Cap girl again, aarrgg................
Funny, how Virgo's claim that the other sun signs are a waste of time and full of bullbutter/deception, not real ..
.. yet, it's the Virgo who will be so shallow to only embrace a person's heart if their pretty/sexy enough.
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FULLY AGREE with PA. !!
Besides, one virgo ASKs the other virgo about if he should go back to the ex-cap.
Based on opinions of others, the virgo decides to block the IM.
WE CAP DO *******NOT********** ASK OTHERS FOR THE MATTERS OF OUR HEARTS BUT WE ASK OUR HEART AND FOLLOW IT. That's the fundamental difference between Cap and Virgo!
.. yet, it's the Virgo who will be so shallow to only embrace a person's heart if their pretty/sexy enough.
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FULLY AGREE with PA. !!
Besides, one virgo ASKs the other virgo about if he should go back to the ex-cap.
Based on opinions of others, the virgo decides to block the IM.
WE CAP DO *******NOT********** ASK OTHERS FOR THE MATTERS OF OUR HEARTS BUT WE ASK OUR HEART AND FOLLOW IT. That's the fundamental difference between Cap and Virgo!
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On a side note that isn't even relevant to this "freaky" stuff, except in the aspect of it being absent .....
.. higher spiritual growth can be obtained. I've often wondered about super religious people refraining from sex (except with alter boys) and thought to myself that sexuality is a part of life and should be expressed for quality, that we are suppose to be experiencing this.
Wrong though, yet again ... to refrain from sexual activities raises your vibrational frequencies.
.. higher spiritual growth can be obtained. I've often wondered about super religious people refraining from sex (except with alter boys) and thought to myself that sexuality is a part of life and should be expressed for quality, that we are suppose to be experiencing this.
Wrong though, yet again ... to refrain from sexual activities raises your vibrational frequencies.
Picses, You have a very large mind. That is something that no one can give to you. Your very smart and you see the different types of situations. I the same cheated out of pain or confusion. But I havent done it since. People do things for different reasons doesnt make it right but in the end there the ones that have to live with their own decitions. Right.
For eg.
You made your bed now you have to sleep in it.
For eg.
You made your bed now you have to sleep in it.
Thats happen to me a couple of times with my pisces guy; as well as my leo bff. I dont know if its telepathy, but I do have good intuition.
Sometimes, being pissed off is easier .. has anyone ever noticed besides me that hate is easier to express than love?
It takes a lot of work to be good .. little effort to be bad.
It takes a lot of work to be good .. little effort to be bad.
Once I text my pisces guy 'R u ok' randomly, b/c I was thinking about him. He texts me back, "Yeah, but I just got in an accident"...
I found that to be good timing yet strange.
I found that to be good timing yet strange.
2 sharks swimming in the opposite direction:
I saw my high school sweetheart at a club when I visted my hometown .....with her hubby. They say we Pisceans never get over anyone for the record she is a piscean also. Once when her husband looked away,I saw that flash of gooogly eyes between me and her.I wanted her and she wanted me to I.....remember that look,it was arousing I first discovered I had a foot fetish with her (she was the first girl that let me have my way with her pretty feet anyhow)this night at the club she had on these sexy open toed shoes and I could tell she wwas crossing and uncrossing her legs and modeling her shoes from across the club for me. When I'd sneak a glance I could see the look on her face,yeah she knew what she was doing. Sometimes we pisceans are shameless. I can't get her ofoff my mind. .........I'm sick.
I saw my high school sweetheart at a club when I visted my hometown .....with her hubby. They say we Pisceans never get over anyone for the record she is a piscean also. Once when her husband looked away,I saw that flash of gooogly eyes between me and her.I wanted her and she wanted me to I.....remember that look,it was arousing I first discovered I had a foot fetish with her (she was the first girl that let me have my way with her pretty feet anyhow)this night at the club she had on these sexy open toed shoes and I could tell she wwas crossing and uncrossing her legs and modeling her shoes from across the club for me. When I'd sneak a glance I could see the look on her face,yeah she knew what she was doing. Sometimes we pisceans are shameless. I can't get her ofoff my mind. .........I'm sick.
What I find really curious about cheating is what it really means, and how the punishment system is self-inflicting most times.
What I mean is this .... say for instance, a woman cheats on her man because she feels as though she isn't getting what she needs from her man, and so she goes out to sleep with another person.
Ok, so the reason behind this is because he is neglecting her in some way, and so this is a punishment to him.
When in reality .. he doesn't even know about the cheating act, so this punishment hasn't even been inflicted upon him.
Later, the woman will feel guilty .. so the punishment is really inflicted upon herself.
So, though, I can understand the reasons behind a person might want to do this as they express their feelings about it .... I can't see how doing it for reasons of "getting even" is any kind of balancer within deeds.
What I mean is this .... say for instance, a woman cheats on her man because she feels as though she isn't getting what she needs from her man, and so she goes out to sleep with another person.
Ok, so the reason behind this is because he is neglecting her in some way, and so this is a punishment to him.
When in reality .. he doesn't even know about the cheating act, so this punishment hasn't even been inflicted upon him.
Later, the woman will feel guilty .. so the punishment is really inflicted upon herself.
So, though, I can understand the reasons behind a person might want to do this as they express their feelings about it .... I can't see how doing it for reasons of "getting even" is any kind of balancer within deeds.
is it safe to assume that in the beginning of these relationships, the female Virgo was just "performing" to make an impression? When in reality, it's not really what is making them sexually happy?
Good question and of course I can only answer for myself, but yes. When I meet a man and start sleeping with him, I tend to "perform" more often than not. It's kind of harsh to use the word perform, though. I'm not faking anything. It's just that I'm orienting myself almost completely towards his pleasure and making my own enjoyment either secondary or something to be derived from making him happy. It's not a conscious "let me pretend to be something I'm not" but rather more of a "let me put my needs aside and focus on him and what he may want."
One stupid thing about that attitude I'm finding is that when you first start sleeping with someone, you really don't know what turns them on. When you're performing, then, that means there's a whole lot of guesswork and assumptions involved about what that person may or may not like. All of that really speaks to the need to be authentic and making sex something that's shared rather than something that's "done to" another.
It seems there's a natural relationship between that initial view of sex and virgo women complaining that sex falters as the relationship progresses. This is something that I'm still learning, but I think it has a lot to do with this idea of "start as you mean to go on." If you're a woman sleeping with a man and you're orienting yourself entirely to his needs, what incentive does he have to do a damned thing?
I know that I usually wait for some sense of reciprocity and fair play to kick in - I've made you happy for the first three months of our sexual relationship, so now it's time for you to show your appreciation by making me happy. Unfortunately, it's never worked out that way.
Hmpf. Food for thought. Certainly says a lot about how nonsensical it is to constantly try and please others.
Good question and of course I can only answer for myself, but yes. When I meet a man and start sleeping with him, I tend to "perform" more often than not. It's kind of harsh to use the word perform, though. I'm not faking anything. It's just that I'm orienting myself almost completely towards his pleasure and making my own enjoyment either secondary or something to be derived from making him happy. It's not a conscious "let me pretend to be something I'm not" but rather more of a "let me put my needs aside and focus on him and what he may want."
One stupid thing about that attitude I'm finding is that when you first start sleeping with someone, you really don't know what turns them on. When you're performing, then, that means there's a whole lot of guesswork and assumptions involved about what that person may or may not like. All of that really speaks to the need to be authentic and making sex something that's shared rather than something that's "done to" another.
It seems there's a natural relationship between that initial view of sex and virgo women complaining that sex falters as the relationship progresses. This is something that I'm still learning, but I think it has a lot to do with this idea of "start as you mean to go on." If you're a woman sleeping with a man and you're orienting yourself entirely to his needs, what incentive does he have to do a damned thing?
I know that I usually wait for some sense of reciprocity and fair play to kick in - I've made you happy for the first three months of our sexual relationship, so now it's time for you to show your appreciation by making me happy. Unfortunately, it's never worked out that way.
Hmpf. Food for thought. Certainly says a lot about how nonsensical it is to constantly try and please others.
I agree PA...
PO...is a cover up for insecurity. I am not seeing that he did anything wrong, behind her back, etc. At least he told her, if he hadn't and she found out, then perhaps she would have a right to be PO.
PO...is a cover up for insecurity. I am not seeing that he did anything wrong, behind her back, etc. At least he told her, if he hadn't and she found out, then perhaps she would have a right to be PO.
Congratulations on the rugrat!