Ahhh the Scorpio
""...coaxing works better than brute force here. ""
Unfortunately, not even persuasion works. If I didn't say "yes", I meant "no". No amount of coaxing will change that, because I've already considered the costs and benefits. Ppl tend to let my soft-spokenness fool them. Tsk.
Unfortunately, not even persuasion works. If I didn't say "yes", I meant "no". No amount of coaxing will change that, because I've already considered the costs and benefits. Ppl tend to let my soft-spokenness fool them. Tsk.
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1. Fell in love ? 14
2. Got a myspace account. Never.
3. Got drunk - 13
5. Got french kissed - 13
6. Went to the hospital for surgery - 8
7. Got your heart broken badly - See Question 1.
8. Lost a pet - Not 'til 24.
9. Got arrested - Not yet. Came close under aged drinking though.
10. Smoked a Cigarette. Never smoked a cigarette by anything other than seconday.
First (and last) joint was at 16. Hated it.
11. Broken a bone - none yet.
12. Went to a concert - 17 i think.
13. Got your own cell phone - 21.
14. Got a speeding ticket. None yet. I've seen Glaciers overtake me when i drive.
15. Ran away. There was nowhere to run too.
16. Snuck out of the house 8.
17. Pierced other than your ear 21.
18. Got a tattoo. None yet. I'd get bored of it after 5 minutes.
19. Bought porn - Not yet.
20. Had sex - 16
21. Done a drug other than weed - 17. E didn't work any more after the first time.
Everything else had no effect ever. Stopped short at Heroin once you start messing with that stuff you're already dead.
22. Totaled a car - Not yet.
23. Moved out of your parent house- 19
24. How old are you now - 107 according to my profile.
2. Got a myspace account. Never.
3. Got drunk - 13
5. Got french kissed - 13
6. Went to the hospital for surgery - 8
7. Got your heart broken badly - See Question 1.
8. Lost a pet - Not 'til 24.
9. Got arrested - Not yet. Came close under aged drinking though.
10. Smoked a Cigarette. Never smoked a cigarette by anything other than seconday.
First (and last) joint was at 16. Hated it.
11. Broken a bone - none yet.
12. Went to a concert - 17 i think.
13. Got your own cell phone - 21.
14. Got a speeding ticket. None yet. I've seen Glaciers overtake me when i drive.
15. Ran away. There was nowhere to run too.
16. Snuck out of the house 8.
17. Pierced other than your ear 21.
18. Got a tattoo. None yet. I'd get bored of it after 5 minutes.
19. Bought porn - Not yet.
20. Had sex - 16
21. Done a drug other than weed - 17. E didn't work any more after the first time.
Everything else had no effect ever. Stopped short at Heroin once you start messing with that stuff you're already dead.
22. Totaled a car - Not yet.
23. Moved out of your parent house- 19
24. How old are you now - 107 according to my profile.
Crazy, Sweetheart, I've been seeing someone for two months and I don't yet know where we're up to - nor would I ask. So it's early days.
What bothers me MORE is that you wouldgo into business with someone that quickly. If he has invested on your behalf, what does that mean? That it's in your name so you feel you owe him money? Tell him you want him to buy you out. If he put the money in in the first place he must have thought it was a good investment (maybe).
Say, "As we aren't going to be in a relationship I don't think it's sensible for us to be in business together. Sorry."
That's all you have to do. It's called the Broken Record technique (old records used to get stuck and play the same bit of music over and over again).
Him: "But CrazyChick! We can have fun!"
You: "As we aren't going to be in a relationship...(etc)"
Him: "But I don't think this needs to change our business plans."
You: "As we aren't going to be in a relationship...(etc)"
Refuse to be drawn into discussion. Use your mantra, smile sweetly, and get out. Your instinct is SCREAMING at you to do so, that's why you keep asking on here. But only you can act on the decision.
Good luck, let us know how it goes.
What bothers me MORE is that you wouldgo into business with someone that quickly. If he has invested on your behalf, what does that mean? That it's in your name so you feel you owe him money? Tell him you want him to buy you out. If he put the money in in the first place he must have thought it was a good investment (maybe).
Say, "As we aren't going to be in a relationship I don't think it's sensible for us to be in business together. Sorry."
That's all you have to do. It's called the Broken Record technique (old records used to get stuck and play the same bit of music over and over again).
Him: "But CrazyChick! We can have fun!"
You: "As we aren't going to be in a relationship...(etc)"
Him: "But I don't think this needs to change our business plans."
You: "As we aren't going to be in a relationship...(etc)"
Refuse to be drawn into discussion. Use your mantra, smile sweetly, and get out. Your instinct is SCREAMING at you to do so, that's why you keep asking on here. But only you can act on the decision.
Good luck, let us know how it goes.
ScorpAscVirgo
"I found it quite funny, as well"
Every time I see her post the song "Gin and Juice"
comes to mind
HAHAHAHHAAA! Didn't know the song, just read the lyrics.
I do honestly feel sorry for her but... you know, some things, we Virgos just keep quiet about.
"I found it quite funny, as well"
Every time I see her post the song "Gin and Juice"
comes to mind
HAHAHAHHAAA! Didn't know the song, just read the lyrics.
I do honestly feel sorry for her but... you know, some things, we Virgos just keep quiet about.
well its march 25th and i have 1 day left before operation smokeless...i'm not sure if any of you tried but i made need moral support along the way and i'm using the board as a diary of sorts....pisces are notorious for addictions... great example elizabeth taylor with booze or/and men... me its smoking and daydreaming ...so i have the inhaler and gum and ready to go and although i'm a great cheerleader for others i lack that in myself...(working on that 2)...so thank you in advance for the encouragement...see u around
OK, Brandon, let's try to make sense of what you wrote...
Virgos have emotional stability, Scorps don't.
Completely wrong. Virgo's maintain a stable exterior by suppressing emotions
because they're afraid to lose control. Scorps have enough self-confidence to
express their true feelings, and regain control faster and with less chagrin.
Both signs like to keep things calm most of the time. We don't like to fight
with each other, and we both fight fair when we do disagree...
Virgos are more intelligent, because they rely on facts. Scorps rely on
rhetoric and half truths.
Close, but no cigar! Virgos are better scholars than Scorps, who rely more on
their native intuition and instincts - they have more faith in their innate
abilities than Virgs, who are constantly looking for validation of their
analyses (whether they ever admit it or not).
Virgos in general are better looking than Scorps. More models are Virgos than
Scorps.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Many of today's models have the physique
of a concentration camp victim, so holding them up as an exemplar of beauty is
not a persuasive position for me.
Virgos have a higher per capita income than Scorps. That mean Virgos are much
more industrious and adjust to market conditions better.
I can't prove it, but I suspect this is a fact. Virgs work hard, and are thrifty, and that helps build up the assets. My ScorpWife is also frugal (as a single mom, she had to be!), but my Scorp Brother is much looser with his $ $ than she is...
Virgos are more flexible. The stability of earth makes Virgo objectives more
pronoucned, but is able to adjust to situations quickly.
Flexible stability?? Adjust quickly?? No f'ing way! Like a lot of folks, Virgs have a core set of beliefs that are unshakable, but our minds are open to new ideas, and we can be flexible in our dealings with others. We are mutable. But I wouldn't say Virgs are quick to adjust to something new or different...
Virgos get over things much more quickly and bounce back. It isn't unordinary
to see Scorps mope, bitch, and whine for years on end.
Scorps brood more than Virgs, but both signs are pretty resilient in the school of hard knocks. No Scorp I know is a frequent whiner or bitcher, but they do seem to have a harder time letting go of emotional baggage than Virgs.
"Sometimes a fish deals with something unpleasant by effectively refusing to deal with it, or at least delaying dealing with it"
I can relate to this, when my best friend left for Oz over a year ago I was gutted beyond belief. I cried when she left but after that I just sort of went into a daze, I actually felt bad because for a while at the start I never contacted her much - I just found it really hard to speak to her because when I did it just reminded me of how much I missed her. It passed though and we now e-mail each other and talk on the phone all the time, I just found it really hard to deal with initially.
I can relate to this, when my best friend left for Oz over a year ago I was gutted beyond belief. I cried when she left but after that I just sort of went into a daze, I actually felt bad because for a while at the start I never contacted her much - I just found it really hard to speak to her because when I did it just reminded me of how much I missed her. It passed though and we now e-mail each other and talk on the phone all the time, I just found it really hard to deal with initially.
I know there are already a few novenas like this out there and even on this board. But mine has already been answered on more than one occasion. I merely want to share this with as many people as possible. This really works.....I have been using this for the past 6 years now.....and it works every time. At least ONE of my requests gets answered...always.
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Novena to Saint Clare
May the Sacred Heart of Jesus be praised, adored, glorified and loved today, and everyday throughout the world forever. Amen.
Ask St Clare for 3 favours, 2 impossible and say 9 Hail Marys and the above prayer for 9 days with a lighted candle. Pray whether you elieve or not. Publish on the ninth day. Your request will be granted no matter how impossible it is.
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Novena to Saint Clare
May the Sacred Heart of Jesus be praised, adored, glorified and loved today, and everyday throughout the world forever. Amen.
Ask St Clare for 3 favours, 2 impossible and say 9 Hail Marys and the above prayer for 9 days with a lighted candle. Pray whether you elieve or not. Publish on the ninth day. Your request will be granted no matter how impossible it is.
We're gonna party like its 1994
***Well he does, he always remember my favorite food and either cooks it or buy if for me, he calls me nearly every day and wants to know my whereabouts and tells me his, wants me to be close to his friends etc.***
Oh, that would be normal for a scorp man who likes you. Or is concerned about you.
***Wants to spend all his free time with her. ect... I.E. no time for other women... ***
But this is what a scorp man does when he considers you or wants you to be "HIS WOMAN" and wants to be or considers himself "YOUR MAN"
Oh, that would be normal for a scorp man who likes you. Or is concerned about you.
***Wants to spend all his free time with her. ect... I.E. no time for other women... ***
But this is what a scorp man does when he considers you or wants you to be "HIS WOMAN" and wants to be or considers himself "YOUR MAN"
***qs....what do you really think about this one that i bumped into after three years (grey lizard?)...i do not want to have these rose colored glasses again...thinking, oh, maybe he really missed me.***
Just enjoy your time together for now, time will reveal his true intentions. We scorps can't fake it for long... Even when the male scorp is trying to play games they get caught sooner than they think. Too early to think about it. Just enjoy it for now.
Just enjoy your time together for now, time will reveal his true intentions. We scorps can't fake it for long... Even when the male scorp is trying to play games they get caught sooner than they think. Too early to think about it. Just enjoy it for now.