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Feb 22, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2787 · Topics: 83
Hey CAA, GIVE ME YOUR LUNCH MOOLAH! Seriously though, I'd appreciate it, and I'll even pay you back with some interest (haha, sucker).
But yeah Roxi, moolah is an American term for money, like dough, scratch, green, cheese, etc.
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
If Jews can be a race; Indians from Asia can be too.
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I love to cuddle with someone I am in love with/care about deeply. I love the feeling of a warm body against mine, the crook of his neck, chest, etc. I love to switch positions and lay on different parts of his body and him later lay on different parts of mine. Tho not as much on hot summer nights as it is more of a sensual thing than "I need to be close to you" thing. Just me personally.
Otherwise, w/o deep feelings it feels artificial and clingy, and I like my share of the bed!
I'm *really* trying to not contact him (though it is difficult). He called my cell at 12:45 in the morning (I didn't answer, and he didn't leave a voice message). He called from his work this morning at 9 am (I can never remember his work number, so I picked up by mistake), but the second I said "hello?" he hung up. He hasn't tried contacting me since.
I want things to be far more straightforward than this... I...need...strength! lol.
i bet you were relieved in a way to get his calls.. thinkin that it's not really over yet. u know u cant focus at work or stop thinkin about it.. it sucks!! then i'd get happier than ever to get a text.. lol anyway, he might not last long.. he might even contact u sooner than u think. good luck.. hope he realizes that ur more important to him that he thought and everything works out. but play it cool, k !
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May 18, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 6936 · Topics: 267
Don't be confused over the casualness of him. I've been dating my boyfriend for 16 months and I've been through this. I still go through this! It could be related to his sign, but I really think it could also be tied to his past with other relationships. My boyfriend was married for 7 years and he still has a hard time realizing that someone gave up on him in that marriage and when he thinks about this, he back pedals a little bit. My boyfriend also makes plans well into the future "We should go to New York City for New Year's Eve" or "You've never been to France? Sounds like we need to take a vacation"...but when I ask him if he wants to go see a movie this Friday, he will reply with "I don't know my plans yet". It's frustrating, but I've been teaching myself to accept that that's part of him and if I'm going to love him, I love all of him - good and bad.
I like LS's advice about the key. I have my boyfriend's key and he has mine. With each other's permission, we do over to the other's place if either of us has to work late. It also helps that we live 10 minutes away from each other. In Houston or any other large city, that's rare!
Are you and him exclusive? Have you guys progressed to at least that step? I assume you have.
Here's a suggestion. If you've met some of his friends and he's met yours, then I would throw him a party/get together in his honor...kinda like a Spring bar be que. Either do it at his place or yours, or have it outside at a park, but invite his friends and yours. Although I am not a huge advocate of astrology, I have read that Libras value their friends. If you incorporate his friends into this, I believe he would really enjoy that.
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May 18, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 6936 · Topics: 267
I just read that he was in a relationship with a clingy girl who was demanding and insisted they saw each other everyday. If he shared this with you and expressed he stayed with her but was bitter, I would take that as him dropping you a hint. I would say his hint is "I like you but don't become like her". If she had to see him everyday and it drained him and you know this information, use it to your advantage!
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May 18, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 6936 · Topics: 267
OMG... what was the question again? LOL
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May 18, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 6936 · Topics: 267
Ok, how do bulls handle jealousy? well for one, i walk away from instigations like this argument...that doesn't help matters. i also ask myself WHY am I jealous? I ask myself if I can justify my jealousy or if i'm just being a sissy. if i can justify it, then i leave alone. if i'm being a sissy about it, then re-evaluate the person or situation that made me feel that way to begin with.