thanks for the advice here. you know i appreciate your input. i know why the guys were not right for me- i have this idea of what i want and this scorp fits 90% of it. i know it's close to impossible to hit a 100% . the other guys were all talk and promises and i felt for it. i told my scorp that talk means nothing to me and i believe in actions.
"how long are you gonna wait? till the man of your dreams comes by?"- who really knows when it's going to happen for sure? all you can do is wait until it happens. you can't invent him or order on line or make him. if there is someone who knows how to get "the man of your dreams" pls let me know.
i used to be very impatient with relationships and was in and out right away infatuation and instand dissapointment. had a tendency to finish a relationship because he said/didn't say, did/didn't do, looked/didn't look situations. was very unforgiving and didn't realize that there is no perfect person. now, i've gotten more mature and realize that i'm not perfect and no one is. it's how you can communicate and coexist and share passions and goals together. a lot of times what you want/need or imagine can change for the better with a person you want to be. both ppl have to be flexible and see if it works and not rush in too fast.
"how long are you gonna wait? till the man of your dreams comes by?"- who really knows when it's going to happen for sure? all you can do is wait until it happens. you can't invent him or order on line or make him. if there is someone who knows how to get "the man of your dreams" pls let me know.
i used to be very impatient with relationships and was in and out right away infatuation and instand dissapointment. had a tendency to finish a relationship because he said/didn't say, did/didn't do, looked/didn't look situations. was very unforgiving and didn't realize that there is no perfect person. now, i've gotten more mature and realize that i'm not perfect and no one is. it's how you can communicate and coexist and share passions and goals together. a lot of times what you want/need or imagine can change for the better with a person you want to be. both ppl have to be flexible and see if it works and not rush in too fast.
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MsPices I agree. I think it is more of a compliment than an insult when a person calls you that.
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Nah, not in my experience. My scorp friend can't stand two of his baby mommas and took custody of his son from one and love all three the ae. Great father.
Oops either of his baby mommas.
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hehehe I am indeed having fun 
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Ive been doing some study too and going to the gym (I might become a gym junkie afterall).....and feeling great....perhaps that's what is attracting them lately...whoah!!!
LS...Life definitely isn't hard anymore that's for sure....yes I miss him but I am also getting on with my life as you can see hehehehe....
So any other great dating stories out there?
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Ive been doing some study too and going to the gym (I might become a gym junkie afterall).....and feeling great....perhaps that's what is attracting them lately...whoah!!!
LS...Life definitely isn't hard anymore that's for sure....yes I miss him but I am also getting on with my life as you can see hehehehe....
So any other great dating stories out there?
LOL that is so true!
Me: Aries
Mother: Taurus Stepdad: Cancer
Sister: Pisces
Brother: Cancer
Step-sister: Sag (nuts)
Father: Gemini Stepmom: Sag (both nuts)
Brother2: Aries (also totally nuts)
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Step-sister: Sag (nuts)
Father: Gemini Stepmom: Sag (both nuts)
Brother2: Aries (also totally nuts)
Grandma:Libra
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