One Mad Libra
Ok ...first of all this is a love hate relationship..Aries and Libra. Trust me I know b/c I have dated one and have two in my family haha..
But I think it goes back to respect.. and maybe even miscommunication. Ram is stubborn and doesnt want to let up imo. Nothing against Aries..its quite an admirable trait. However, there comes a time when ram needs to back off and reflect on her/his behavior.
Libra needs balance in all things and people. Otherwise..Libra goes nutzo haha I know..but trying to achieve balance is a crazy idea anyway..and why must libra be the one to do it??? Ya know...I kinda hate this trait at times b/c its almost a need..not a want so when ya get someone so head strong in your face...it poses a challenge that sometimes wants to be *avoided* b/c there is no balancing it. Exhales... wow I'm not even sure what I just said even really makes sense..but to me it does in a crazy way.
I'm not sure what my advice is.. I've never had any luck with Aries in the past. I have found that when I get enough of them even tho I truly love them... its like *go away* *c ya*... and I find peace and balance from being away from them =)
But I think it goes back to respect.. and maybe even miscommunication. Ram is stubborn and doesnt want to let up imo. Nothing against Aries..its quite an admirable trait. However, there comes a time when ram needs to back off and reflect on her/his behavior.
Libra needs balance in all things and people. Otherwise..Libra goes nutzo haha I know..but trying to achieve balance is a crazy idea anyway..and why must libra be the one to do it??? Ya know...I kinda hate this trait at times b/c its almost a need..not a want so when ya get someone so head strong in your face...it poses a challenge that sometimes wants to be *avoided* b/c there is no balancing it. Exhales... wow I'm not even sure what I just said even really makes sense..but to me it does in a crazy way.
I'm not sure what my advice is.. I've never had any luck with Aries in the past. I have found that when I get enough of them even tho I truly love them... its like *go away* *c ya*... and I find peace and balance from being away from them =)
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well, as far as the phone calls, there is probably something he wants to say to you but not in a voice message - so when you don't answer he just hangs up and triesa again later. There may or may not be something wrong with the guy - but bottom line is you'd probably be happier not worrying about him, so that's it.
If you felt comfortable enough you might even send him a message on line and tell him that even though you care about him and wanted to stay friends you think it's better if the two of you don't have any contact at least for a while. Don't mention the phone calls, and he'll probably stop [I say don't mention them because if you do you'll make him feel embarrassed like you think he's psycho for calling and hanging up - and even if you do think that it won't help him any to hear it....] then remove him from your messenger list yourself - don't wait for him to do it. And if he ever gets over it and wants to be friends maybe he'll add you back on later. If he doesn't stop the phone calls THEN you might want to say something if it really bothers you. But, no, vengeance won't do you any good - so be nice and just let him go.
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not saying yours is - but just noting that my ex pisces didn't show signs of being a cheater either - I had no idea he had another woman living with him ! we were together for over a year and for the last two months of our relationship he had the woman he was cheating on me with living with him. Then he tried to cheat on her with me....they broke up, and he cheated on his new girlfriend with the same one he cheated on me with....just goes around in circles.... and he wouldn't have gotten caught except for a series of unexpected incidents that backed him into a corner.
All the pisces males I've known have been cheaters. So I'm just saying - they're pretty good at hiding it...until they WANT you to find out.
But about the changing for them thing...yeah.... they want you to be perfect and love them just the way they are....
not saying yours is - but just noting that my ex pisces didn't show signs of being a cheater either - I had no idea he had another woman living with him ! we were together for over a year and for the last two months of our relationship he had the woman he was cheating on me with living with him. Then he tried to cheat on her with me....they broke up, and he cheated on his new girlfriend with the same one he cheated on me with....just goes around in circles.... and he wouldn't have gotten caught except for a series of unexpected incidents that backed him into a corner.
All the pisces males I've known have been cheaters. So I'm just saying - they're pretty good at hiding it...until they WANT you to find out.
But about the changing for them thing...yeah.... they want you to be perfect and love them just the way they are....
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He could feel more than friendship, an emotional connection and not ready for it. This too could be a reason. Only he can tell you truthfully.
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