Happy...w my scorpio
interesting.
so how does the power play work? who gives in? Or is it like mutual admiration and fear?
so how does the power play work? who gives in? Or is it like mutual admiration and fear?
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But when you tasted it was horrible?
Weren't you pissed off when you tasted it lol
Weren't you pissed off when you tasted it lol
Sagigoat, you are not alone. :-) Try to trust the power of intuition and manifestation.
she might have been after a drink or two. i was way more lit up than she was thats for sure
and now i found out that the friend of mine who introduced us had a thing for her and he feels like i blocked him but i was totally unaware of it....
i will try to call her later this week maybe one more time and than i'll give up ....
and now i found out that the friend of mine who introduced us had a thing for her and he feels like i blocked him but i was totally unaware of it....
i will try to call her later this week maybe one more time and than i'll give up ....
i am an aquarius. i thought libra and aquarius were supposed to be so compatible. but i don't even want to talk to him again. his whole outlook at the situation disgusted me. i do feel much better since i ended it though. thanks everyone.
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i say that becos thats the game plan i devised about a month ago when i realised what i was doing wrong, and since then, me and the cappy talk a lot more, we actually now like to stay with each other, we have more depth in our conversations and bla bla bla..... but im gonnna wait a loooong looooong time before i make a move. becos thts the way 4wards
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I dunno guys, this man is a grown ass educated business man, LA having to say over and over again ouch that hurts is BS to me, if she has to constantly repeat herself about his behavior then she's not really accepting him for who he is and asking him to stop doing something he enjoys doing is going to push him away, if he finds himself changing for her/relationship eventually he will rebel.
I know women want to nurture a relationship because it feels natural to be this way but it's a relationship killer, it may seem right and helpful at the time but down the line it comes back and bites women in the butt. In my opinion LA is doing too much.
A man can and will push a woman to play that wifey role because initially it feels good being taken care of and helped but then he finds himself becoming familiar with her, becoming comfortable and depending on her and all hell breaks loose in his mind, he starts seeing the mother figure in her and NO man is attracted to his mother, then he begins to ACT OUT, he becomes annoyed and annoying, he's pulling away because he's feeling frantic and paniced, he's self sabotaging the relationship and this is why its better to let his house be messy, leave them dirty dishes in the sink, let him be a slob or whatever it is he is, let him FAIL at xyz, listen to him but keep opinions to self even when he's asking for help, the suggestion should be ask your lawyer, get a housekeeper, even when he's pushing for an answer make him ask several times before jumping in to help, let him look the way he wants to look and behave the way he wants to behave even if it doesn't match up to what you want, if his actions, his behavior isn't making you feel good then dump him and move on to someone that naturally makes you feel good about you and already knows (not have to be taught) how to treat you. A man will soon tire of all that relationship talk because it feels married and if he wanted a wife he would be married already.
Women can spend half there lives correcting a man, women find themselves fixing the men only to be dumped and have to watch another woman enjoy the fruits of her labor. LA's man isn't going to change, he's being who he is and if she doesn't like it then she should consider finding a new man.
I know women want to nurture a relationship because it feels natural to be this way but it's a relationship killer, it may seem right and helpful at the time but down the line it comes back and bites women in the butt. In my opinion LA is doing too much.
A man can and will push a woman to play that wifey role because initially it feels good being taken care of and helped but then he finds himself becoming familiar with her, becoming comfortable and depending on her and all hell breaks loose in his mind, he starts seeing the mother figure in her and NO man is attracted to his mother, then he begins to ACT OUT, he becomes annoyed and annoying, he's pulling away because he's feeling frantic and paniced, he's self sabotaging the relationship and this is why its better to let his house be messy, leave them dirty dishes in the sink, let him be a slob or whatever it is he is, let him FAIL at xyz, listen to him but keep opinions to self even when he's asking for help, the suggestion should be ask your lawyer, get a housekeeper, even when he's pushing for an answer make him ask several times before jumping in to help, let him look the way he wants to look and behave the way he wants to behave even if it doesn't match up to what you want, if his actions, his behavior isn't making you feel good then dump him and move on to someone that naturally makes you feel good about you and already knows (not have to be taught) how to treat you. A man will soon tire of all that relationship talk because it feels married and if he wanted a wife he would be married already.
Women can spend half there lives correcting a man, women find themselves fixing the men only to be dumped and have to watch another woman enjoy the fruits of her labor. LA's man isn't going to change, he's being who he is and if she doesn't like it then she should consider finding a new man.
Can someone tell me what this placement is like?
I hear Eris can easily overpower Pluto, and creates quite a show while she's at it.
I hear Eris can easily overpower Pluto, and creates quite a show while she's at it.
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