why do pisces talk endlessly about...

Adw,
Sadly it seems that's the only thing that can spring a pisces into action. Them thinking nobody believes in them. Are you the type to let things unfold naturally? Or are you a self starter? I think the women are different than the men because my mom is a pisces and she's nothing like the men I know.
Its really bothering me because I suspect a friend of mine is losing confidence in himself and is slipping into self destruction mode. I kinda wish I didn't tell him not to tell me any of his MANY plans...& just do it. Now I'm afraid, he's afraid he's alone. But I do feel maybe this could be a turning point for him. He could get mad and actually do something for a change.