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Mar 20, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2764 · Topics: 36
Cancer:
"I have something to say. Been thinking of it for the last 2 years but not sure still. I think I want us to break up. What do you think ?"
hmmm, well when i broke up with my last boyfriend i kind of knew that i didn't want to be with him for a while, certainly not 2 years though!!! i would say it was probably a couple of months that i contemplated the break-up. for me, it's hard to let go so even though i knew he was not the right guy for me and i wasn't happy with him, i still held on because the thought of throwing something away after 2 years is tough. and i also don't like hurting other people, because i know how much it sucks to hurt! so, it killed me to see how hurt he was when i broke up with him...and i cried watching him cry. but, i knew it was for the best.
i don't know about the "what do you think?" part... i wouldn't put it on someone else like that. i would be true to what i wanted, and if i wanted to break up i would just do it. but, i would be concerned about how the other person felt.
hope that answers your question Tas!!!
Its so funny that you mentioned the flicking guys off one by one gemini_82grl . I see him doing that for me now. With your leo guy, keep being patient. A mature lion proceeds into love cautiously and the fact that you guys both work two jobs only adds to that caution. Quality time is essential for couples and esp. essential for the leo. It gives us the opportunity to get to know that significant other on a deeper level and vice versa. Leos fall HARD and knowing this we try not to give our emotions too much credence until we are 100% sure that it will be reciprocated. Send him texts of affection throughout the day, we leos love attention. A text from you letting him know that you're thinking of him throughout the humdrum of daily life is enough to make his heart melt. You gotta let him know that he is important to you. We leos are extremely confident but in love one of our worst fears is to feel unwanted, not needed, unloved. Once he feels confident in your feelings for him the gates of unconditional love will come pooring out. Thats the biggest problem im having with my gemini guy, i don't feel like im a priority half the time and although I may be on his mind, i really wish he could show it a bit more. We thrive on actions...we realize the fickleness of words (u can say one thing and not mean it) and the illusiveness of a significant others thougths so we need love to be demonstrated to us by actions.
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Mar 19, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 647 · Topics: 52
Very Sad.
Makes one appreciate every second of every day.....
A mature leo tries hard to be honest and not lie, we hate liars and our nature makes us bad at it half the time. I think cappywrench mentioned a guilty guarded look, lolll!