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Oct 18, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 2502 · Topics: 29
Clarify:
Did you lay out the final choice for him, and he rejected?
OR
Did you just say, "Dude, I'm just not feelin' it."?
OK i am new here now here is my question.. i am on myspace and i was chatting with some guy on im and stuff we never met just talked on phone 1 time.. ok i was depressed and upset text him and left messages on his phone he text me will e-mail u when i got home he came home and messaged me that i am scaring him and he deleted me from myspace.. then i kept messaging him and telling him sorry and stuff like that he didnt answer me back then i requested him as a friend again he never denyed me but didnt request me so friends told me leave him alone for a couple days he will talk to u again.. but whats strange is that when we were talking he asked what my last name was i told him he typed my first and middle name with his last name and says now thats better.. what should i do can anyone help me???
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Oct 08, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 2906 · Topics: 93
LS: "In a relationship, I just wanna get along." Uh-huh, like I said...
DY: "Virgo is about service, and Libra is about compromise."
LS: "I don't understand this statement. It contradicts itself. Libra wanted you to do things your way? huh?"
Left to his own devices, a Virgo Male will create a Right Way (His Way) to do everything in the relationship.
LS: "We define strength differently. What you want is someone who makes decisions and forces your hand. That isn't a Libra."
No, what I wanted was a woman who could MAKE a Decision, and didn't vacillate over what she should / should not do -- and yak about it for DAYS & DAYS & DAYS & DAYS & DAYS without ever achieving a resolution. Since she wouldn't / couldn't make decisions, I did, which brought more & more things under my control -- not a good situation, because Virgo will nit-pick you to death, and try to enforce rules for everything. She resented the outcome, yet did little to nothing to prevent it. My response? See her as ungrateful for all my hard work to keep things running smoothly.
I also had a Libra male boss years ago. Although I was decent and respectful to him, he always acted like he was intimidated by me -- never could figure that one out...
thelibran: "Scorpio loves power and love to be in control."
In my experience (Scorpio Brother, Daughter, and Wife), it's more like: Scorpio respects power, and will surrender control to a strong person.
When we first started dating, Debra had this preconception of me as a macho, strong-willed, egotistical jock fighter pilot; and, she seemed more than willing to surrender the reins to me (she'd been on her own for a while). I think she was a little surprised and maybe disappointed to find I was much more flexible than that -- more willing to follow her lead. It was rocky at first, but now we've achieved a pretty good balance in power-sharing -- we each have areas of responsibility where the follower defers to the leader. We each know about how far the other will give on a certain issue, and we're pretty good at staying within the limits. Honestly, I'm the one more likely to push it, and p1ss her off; but unlike my LibraEX, my Scorp says NO! and means it.
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Oct 08, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 2906 · Topics: 93
Back to topic...
3. Libra Man & Virgo Woman makes a better LTR than Libra Woman & Virgo Man.
I'm not saying, Virgo = Good / Libra = Bad. I'm simply offering my insights into one combination of these two signs.
a muse a libra: "Libra and Virgo is a very tough combination to make work..."
Yes, which is why I'm offering my 2 cents from my experiences.
"To me, this sounds like a horrible relationship." [About my current marriage to a Scorpio Woman.]
That's because you're a Libra, and I'm a Virgo. I prefer power-sharing and joint decision-making within the relationship. Hell, I'm the manager of a very busy IT shop, and I have to make all kinds of decisions all damn day, so letting my wife carry some of the load is a big relief to me! My LibraEX should be in a management position at her work, but has intentionally avoided those types of positions -- she's done well, but hasn't tried to be a leader there, either. In some ways, she's more of a behind the scenes Virgo than I am (but she's very similar to my Virgo Dad)...
"I wish you weren't still so angry toward her..."
I'm not angry with her at all. In fact, we get along better now than we did the last few years of our marriage. She did frustrate the hell outta me, but I'm a Virgo -- what's past is past. I don't carry grudges. I also don't regret all the years we spent together. We have a remarkable Scorpio Daughter, and lots of happy memories -- who could regret that??
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Oct 18, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 2502 · Topics: 29
"only my opinion of course.."
Nah, it's fact.
You crustaceans are extremely insecure mo-fo's on balance.