightest situation into a huge scene. everything was about him, how hurt he was, how great he was, what he needed mattered most, he was never able to put himself aside for ONE SECOND. and he was so damn proud of his "strength" at being a man. how he could "defend" and "protect" me if necessary, except he was all talk and would aggravate situations with people and then back off. he was such a man in fact that he would beat up on me to prove it. he was extremly destructive with no self-control.
and i don't remember who mentioned about everyone needing attention, yes people do like attention but some are attention whores. i'm not the kind of person who goes around expecting people to cater to my every whim and constantly attend to my needs and wants, and i certainly don't throw fits if i don't get my way. aries people have the characteristics of children. they are kids in adult bodies: no restraint/self-control, need to be catered to constantly, temper tantrums etc. i would never date an aries man again. as for aries women, i don't generally have issues with them except i have never gotten to the point where i feel comfortable with them, almost as if there's something preventing our friendship, something barrier we can't break. aries and scorpio are two strong signs and the pairing is probably too competative. there's no give or take with aries, they have to be the dominant ones and will not relent, scorps are naturally dominant as well but can recede and support their loved one/friend if they know that they have strength in their own areas and are respected for it. aries won't respect scorpio because they feel threatened.
and i don't remember who mentioned about everyone needing attention, yes people do like attention but some are attention whores. i'm not the kind of person who goes around expecting people to cater to my every whim and constantly attend to my needs and wants, and i certainly don't throw fits if i don't get my way. aries people have the characteristics of children. they are kids in adult bodies: no restraint/self-control, need to be catered to constantly, temper tantrums etc. i would never date an aries man again. as for aries women, i don't generally have issues with them except i have never gotten to the point where i feel comfortable with them, almost as if there's something preventing our friendship, something barrier we can't break. aries and scorpio are two strong signs and the pairing is probably too competative. there's no give or take with aries, they have to be the dominant ones and will not relent, scorps are naturally dominant as well but can recede and support their loved one/friend if they know that they have strength in their own areas and are respected for it. aries won't respect scorpio because they feel threatened.
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