Is this possible or just rubbish?
Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by AnihpPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by Anihp
Seems possible, but I wonder what's the difference between that and a relationship.
No commitment or responsibility.
Commitment means exclusivity?
And what responsibity?
Exclusivity is part of what I demand in a commitment, but what it means generally is that you've agreed to be together on terms you've set. Responsibility is living up to the terms of that agreement, as Lethal said, as well as having the other person's back in a number of capacities, being there to support the other when shit isn't fun. A person who doesn't want any of that responsibility might still like you enough to hang and have sex with you when the mood strikes.click to expand
I agree that exclusivity is a must in relationship, though ppl can change their mind afterwards, another thing.
What confuses me is when a person cares for you, tries to help, etc. but does not want to be attached
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Posted by tizianilol what happened? I read the first post and became intrigued and confused at the same time
well I dunno, I made it as a pro astrologer and I don't think it's much of an achievement in such a cottage industry.
I appreciated the experience but if you don't "make it" as either of those, honestly you're not missing out so don't worry about it.
But to answer your first question, I am the type of woman to go after other women in the sexual way, or any way.
I feel like that time for me will either reappear or has already ended and the door has closed though so all I know now is I'm in a totally different mode atm.
I feel like that time for me will either reappear or has already ended and the door has closed though so all I know now is I'm in a totally different mode atm.
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I'm Taurus Sun, Aquarius Moon, Taurus Mercury, Aries Venus and Leo Mars. Ever since I started dating, I've always been completely captivated by men with gemini in their charts... literally out of the 5 I've dated, 4 of them had a gemini aspect (either gemini sun or moon) and the one that didn't have gemini, I wasn't exactly in love with him - was more of a nice friendship that got romantic due to me not wanting to be alone at the time. I've had countless different men interested in me of all different zodiac signs, but the only 4 in my entire dating life (last 7 years) I said yes to dating was the geminis.
& I know for sure, I never feel romantically compatible with aquarius guys (feels more like a good friendship/sibling type relationship, it's just too cool and lacking in the spark) and I find libra guys very clingy, needy and girly. I don't want to stereotype but I've seen this play out with every guy I meet before I find out their birthday, zodiac sign etc.
Clearly, gemini men seem super keen on me initially (hence why I've dated 4) but in the end I find out they're total players, lie via omission, constantly flirt with others, are narcs etc. but obviously I know of gemini man who are committed to one etc. too so... why does it never work out for me? Isn't aquarius moon fairly compatible with gemini even if my taurus sun isn't?
Any advice how to keep a gemini man? I can discuss various topics, I'm witty, quick, lively, very academic etc. (but also have negative traits like stubborness, I'm very messy, I need a lot of alone time etc)
I'm Taurus Sun, Aquarius Moon, Taurus Mercury, Aries Venus and Leo Mars. Ever since I started dating, I've always been completely captivated by men with gemini in their charts... literally out of the 5 I've dated, 4 of them had a gemini aspect (either gemini sun or moon) and the one that didn't have gemini, I wasn't exactly in love with him - was more of a nice friendship that got romantic due to me not wanting to be alone at the time. I've had countless different men interested in me of all different zodiac signs, but the only 4 in my entire dating life (last 7 years) I said yes to dating was the geminis.
& I know for sure, I never feel romantically compatible with aquarius guys (feels more like a good friendship/sibling type relationship, it's just too cool and lacking in the spark) and I find libra guys very clingy, needy and girly. I don't want to stereotype but I've seen this play out with every guy I meet before I find out their birthday, zodiac sign etc.
Clearly, gemini men seem super keen on me initially (hence why I've dated 4) but in the end I find out they're total players, lie via omission, constantly flirt with others, are narcs etc. but obviously I know of gemini man who are committed to one etc. too so... why does it never work out for me? Isn't aquarius moon fairly compatible with gemini even if my taurus sun isn't?
Any advice how to keep a gemini man? I can discuss various topics, I'm witty, quick, lively, very academic etc. (but also have negative traits like stubborness, I'm very messy, I need a lot of alone time etc)
Posted by Phantom_LimboShe said to me a king time ago that part of their lives was shut.Posted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Did they tell you they don’t have sex and sleep in different beds? How does that come up in conversation?
That’s what friends do...telling you shit! DUH?
I haven't really discussed my sex life with my friends since I was in my 20s. I guess I'm private about that stuff.
I guess you don’t have close friends...
Of course, I do. My friends and I joke about sex and allude to it occasionally, but there are few to no details. I guess they're all getting enough not to complain. lol
Anyway, I presume just the woman told you this ages ago? I still can't imagine a conversation where you interrogate your two friends who are a couple about their sex life and sleeping arrangements.
What’s wrong with talking about that?
We aren’t talking about his zick size or anything like that...
Are you telling me that you really sat with this married couple and discussed their sex life with them? That's just not something that I can imagine happening with any of my friends, family, or acquaintances. lol
Yes. We just sitting eating and talking and she said you should see his bedroom! It’s a mess! I am glad i am in mine and keeping it neat...
So what’s wrong with that conversation?
Nothing, but if that's as far as the conversation went, you're assuming an awful lot about them from that. Maybe he goes to her room to fuck.click to expand
Posted by febiePosted by tiziani
well I dunno, I made it as a pro astrologer and I don't think it's much of an achievement in such a cottage industry.
I appreciated the experience but if you don't "make it" as either of those, honestly you're not missing out so don't worry about it.
lol what happened? I read the first post and became intrigued and confused at the same timeclick to expand
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well I dunno, I made it as a pro astrologer and I don't think it's much of an achievement in such a cottage industry.
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