Advice on Cancer Silent Treatment

Posted by greylatern

@aquariancrybaby

Your spiraling emotionally and your going to take your cancer with you.

Your smothering him.

Chill out. Cheer and support the poor guy. You know damn well he misses you too. What your doing is torturing him. If you become to distracting and he becomes not functional, you will blow up the relationship.

The fact you miss him so much that is causes you pain, means you love him just as much correct? The opposite of pain is Joy. Focus on that instead and go about your day knowing that you are lucky enough to have found someone like that. Cheerish it and express that to him instead.

Keep these in mind when your feeling down.

When you think he isn't there know that he is.

When you think you are not talking to him, know that you are.

Send him stuff about your day and ask about his. Time it if possible after the bulk of his day is done.

Send him a picture or meme that you will know he would love or laugh at.

Give him glimpses of things to look forward to when he gets home.


Most importantly Send him your love, support, and passion. Not the pain but the source of it. The love and joy you feel.
This did a lot for me emotionally, thank you. I think I need to work on slowing my roll and trusting the process. It’s been whirlwind for me in recent weeks because of unrelated factors & after getting feedback on here I can see that I clung too hard too quickly and need to curve that if I’m going to render any success with this guy.

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