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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
Martian .. you said that you hate them in the first post.
You apparantly are struggling to find compatibility with group activities involving your extended family members. A part of growing up and becoming an adult is realizing that sometimes we have to do things with family members that aren't enjoyed because it is being considerate of them.
You don't have to hang out with the whole family all the time and the few times you do, it is being polite and considerate to be cordial and accepting of their differences.
Your whole life, you will be in contact with other people, and not every situation can be done or handled within your own set of likes and dislikes .... sometimes, we just have to do things for other people because it's being nice.