Posted by 777Posted by brianafayOnce in morning, one at night. Maybe one right after work. Dont be hatin lack of sex drive
DXPers always claiming they do it 2-3 times a day and I have to wonder if they’re just unemployed or what ??click to expand
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Posted by Apis-I can agree with this as well. Thanks for the devil's advocate...and the toaster analogy 😂. You've been missed 😊Posted by LostinmyMind11Disagree to some extent. And I wanna play devil's advocate. 😁😈🙃
I wanna add something else...
You aren't doing them any favors by ghosting. The people that like to pretend that "oh I didn't want to hurt their feelings etc" are selfish...it ain't about the other person ...it's about them and how they would rather avoid the confrontation because it makes them uncomfortable....which majority of the time is short lived.
You are doing worse mentally to someone then just being straight forward...again especially if nothing happened to warrant such action. They are constantly going to think they did something wrong or that this is going to constantly happen...this is how walls get built etc. Is it fair to put your insecurities on someone else...no, but this is the kinda shit right here that makes that happen.
Ok
/End rant
This has been another TED talk with LIMM.![]()
If a person was completely straight forward and specified each thing about your personality that they did not like, you'd likely build walls to hide those characteristics that are innate in you. People seldom embrace the negative about themselves, or even acknowledge it. What they really want is selective truth, that they select. Sometimes people leave out specifics so they dont hurt the other's feelings. Sometimes they exaggerate as to demonize the other and justify their feelings. In either case the feedback and or closure isnt entirely true and honest and any changes you'd make are made on a false premise.
So the next person you meet meets a different you, the 'you' you've become after the feedback from the last person. But over time the walls come down, you become comfortable. New dude starts to see what old dude saw. And he doesnt like it either, and ghosts.
Meanwhile there is someone looking for the person you are when your walls are down... but he doesnt like the person you pretend to be from the corrections made from previous feedback you've recieved in the past, so it never happens. So, instead of changing bad habits to fit someone else's narrative, take an honest look at yourself then change what you dont like. You know more about why you do the things you do and why they are useful to you, they dont understand the depth at which you operate.
I understand the need to be informed. I get that people want closure. Sometimes all they really want that for is so they can shift blame "oh, well I was only like that because you ____________". The problem is that pattern can go back and forth forever. "Its your fault" "no it's your fault" blah blah blah.
I believe all knowledge is power, but I dont believe all power is useful. I have the power to stick my dick in a toaster. I have the knowledge to plug in the toaster and push the button. But, me sticking my dick in a toaster and pushing the button isnt really useful. Probably why people seldom (I say seldom because I'm sure someone has) dont stick their dicks in toasters. Sometimes things dont need to be explained. They are what they are.
I believe a a small portion of it revolves around codependent tendencies. And it goes for men and women.
All that said, if you guys have been together for years and one person goes no contact, yeah that's a shitty move. But, even then I wouldn't consider the reasoning for the breakup from the other party to be an absolute because there could way more layers to it that they themselves dont even understand. That's the funny thing about people, most things they do they dont really understand why they do it.
So, in conclusion ghosting could be a great step in personal development if you allow it to be.
This has been my TED talk entitled 'The Loop: Why People Repeat Stupid Cycles', thank you for coming 😉
This also relates to my next TED talk 'Selfishness Can Be Good: Go Fuck Yourselves Sometimes'click to expand
Posted by Mariposa_I'm not having any problems with aquarius as I said they always tend to be my best friends stick with me but like really fire and air energy since I have my moon and rising in Sagittarius I get along with them very well I'm not generalizing I was wondering. But why talk about the past (sagg moon doesn't like to be reminded of the past) those are things that are not relevant that is 2 years ago or soPosted by dewiklaessen277I see..Posted by Mariposa_No it was about an affair and i wanted to know how Aquarius women were if they mess with married men or men in relationships
Didn’t you talk down on aquas awhile back when you were with sag?and it was not about me a friend of mine
Generalization. Yeah that’s not a sign issue, that’s a lack of good values, and morality issue.click to expand
Posted by Apis-You can believe whatever you want about who, what, & where. I'm basing my opinion on geography & cultural migration. What area of the world have you known Europeans to thrive in the desert? If the history of Egypt was so important to Europeans, I'm sure it would have better preserved like they did with the greeks.Posted by 777That's what Eurasian is, a mix of European and Asian. Most of these articles claim Eurasian dna.
If you've ever noticed, neighboring countries aesthetically share similar looks. Russia has a high population of Mongolian looking people. The same goes for middle eastern countries near Asia (afganistan etc.) I'm guessing the were a mix of Sudanese Libyan, & Israeli
I mean, its believed Cleopatra was Greek. She ruled Egypt. Royalty typically kept a "Royal bloodline". It all kinda makes sense. Which is what CancerontheCusp was getting at.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.history.com/.amp/news/10-little-known-facts-about-cleopatraclick to expand
Posted by ItsSupes2The only colonizing you've ever done is getting fucked up ur ass
God damnit. Why you do this?
Now we gotta read 15 pages about how Africans are related to Colonialists. Fuck
Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxXPosted by MoonbutterPosted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxXPosted by MoonbutterPosted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxXPosted by MoonbutterPosted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxXPosted by 777
I automatically think
air signs are full of shit
Water signs emotionally manipulate
Leo's are narcissists & jealous
If there's anything true or real about astrology, it's this.
Don’t be mad you getting played 😝
#Triggered
Didn’t know you supported the NRA 🤷🏻♀️ Good for you 👏
Bang bang ho![]()
Ho huh? Guess it takes one to know 😆
True.
Say hi to your mom for me.
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