Well I thought that I would update all of you on my situation well, nothing happened and he never showed up to coming to my house BUT we did wind up going to see each other that Sunday, he was with another girl that he said he was friends with, I wasn't jealous after all I'm not dating him and such, but he DID tell me that he kissed her that didn't bother me either surprisingly, in fact I gave him a present, well thats only because of the nice time that we had at the movies. Well during dinner he apoligized to the girl and said it was a mistake, and that it wasn't going to happen again, and then went on to me talking in english which the other girl couldn't understand. But anyway, he went on to tell me that he hates sex, I don't know what boring girls he's been with, and that he didn't want a realationship, during the time I was drinking so I mentioned to him what if a girl understood that he had to work all the time, would he then and he said that would be ok, well with that out the way I told him that in american culture that women like to touch their male friends and would that be ok to do with him as well, he also agreed and as we left I hugged him and he held me a few seconds and walked off with that girl. Well anyway elieve it or not the next evening he said that the girl I met the evening before wated to see me and they were having dinner and such so though it was far out my way I went to eat and to another bar with him. I was GREAT he was wasted and I found out that the girl worked at that same place so anyway he and I spoke most of the evening and at one point when he got up to use the bathroom that silent chick asked me do I like him, I didn't give her the straight answer but I did in a sense answer yes. Well after that night I was so certain that he wanted a break from me though I wanted to be with him. Anyway skipping to last Saturday he wanted to go out with me so I got some friends and we went out to another bar, life is drinking in japan, and I played darts against him and lost horribly, thats ok, but the thing that kinda depressed me was the fact that even though he complained about that chick being silent he had SEX with her, damn flirtatious libra's ahhhhh, anyway I played it off and didn't let it ruin my evening with him, he said he was drunk at the time, AGAIN, and didn't really enjoy it, what reaction was he expecting from me???
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Mar 01, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 356 · Topics: 10
And others too, of course... (I'm a Virgo).
I found this and really like it - good for those days when you feel it'll never happen.
"Women are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. Most men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just take the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy.......
The apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree."
Hope it lifts someone's spirits!
SAV x
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May 23, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2604 · Topics: 117
((See ladies, it seems like all the ladies are on one side, and the only other male libra here takes another position. Maybe I should understand where the male libra is coming from?))
QS is scorpio. hurt heart and leokitten are leo. They have no serious potential out there in the first place with a libra other than the lust factor. so obviously ur experience with ur libra cannot be understood through their eyes. but there is a sure potential btween aries and libra. but it will take a bit of time for libra to understand the situation. you can walk away. but then you may never know.
((might have to do with your culture versus mine, but lets not blame it on sun signs.))
I dont belong to any culture. Your responses belong in female magazines. its a generalized reaction to this given situation from a female pov. not a response to a libra male vs aries women case study. i hope you are wise enough to realize the difference.
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
oooh, one day soon I shall try that olive oil sugar scrub. I use this body glove, its harsh, but gets the ex foliation job done.
I am a fan of petroleum Jelly my self.
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May 25, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 4843 · Topics: 30
If she views kissing as "just for fun" then you clearly have different ideas about kissing and intimacy in general. I have to agree with everyone and say this doesn't sound like it will work. If you are the same way I am ]and no I'm not a pisces, I'm a bull.... a lot of people get confused...] then this will never work for you because as I said in my previous post this just isn't something that should be compromised on. I have very strict ideas about relationships and dating in general. You don't kiss someone else, even for fun, even someone of the same sex...cheating is cheating. And I have this same attitude whether it is an actual relatioship or just getting to know someone and "talking" as I've heard it put [though to me it's all the same thing - one guy at a time no matter what the circumstances] regardless of the status or circumstances of your relationship at the time, kissing ANYONE else [okay excepot maybe your mom....] is a definate NO. Doesn't matter if this was when you were seperated, or during a game of truth or dare at a party or whatever other ridiculous reason - if it was ME, this would not be okay.... Instead of trying to understand why she would think it was okay you should think about the fact that she DOES think it's okay and whether or not that's alright with you. Which it doesn't sound like it is.
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May 25, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 4843 · Topics: 30
I'm ashamed that you're a taurus.
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