Scorpio coldness (what else!)
"he will come looking for me to see where I am and If I am dating someone else"
LOL...Aries...this happened EONS ago but anyway I was like 14 or 15 and had just given my now hubby my cherry...the most precious moment of my life and you know what he did? He friggin DISAPPEARED. For like 2 weeks. No explanation. Nothing. Nada. He was gone. Poof.
The first week I cried my heart out. What had I done wrong? Did he think I was cheap now? Was there another girl? Was he announcing this conquest to his friends?
The second week I was livid. At the start of the third week he reappears...like NOTHING had happened. I mean, how does a guy just suddenly show up after all that and go ?Hey Lena, what's up? with a friggin grin on his face? Like the last 2 weeks were non-existent? I whacked him across the face and told him to go where the sun don't shine...and while he was at it, never to contact me again.
Ha! DRAMA.
First he got hurt, then he got angry and wanted to get even. He started ?dating? some girl. I ignored him...he ignored me...like I even cared at that point. I had been and done with my crying?and I was on a roll ! So when his attempts to pretend I didn't exist failed and I started to sorta date another guy...I'd only dated him for like a day before the scorp that was supposedly dating the other girl proceeded to crash the date I was on and announce TO MY DATE that I already had a boyfriend.
OMG thinking about it now, it was hilarious...but at the time I was like WTF? And then he pulled me aside and went into a psycho jealous rage demanding whether I had ?done the deed? with this guy. Sheeesh...I swear sometimes he acts like he's on meds or something.
It's only a few years ago that he told me why he'd disappeared back then. Apparently he couldn't deal with the ?emotional intensity? of being that close to me (aka having sex for the first time) and he had to go and ?deep think? or whatever. He was friggin 15 years old. What was there to ?deep think? about?
Pfeh?I bet when his mom gave him his pacifier for the first time, he toddled off to ?deep think? about it before re-emerging with the damn thing stuck in his mouth.
Point being Aries...scorp men are weird and they do weird things. They are driven by emotion so they NEVER think logically before doing stuff.
They hurt you when they love you and they hurt you when they hate you. Your guy sounds like he's just into the sex...so toss him aside.
LOL...Aries...this happened EONS ago but anyway I was like 14 or 15 and had just given my now hubby my cherry...the most precious moment of my life and you know what he did? He friggin DISAPPEARED. For like 2 weeks. No explanation. Nothing. Nada. He was gone. Poof.
The first week I cried my heart out. What had I done wrong? Did he think I was cheap now? Was there another girl? Was he announcing this conquest to his friends?
The second week I was livid. At the start of the third week he reappears...like NOTHING had happened. I mean, how does a guy just suddenly show up after all that and go ?Hey Lena, what's up? with a friggin grin on his face? Like the last 2 weeks were non-existent? I whacked him across the face and told him to go where the sun don't shine...and while he was at it, never to contact me again.
Ha! DRAMA.
First he got hurt, then he got angry and wanted to get even. He started ?dating? some girl. I ignored him...he ignored me...like I even cared at that point. I had been and done with my crying?and I was on a roll ! So when his attempts to pretend I didn't exist failed and I started to sorta date another guy...I'd only dated him for like a day before the scorp that was supposedly dating the other girl proceeded to crash the date I was on and announce TO MY DATE that I already had a boyfriend.
OMG thinking about it now, it was hilarious...but at the time I was like WTF? And then he pulled me aside and went into a psycho jealous rage demanding whether I had ?done the deed? with this guy. Sheeesh...I swear sometimes he acts like he's on meds or something.
It's only a few years ago that he told me why he'd disappeared back then. Apparently he couldn't deal with the ?emotional intensity? of being that close to me (aka having sex for the first time) and he had to go and ?deep think? or whatever. He was friggin 15 years old. What was there to ?deep think? about?
Pfeh?I bet when his mom gave him his pacifier for the first time, he toddled off to ?deep think? about it before re-emerging with the damn thing stuck in his mouth.
Point being Aries...scorp men are weird and they do weird things. They are driven by emotion so they NEVER think logically before doing stuff.
They hurt you when they love you and they hurt you when they hate you. Your guy sounds like he's just into the sex...so toss him aside.
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Well, if you have his child, then why would you want to severe ties completely? Why would he have to beg you to keep a relationship on a plantonic level, such as friends? Wouldn't you just want to do this anyway BECAUSE of the child?
"he has begged me to stay friends....Y would a virgo want to still stay friends..."
"ive decided its best to be just friends plus i want to stay friends with him"
These are mixed signals by you inferring two different things. On one hand, he is begging you to be friends with him, in which you are questioning "why" would he want this .. while on the other hand, you are saying that you actually want a friends relationship with him because of a child together.
So, if you actually do want to have a friends relationship with him, then why does he have to beg you for it?
Doesn't make sense ....
Leads me to believe that you are confused in how you feel ... you do still love him, and are in denial, I would suspect .. for what other reason would there be for your confusion about remaining within a loving, plantonic and civil relationship with your baby daddy?
Toni ... seriously, rather than trying to figure this man out, you need to be focusing on how you feel, because you are standing at two different positions, which is confusing you and you cannot figure out why, as if he is the one confusing you ... and he's not.
"he has begged me to stay friends....Y would a virgo want to still stay friends..."
"ive decided its best to be just friends plus i want to stay friends with him"
These are mixed signals by you inferring two different things. On one hand, he is begging you to be friends with him, in which you are questioning "why" would he want this .. while on the other hand, you are saying that you actually want a friends relationship with him because of a child together.
So, if you actually do want to have a friends relationship with him, then why does he have to beg you for it?
Doesn't make sense ....
Leads me to believe that you are confused in how you feel ... you do still love him, and are in denial, I would suspect .. for what other reason would there be for your confusion about remaining within a loving, plantonic and civil relationship with your baby daddy?
Toni ... seriously, rather than trying to figure this man out, you need to be focusing on how you feel, because you are standing at two different positions, which is confusing you and you cannot figure out why, as if he is the one confusing you ... and he's not.
I second that.
3 of my closest friends are Taurus. I don't know what I'd do without them! I'd never let go of them.
My sister is a Taurus too, along with several other family members. Her and I are getting closer as I've gotten older.
i love hugs. i'd walk up to lots of folks, total strangers, and give them a hug if i could!!
but this is socially unacceptable.
but this is socially unacceptable.