Among other things, astrology tells about certain traits, influences and potentials; yet not always absolutes. Who you think you may get along with, doesn't always happen, and vice-versa. Whether consciously or subconsciously, we tend to gravitate to certain people for certain reasons. Astrology can teach much tolerence, and can help us realize just how complex we all are. So, imo, basically any sun-sign combination has potential. Simply because we are so much more than only our sun-signs. So one should never lose faith, hope, or underestimate, especially before the fact; there's so much more that lurks beneathe. You can never know, til you know..
(so basically, i believe more in "whole chart" compatibility/incompatibility, then by merely sun-sign, as i think most do. Even then, we all need some spark and tension, the squares, the oppositional aspects, etc. They can provide the spark and interest, and can help combat boredom, and of course oppositionals can balance and teach one other. But of course, as was mentioned, many other important non-astro factors for successful relationships of any kind, have to be taken into account, as well.)
(so basically, i believe more in "whole chart" compatibility/incompatibility, then by merely sun-sign, as i think most do. Even then, we all need some spark and tension, the squares, the oppositional aspects, etc. They can provide the spark and interest, and can help combat boredom, and of course oppositionals can balance and teach one other. But of course, as was mentioned, many other important non-astro factors for successful relationships of any kind, have to be taken into account, as well.)
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michele3R
I have been going through this for 8 months with my Libra...I have asked for endless advice from the people on this post and they have all told me the same thing, he is not ready, move on...I did move on, but he kept contacting me and kept hurting me because I let him..Now I just want to be friends and he wants more (now that i'm dating someone else)...but because he has hurt me so much and I let him do this, I am now unsure of a relationship with him...I have seen a side of him that is very cold-hearted and plain mean..
I no longer trust him like I did before, I will continue to be friends and we have a business relationship as well, but that is all I have to offer him...The more I distance myself the more he wants me, but I know it's just a game...And if by chance it is real, it is too late..
So, my advice to you is that if you really care about this person, leave it alone and move on...If it is real he will come back when he is ready...If you continue to see him and contact him when he is not ready he will continue to hurt you...And chances are you will not want him in the end, the heart can only take so much...
Don't try to get him back...
I have been going through this for 8 months with my Libra...I have asked for endless advice from the people on this post and they have all told me the same thing, he is not ready, move on...I did move on, but he kept contacting me and kept hurting me because I let him..Now I just want to be friends and he wants more (now that i'm dating someone else)...but because he has hurt me so much and I let him do this, I am now unsure of a relationship with him...I have seen a side of him that is very cold-hearted and plain mean..
I no longer trust him like I did before, I will continue to be friends and we have a business relationship as well, but that is all I have to offer him...The more I distance myself the more he wants me, but I know it's just a game...And if by chance it is real, it is too late..
So, my advice to you is that if you really care about this person, leave it alone and move on...If it is real he will come back when he is ready...If you continue to see him and contact him when he is not ready he will continue to hurt you...And chances are you will not want him in the end, the heart can only take so much...
Don't try to get him back...
yep what is meant to be is meant to be...you can't force it. Get on with your life and be happy...that is the only way 
hurt-heart I am so proud of you - you have come a LONG way
hurt-heart I am so proud of you - you have come a LONG way
Wow! HURT, I do not know you but I am so impressed. For sure women who have the same trouble with their libras will benefit from your advise. Like me.
Kudos.
Kudos.
Thanks for your message hurt heart.
He dissappeared for 2 weeks didnt call me back. I left him to it. After a week he was driving past my house! Actually drove past me i pretended i didnt see him and beeped me at the bottom of the road. He even stood in the middle of a dancefloor blatantly staring at me for a 30 secs. I again pretended i didnt see him. Id had enough by 2 weeks so i text him asked him out for a drink he said he was ill how am i etc.. he should be well next week. About a week later i text him saying shall we go for a drink this week. He then replied not sure we should not sure i want anything at the min!! Before his dissappearance he was totally into texting, speaking seeing me every week. Making grand gestures, presents etc. So what the hell happend! Anyway i said fine i can see i meant nothing to you by the way you have just dropped me. He said it wasnt like that he just doesnt know what it is he wants. I text back saying i thought he was the most amazing guy id ever met and make sure he stays special. He replied that was so nice and for me to take care x ???? Its been 4 weeks tomorrow since that message. Ive changed my number deleted him as a friend on facebook and i havent been anywhere near where he goes. Im hoping he'll realise hes made a mistake and come back. Do libras do that from your experience. I promise i wont go after him. He hurt me so much i couldnt do it if i tried.
When your libra finished with you at first how long did he take to come back? If you dont mind me asking sorry! Was it when you were getting on with your life etc.. xx
He dissappeared for 2 weeks didnt call me back. I left him to it. After a week he was driving past my house! Actually drove past me i pretended i didnt see him and beeped me at the bottom of the road. He even stood in the middle of a dancefloor blatantly staring at me for a 30 secs. I again pretended i didnt see him. Id had enough by 2 weeks so i text him asked him out for a drink he said he was ill how am i etc.. he should be well next week. About a week later i text him saying shall we go for a drink this week. He then replied not sure we should not sure i want anything at the min!! Before his dissappearance he was totally into texting, speaking seeing me every week. Making grand gestures, presents etc. So what the hell happend! Anyway i said fine i can see i meant nothing to you by the way you have just dropped me. He said it wasnt like that he just doesnt know what it is he wants. I text back saying i thought he was the most amazing guy id ever met and make sure he stays special. He replied that was so nice and for me to take care x ???? Its been 4 weeks tomorrow since that message. Ive changed my number deleted him as a friend on facebook and i havent been anywhere near where he goes. Im hoping he'll realise hes made a mistake and come back. Do libras do that from your experience. I promise i wont go after him. He hurt me so much i couldnt do it if i tried.
When your libra finished with you at first how long did he take to come back? If you dont mind me asking sorry! Was it when you were getting on with your life etc.. xx
Thank Chatz
The tables have turned now!! I feel really good and he's freaking out...Sometimes I feel sorry for him but then I remember how much he hurt me...He could have chose to leave me alone and come back when he was ready, but he didn't...He is still trying to hurt me by lashing out, last week he told me I was mad at him because he didn't want me before and then 10 minutes later he asked me if I would have a baby with him and be his family...
He is really confused and i'm just fluffing it all off...Life goes on!!
The tables have turned now!! I feel really good and he's freaking out...Sometimes I feel sorry for him but then I remember how much he hurt me...He could have chose to leave me alone and come back when he was ready, but he didn't...He is still trying to hurt me by lashing out, last week he told me I was mad at him because he didn't want me before and then 10 minutes later he asked me if I would have a baby with him and be his family...
He is really confused and i'm just fluffing it all off...Life goes on!!
Praises to you HURT....!!!
Michelle3R
There was times when we didn't speak for over a month to month and a half...And I can't tell you how many times he wrote or said take care!! How impersonal. he even emailed me once and told me to have a good life...My libra is going through a divorce and his wife cheated on him, he pursued me and then freaked out...He has come back a few times and told me that he is just scared and when I bite he backs off again..Not buying it anymore!!! If he really cared about me he would have worked through his fear and made it work..I wonder if he has abaondment issues, he has said some pretty weird things and asking me to have a baby with him is really weird...He already has two little kids and my daughter is 17...He has told me numerous times that he dosen't want more kids...
So this leaves 3 options: He is afarid that if we are together, I will eventually leave because he has small kids and mine are grown up, having a baby would ensure another reason to stay..
He is trying to see if I (as he says) still dig him...too boost his own ego
or he is just plain fucked up...
Months ago, I would have convinced myself it was number one option...Now I 100% vote for number two and number three...Boosting his ego and fucked up!!!
Michelle honestly, you will drive yourself nuts analyzing everything he says and writes..
talk to chatz and queenscorpio, they have lots of good advice to give..
I must admit I do still have a strong attraction to him, and I probably will slip up in the intimate part, actually already have, but the emotions are gone, he can't hurt me anymore...
There was times when we didn't speak for over a month to month and a half...And I can't tell you how many times he wrote or said take care!! How impersonal. he even emailed me once and told me to have a good life...My libra is going through a divorce and his wife cheated on him, he pursued me and then freaked out...He has come back a few times and told me that he is just scared and when I bite he backs off again..Not buying it anymore!!! If he really cared about me he would have worked through his fear and made it work..I wonder if he has abaondment issues, he has said some pretty weird things and asking me to have a baby with him is really weird...He already has two little kids and my daughter is 17...He has told me numerous times that he dosen't want more kids...
So this leaves 3 options: He is afarid that if we are together, I will eventually leave because he has small kids and mine are grown up, having a baby would ensure another reason to stay..
He is trying to see if I (as he says) still dig him...too boost his own ego
or he is just plain fucked up...
Months ago, I would have convinced myself it was number one option...Now I 100% vote for number two and number three...Boosting his ego and fucked up!!!
Michelle honestly, you will drive yourself nuts analyzing everything he says and writes..
talk to chatz and queenscorpio, they have lots of good advice to give..
I must admit I do still have a strong attraction to him, and I probably will slip up in the intimate part, actually already have, but the emotions are gone, he can't hurt me anymore...
Sounds like Scorp may not be the sign for you. I'm dating my third Scorpio right now (a good one, finally!) They're all secretive, it's just their nature. If you're a suspicious person, this will put you in the crazy house. If they are hiding something, you will NEVER KNOW - unless you can intuitively pick up on it, or hire a P.I.
Also....who gives a shit about the exes? Or any other woman for that matter? You need to build some self-esteem. If someone is with you and not with an ex, doesn't that solve the issue?
My boyfriend and I have talked about this, and he knows if something is up, my pisces psychic radar will pick up on it. I made it very clear that if I ever found out anything was going on behind my back - that's it! I'm done....FOREVER! Now he knows what will happen, and if I mean enough to him, he'll see to it that it won't.
Women seriously need to stop worrying about other women so much. Jesus. Get a backbone and recognize your own worth rather than worrying about whether or not another female is better/prettier/smarter than you. There will ALWAYS be someone who fits any or all of those categories, but it doesn't detract in any way from the unique combination you have to offer. If a man doesn't recognize that, it's his problem - Get a new one. Or stay single and maybe..I dunno, set some goals for yourself or something? Go back to school...get a hobby...?
Men get real tired, real fast of insecure, overly-jealous and vindictive partners - especially Scorpio. They do not like being probed or nagged. How would you feel if you were constantly accused of something you didn't do? I would be out the door.
Also....who gives a shit about the exes? Or any other woman for that matter? You need to build some self-esteem. If someone is with you and not with an ex, doesn't that solve the issue?
My boyfriend and I have talked about this, and he knows if something is up, my pisces psychic radar will pick up on it. I made it very clear that if I ever found out anything was going on behind my back - that's it! I'm done....FOREVER! Now he knows what will happen, and if I mean enough to him, he'll see to it that it won't.
Women seriously need to stop worrying about other women so much. Jesus. Get a backbone and recognize your own worth rather than worrying about whether or not another female is better/prettier/smarter than you. There will ALWAYS be someone who fits any or all of those categories, but it doesn't detract in any way from the unique combination you have to offer. If a man doesn't recognize that, it's his problem - Get a new one. Or stay single and maybe..I dunno, set some goals for yourself or something? Go back to school...get a hobby...?
Men get real tired, real fast of insecure, overly-jealous and vindictive partners - especially Scorpio. They do not like being probed or nagged. How would you feel if you were constantly accused of something you didn't do? I would be out the door.
All,
As you know I have been trying to figure out whether or not my cap male likes me. I met him on 2/4; slept with him on 3/23 and have been trying to figure him out every since. Last weekend my power was out due to a storm for 3 days. On day 2, I told him about it and he gave me a key to one of his homes to reside. He is a homebuilder and has about 20 properties. This property that he let me stay in was fully furnished with everything (plasma tv, food, jacuzzi bathtub, etc). While at his place, I did some snooping and saw pictures of another lady in his computer room (it was in the bookselves). The following day, when I returned his key, I asked him was he dating this lady and he stated no. I further asked him did she have a key to this home and he stated that only 3 people has a key: myself, his brother, and him.
We have never established ourselves as couples. I only see him about once a week; he is always busy working and even when we are together he is working! We have only been initimate 3 times since 3/23. I really like him but was wondering does he likes me. He send me cute texts and email indicating that he likes me but I really can't tell by his actions. Please advise.
As you know I have been trying to figure out whether or not my cap male likes me. I met him on 2/4; slept with him on 3/23 and have been trying to figure him out every since. Last weekend my power was out due to a storm for 3 days. On day 2, I told him about it and he gave me a key to one of his homes to reside. He is a homebuilder and has about 20 properties. This property that he let me stay in was fully furnished with everything (plasma tv, food, jacuzzi bathtub, etc). While at his place, I did some snooping and saw pictures of another lady in his computer room (it was in the bookselves). The following day, when I returned his key, I asked him was he dating this lady and he stated no. I further asked him did she have a key to this home and he stated that only 3 people has a key: myself, his brother, and him.
We have never established ourselves as couples. I only see him about once a week; he is always busy working and even when we are together he is working! We have only been initimate 3 times since 3/23. I really like him but was wondering does he likes me. He send me cute texts and email indicating that he likes me but I really can't tell by his actions. Please advise.
Hi All,
I have been seeing a cap guy for about a year and a half now.
When we are together it is amazing and he treats me really well, he does however, work all the time.
I have asked him if he would like to meet up to spend time with me but he replies back to me telling me how busy he is and that he will see me soon.
He texts me at night when he is not at work telling me that he wishes we were together, how he can not wait to see me and we end up having hours of conversation via text message which is really nice.
My problem is - Does Mr Cap really like me or is he playing games with me??
Reason I ask is because I think if he really does care for me then he would make more of an effort to see me.
I appreciate that he is very very busy and I will give him all the space he needs, however as it has been going on for such a long time I am slightly concerned I am being strung along by him............
Can i please have your comments - thanks all
I have been seeing a cap guy for about a year and a half now.
When we are together it is amazing and he treats me really well, he does however, work all the time.
I have asked him if he would like to meet up to spend time with me but he replies back to me telling me how busy he is and that he will see me soon.
He texts me at night when he is not at work telling me that he wishes we were together, how he can not wait to see me and we end up having hours of conversation via text message which is really nice.
My problem is - Does Mr Cap really like me or is he playing games with me??
Reason I ask is because I think if he really does care for me then he would make more of an effort to see me.
I appreciate that he is very very busy and I will give him all the space he needs, however as it has been going on for such a long time I am slightly concerned I am being strung along by him............
Can i please have your comments - thanks all