Reasons to being single
Posted by MissAllisaPosted by OnTheVirgYeah the Taurus i’m seeing right now was single for almost 5 years as well! It really crossed my mind to stay friends first but our chemistry was kind of crazy every time we would meet so the friendship thing kind of flew out the window😬. Whenever big things bother me i’m very vocal about it so that’s not the issue. The thing i’m more worried about is the communication part of it all. Don’t find our conversations very stimulating or challenging. So i don’t know if i should be patient and let him open up more on his terms or that it’s not coming at all. I’m a Gem and communication is very important to us and it can be difficult to be patient when it comes to this.Posted by MissAllisaPosted by OnTheVirgCould you explain the patience part a bit more? I started dating a Taurus and i can already see why you would say that but i’m curious and want to know more.
They take commitment very seriously. Like marriage serious. My dude was single for 5 years before he got with me. He was single for so long because he didn’t like how people nowadays don’t take relationships seriously.
Couples too eager to break up over small matters rather than communicate and work it out.
“Oh you didn’t respond to my text? Welp, time to find a new boo!”
“Did I just see you like some instah0? Boy, bye.”
Even spouses cheating out of cowardness…made him rethink arranged marriage at some point. I told him if we break up then it’s finito. It ain’t going to be one of those breakup then get back togetherships. And he loved how I shared the same mindset. So yea when a Taurus chooses to be with you he’s already envisioned a future with you. You really do need lots of patience with these guys cause if you don’t have it you’re better off with a fire sign.
Don’t rush them into a relationship-let it happen naturally. They’re very observant; this sussing out period is why it takes time because they want to see if you’re a good fit for them and they’re a good fit for you; they consider everything. They want to see if you’re true to who you are and not putting on an act…It’s why they say it’s better to be friends with a Taurus first because they don’t have the expectation of impressing you and vice versa. Something bothering you? Say it, they appreciate directness. Don’t like something he does? Call him out, don’t be passive aggressive hoping he’ll notice because it won’t solve anything. Lay it out on the table and if he sees you as a keeper trust you’ll know, there are no mixed signals. But don’t try to mindplay him into thinking you’re the best thing ever and if he doesn’t get with you then it’s his loss. Because even if you do succeed through this tactic, chances are he’ll see you as a placeholder and won’t stay long.
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girrrrl I feel you, sistah sign Virgo here! we share the same planet
. You could bring up how communication is important or instead of having an actual talk show it yourself. Pick his brain with topics that interest you and see how he responds to them. When my guy first started staying at my place, he’d make my bed and I wouldn’t know it until I arrived home. Simple gesture, but was the sweetest thing! Then one day he stopped. I made a comment how much I loved when he did this and how it’d made me feel coming home and seeing it…didn’t make a big deal about because I didn’t think much of it…and then the next day he made my bed again and hasn’t stopped to this day. Sometimes an actual talk isn’t necessary. The patience part comes from giving them time to act and respond to what you’re saying. They really do listen when they care and show it in their own time.