Reason why Aquarius might be afraid to fall in love

This is just a theory of mine that I came up with after reading a lot about Aquarius and watching a lot of videos about them. I wanna check with other Aquarians if it makes sense.

When you start to like someone very much, to the point where you find yourself overthinking about that person so much that it might affect your life, is that when you decide to back off?

Could it be because you don't allow someone else to "control" you, because that would mean that person has some "power" over your and then you go on complete detach-mode, disconnection, being alone etc, in order to find yourself, regain your control and independence.

Does that make any sense to you? Does any Aquarian relate to this?