She bailed again ???
To create an incense portal for summoning the ancestor spirits from the otherworld, you will need an altar complete with pictures and items to honor them. In a strongly protected circle, place lavender, cinnamon, and wormwood on the coals.
Call out only to benevolent and loving ancestor spirits by saying:
"Blood of my blood, your spirits of love
Come from below, and from above
Entities loving who wish me well
Come to this circle when I sound the bell"
Intone (ring) a bell three times and welcome the ancestors' spirits. Afterwards, ring the bell seven times to send them back through the portal so you can close your circle.
Call out only to benevolent and loving ancestor spirits by saying:
"Blood of my blood, your spirits of love
Come from below, and from above
Entities loving who wish me well
Come to this circle when I sound the bell"
Intone (ring) a bell three times and welcome the ancestors' spirits. Afterwards, ring the bell seven times to send them back through the portal so you can close your circle.
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LOL Sagigoat, I only ever seem to meet the unevolved men in their forties of any sign! I'm not sure it's fair to blame Scorpios on this one.
I'm beginning to understand the whole toyboy thing a lot better these days; it's less about their bodies and more about their maturity compared with men my age! lol
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I used to be very worried about hurting the other person, but in my case I have come to see that as very flawed reasoning (sorry, I am a Virgo after al! 
) For a start, if you are both adults, you both know that relationships. like stocks, can go down as well as up. I finally saw, this last time, that it was MY responsibility to look after ME and HIS to look after HIM. And I realised that I can do this! I can get over hurt, I can sob into my pillow and eventually smile again, I can survive most things (and have). I'm an adult!!
I think I have spent a lot of time using my 'care for the other person' as an excuse. And I suspect looking back that it prevented me from giving my all (in case it went wrong) which of course sabotages relationships anyway. If you go in but don't give yourself fully, there is NO way to know if things will work out. And yes, if you give yourself fully (I mean carefully, but fully open to possibilites) then it will hurt more than if you'd held back. But holding back ultimately hurts more. It isn't honest, and I am sure you are honest, Sagigoat. You come across as earnest, a little fearful of hurt and very aware of how relationships can hurt like hell.
You know what? It's HIS responsibility to watch out for himself. If you suspect he can't do that, he isn't adult enough for you in any case. Seriously.
Much love and good luck to you. Maybe spend time looking back at who let you down when you were a kid so that you closed some of those doors. It happens to us all, doesn't have to be emotional abuse, it can be a thoughtlessly broken promise which meant the earth to your betrayed 7 year old self. My lack of trust was largely down to my Mum not giving me a little tea party she'd promised. I know it was that because however I rationalise, 40 years on I still feel sad about it! How bizarre is that? But it did enough damage to make me back off hurting others...
NLP suggests that our actions are usually with our own interests at heart and though I find that hard to swallow 100% I have discovered that my altruism is usually a lot more self-seeking than I thought. And I don't feel too bad about that any more. It's the human condition. Just own your feelings, look at your strategies and see if they are self-serving (ie "If I don't hurt men I feel like I'm a Nice Person, and that's important").
Just LIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SAV x (Virgo, sure, but is it possible that my Scorp Ascending is evolving despite myself??!!)
) For a start, if you are both adults, you both know that relationships. like stocks, can go down as well as up. I finally saw, this last time, that it was MY responsibility to look after ME and HIS to look after HIM. And I realised that I can do this! I can get over hurt, I can sob into my pillow and eventually smile again, I can survive most things (and have). I'm an adult!!I think I have spent a lot of time using my 'care for the other person' as an excuse. And I suspect looking back that it prevented me from giving my all (in case it went wrong) which of course sabotages relationships anyway. If you go in but don't give yourself fully, there is NO way to know if things will work out. And yes, if you give yourself fully (I mean carefully, but fully open to possibilites) then it will hurt more than if you'd held back. But holding back ultimately hurts more. It isn't honest, and I am sure you are honest, Sagigoat. You come across as earnest, a little fearful of hurt and very aware of how relationships can hurt like hell.
You know what? It's HIS responsibility to watch out for himself. If you suspect he can't do that, he isn't adult enough for you in any case. Seriously.
Much love and good luck to you. Maybe spend time looking back at who let you down when you were a kid so that you closed some of those doors. It happens to us all, doesn't have to be emotional abuse, it can be a thoughtlessly broken promise which meant the earth to your betrayed 7 year old self. My lack of trust was largely down to my Mum not giving me a little tea party she'd promised. I know it was that because however I rationalise, 40 years on I still feel sad about it! How bizarre is that? But it did enough damage to make me back off hurting others...
NLP suggests that our actions are usually with our own interests at heart and though I find that hard to swallow 100% I have discovered that my altruism is usually a lot more self-seeking than I thought. And I don't feel too bad about that any more. It's the human condition. Just own your feelings, look at your strategies and see if they are self-serving (ie "If I don't hurt men I feel like I'm a Nice Person, and that's important").
Just LIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SAV x (Virgo, sure, but is it possible that my Scorp Ascending is evolving despite myself??!!)
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i would say capricorns..so relaxed so organized so simple
MY MOM AND DAD R VIRGO - GEMIMINI PAIRING!GOING ON 25YRS MARRIED,NOT TOO SAY THEY DIDENT HAVE THIER PROBLEMS ALONG THE WAY.GOOD LUCK!
I tend to disconnect mentally,emotionally then physically. It is a slow but steady process. I tend to do this while I am still in the relationship. That person may think that everything is fine and just when that start to get comfortable, I let the relationship go. I do however ...put the writing on the wall. I hate being in love with someone and feeling insecure and cheated on and lied to. I let go but it is at my own pace.
Aries- Aggressive
Taurus- Stubborn
Gemini- Cheap
Cancer- Moody
Leo- Loyal
Virgo- Bossy
Libra- Noble
Scorpio- Freaks
Saggi- Happy
Cappy- Controlling
Aqua- Selfish
Pisces-crazy as hell
Taurus- Stubborn
Gemini- Cheap
Cancer- Moody
Leo- Loyal
Virgo- Bossy
Libra- Noble
Scorpio- Freaks
Saggi- Happy
Cappy- Controlling
Aqua- Selfish
Pisces-crazy as hell
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I am not a Piscean. But let me explain something to you. I deleted my two above comments because it was dealing from an astrological preconception. I did that because this is an astrological board. However, that is not the heart of the matter here. Your outburst to me clearly demonstrated that I hit a nerve and that you feel out of control to to help your brother. I say that because it appears that you feel I am blaming you for your brother's plight, so you bring other family members into your response to defend the reason for your actions. But instead of telling the world how messed up your brother's life has become is no reason why you can't try to understand what is happening here.
Second, let me say that we all agree that your brother needs help. That he wants help. However, it appears that the only way you can offer to help him is by the way you helped yourself. You realized that having a strong woman in your life is what helps you live a better life. So therefore, you think that is what your brother needs, a strong woman. You can't see beyond what you feel best helped you. And many of us are like that. If something works for us, we want to share it with everyone. That is an act of our love for others we want to help. However, in this situation, surely you must see that what helped you (and others you mention) is not what will help your brother. He has had five wives. You say yourself they were strong women, yet they are not what helped your brother. One of these women may have helped you, or maybe the second or the third.
All I am saying is this. Try to get to the heart of the matter of what is causing your brother to keep repeating this cycle of heartache in his life as well as in the lives of the other people, i.e.: you (as his brother, want him to be happy), the women he has married (he wanted to make them happy and they wanted to make him happy too.), and if he has children, them as well. It's obvious you love your brother. Seek God to give your brother wisdom. I will pray also for your brother to get understanding.
He wants to understand what is happening to him so that he can overcome it and live the best life he can.
I am not a Piscean. But let me explain something to you. I deleted my two above comments because it was dealing from an astrological preconception. I did that because this is an astrological board. However, that is not the heart of the matter here. Your outburst to me clearly demonstrated that I hit a nerve and that you feel out of control to to help your brother. I say that because it appears that you feel I am blaming you for your brother's plight, so you bring other family members into your response to defend the reason for your actions. But instead of telling the world how messed up your brother's life has become is no reason why you can't try to understand what is happening here.
Second, let me say that we all agree that your brother needs help. That he wants help. However, it appears that the only way you can offer to help him is by the way you helped yourself. You realized that having a strong woman in your life is what helps you live a better life. So therefore, you think that is what your brother needs, a strong woman. You can't see beyond what you feel best helped you. And many of us are like that. If something works for us, we want to share it with everyone. That is an act of our love for others we want to help. However, in this situation, surely you must see that what helped you (and others you mention) is not what will help your brother. He has had five wives. You say yourself they were strong women, yet they are not what helped your brother. One of these women may have helped you, or maybe the second or the third.
All I am saying is this. Try to get to the heart of the matter of what is causing your brother to keep repeating this cycle of heartache in his life as well as in the lives of the other people, i.e.: you (as his brother, want him to be happy), the women he has married (he wanted to make them happy and they wanted to make him happy too.), and if he has children, them as well. It's obvious you love your brother. Seek God to give your brother wisdom. I will pray also for your brother to get understanding.
He wants to understand what is happening to him so that he can overcome it and live the best life he can.