How many times have you taken/gone back to an ex?

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Boots1313

2 times...wont go back a 3rd time

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.

I learned my lesson. People dont really change.

1st time cheated on me.

2nd time cheated on me.
I think people can change but it has to come from within that person to have the desire to do so, and I believe theirs really only certain things people can change within themselves if that makes sense?

Cheating on the other hand, I wouldn’t say that’s necessarily something someone can really change. I’ve always said, once a cheater always a cheater
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Its funny because initally i dated the guy when i was 19 for about 6 months. We broke up but remained close. He had a bunch of other demons...he went to rehab and had success in the military.

6 years later we decided to go on a date and we were togther 5 years after that.

He really made himself into something and i saw so many positive chages. He was clean, good job, good self disciplined (or so i thought) he was really "changed".

Him cheating on me again came as a shock. But perhaps the old adage is true...

The 1st time i talked it up to being young, stupid and on drugs.

No excuse the 2nd time

Change History

Posted by Taurus_mn

Posted by Boots1313

2 times...wont go back a 3rd time

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.

I learned my lesson. People dont really change.

1st time cheated on me.

2nd time cheated on me.
I think people can change but it has to come from within that person to have the desire to do so, and I believe theirs really only certain things people can change within themselves if that makes sense?

Cheating on the other hand, I wouldn’t say that’s necessarily something someone can really change. I’ve always said, once a cheater always a cheater
click to expand
Its funny because initally i dated the guy when i was 19 for about 6 months. We broke up buy remained close. He had a bunch of other demons...he went to rehab and had success in the military.

6 years later we decided to go on a date and we were togther 5 years after that.

He really made himself into something and i saw so many positive chages. He was clean, good job, good self disciplined (or so i thought) he was really "changed".

Him cheating on me again came as a shock. But perhapa the old adage is true...

The 1st time i talked it up to being young, stupid and on drugs.

No excuse the 2nd time