Marriage - the female view
Making someone live up to expectations never works as people are always growing and evolving...
Bingo Anotherscorp! No one stays the same and to expect that the person you are with will be the same way 10 or 20 years later is very silly.
This is why I thinl people should get into serious relationships later in life because there is more room for trial and error.
Now, don't get me wrong. I strongly agree with divorce if there's need, but at the same time I think people divorce each other over issues that were "lingering" in the mist before marriage, they just chose to ignore them (for whatever reason). It's really cause and effect. Like I said, it's not Marriage, it's the people who don't have their stuff together who are the problem.
Bingo Anotherscorp! No one stays the same and to expect that the person you are with will be the same way 10 or 20 years later is very silly.
This is why I thinl people should get into serious relationships later in life because there is more room for trial and error.
Now, don't get me wrong. I strongly agree with divorce if there's need, but at the same time I think people divorce each other over issues that were "lingering" in the mist before marriage, they just chose to ignore them (for whatever reason). It's really cause and effect. Like I said, it's not Marriage, it's the people who don't have their stuff together who are the problem.