Posted by ArgusFeminismPosted by Romz-Capitalism!?
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Posted by justagirl
I doubt she would get child support if the son isn't his? did he adopt? i understand he has been part of the child's life, but he was 1? how long have they been married? I'm not sure how support works but tbh it sounds like she wants him there to be daddy not husband.
Posted by ArgusGreat advice, and I agree. Thank you. Also I don't know If you peeped it but the e-mail I sent was a full on letter, not just a brief "happy birthday". That said, yeah i don't feel comfortable following up. And I wont. Worst case scenario she didnreceiveve and thinks I didnt wish her happy birthday, in which case I told her she can have all the space she needs when we last spoke anyway so, I think both ways have a relatively decent outcome I suppose.Posted by WaterDevilThere is really no cut and dry answer to that question for it all depends on how I feel about the person. Sometimes people part ways in less than desirable tearms yet there is a part of that individual we hold dear. In which case, receiving a brief “happy bday” note Id most likely find endearing.Posted by ArgusWell let me ask you this. (If you are a Pisces) would you want someone to let you know they e-mailed you if it’s a letter of that sort?
Last year I received a "Happy bday" e-card and I didn't realize I had it until late July... 🤷🏻♀️
With that said, sending a follow-up message informing me of the initial message/e-mail could easily backfire in that it could be perceived as insistence/pushiness, and weather true or not, potential intent to manipulate how I feel about the situation...among other things.
My suggestion is to just leave it at that. If she feels like responding, she will...which goes without saying.
I understand the need to know/satisfying one’s curiosity regardless of the nd results all too well, but some things are better left alone.
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Posted by Reciprocity8Posted by justagirl
I doubt she would get child support if the son isn't his? did he adopt? i understand he has been part of the child's life, but he was 1? how long have they been married? I'm not sure how support works but tbh it sounds like she wants him there to be daddy not husband.
The boy is 11. They've been together for about 10 years. She's 35, he's 29. This summer will be 2 years of marriage.click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by justagirlPosted by Reciprocity8Posted by justagirl
I doubt she would get child support if the son isn't his? did he adopt? i understand he has been part of the child's life, but he was 1? how long have they been married? I'm not sure how support works but tbh it sounds like she wants him there to be daddy not husband.
The boy is 11. They've been together for about 10 years. She's 35, he's 29. This summer will be 2 years of marriage.
So he is dad 100% except by biology, that's a tough one, like i said i don't know how the system works with child support and if someone has been around for pretty much 10+ years , i think the courts wouldn't allow her to get money and not allow him visitation rights. But that is way beyond any knowledge i possess.
I will say that after only 2 years of marriage and this is whats going on, he needs to get a good attorney and leave now. She's refusing to work on issues, she's refusing therapy.. basically from what you are saying she's giving him the big middle finger and it's mostly over his scar? Ya he can and will find someone much better.
I’m confused so it’s her who
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Posted by ImpulsvPosted by Reciprocity8Posted by justagirl
I doubt she would get child support if the son isn't his? did he adopt? i understand he has been part of the child's life, but he was 1? how long have they been married? I'm not sure how support works but tbh it sounds like she wants him there to be daddy not husband.
The boy is 11. They've been together for about 10 years. She's 35, he's 29. This summer will be 2 years of marriage.
Ha so together for 8 then got married n now he changed?click to expand
Posted by Reciprocity8Jfc marriage is really serious business in US. I can't for the life of me understand why anyone would choose to get married & literally risk being held hostage till death do you part. I wouldn't really blame anyone if hitmans were hired bc your system is fucking crazy.
He first told me about this because he felt really guilty about wanting to cheat on his wife. He wants to leave...but he's scared of what she'll do to him financially...and she also told him she'd never let the boy have contact with him if he ever divorced her. He's also scared about being single again. Because he hears all the horror stories; mine included.
Posted by NeshamaThat's what I told him. I told him that many of her behaviors indicate that it is likely in her history. He talked to her...asked her if there was anything in her childhood or adolescence that affected her emotionally or psychosexually...and she laughed at him. Told him that her childhood was perfect and to stop playing "Dr. Phil".Posted by Reciprocity8It seems like she has some issues. I wonder if she has had a rape or abuse experience she hasn't expressed?Posted by ImpulsvPosted by Reciprocity8Posted by justagirl
I doubt she would get child support if the son isn't his? did he adopt? i understand he has been part of the child's life, but he was 1? how long have they been married? I'm not sure how support works but tbh it sounds like she wants him there to be daddy not husband.
The boy is 11. They've been together for about 10 years. She's 35, he's 29. This summer will be 2 years of marriage.
Ha so together for 8 then got married n now he changed?
Yeah, after they were married, she became really distant intimately. He said he once caressed her shoulder when she came out of the shower while she was wrapped in a towel, and she told him, "God, don't be creepy like that. I feel like you're going to rape me."click to expand
Posted by Black-MambaActually they're plenty of Bulls to be proud of....Posted by TaurusBull1977Im glad you could find the one Taurus on earth to be proud ofPosted by Black-MambaI'm a Libertarian who happens to be a registered Democrat.
I have to listen to her first before judging
but she already sounds like a sellout
I'm a social liberal, but a fiscal conservative.
I don't agree with her social issues, but I do agree with her views on economics.
In regards to debates,
She's a Bullfighter in the ring.
I do admire her unapologetic stance, and that she answers questions ONLY with direct answers.
She can also see through a lot of BS, cuts through it and gets to the chase.
You don't find too many individuals like that.
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