Another thread of being your own worst enemy .....
Here's a quote from the Pisces board, where a Virgo woman is pining away because a P-man has swam away from her, and she doesn't know where to turn ?
?but I can only do so much if he's not talking to me. I even asked him yesterday why he's turn to hate me so much and I got nothing., and truly, after the engagement comment, I'm so hurt. It makes me feel like I wasn't worth anything, I don't want to be angry with him even though I think I have evey reason to but bottom line is I love him, never told told him but from the first day I met him.?
Look at the last sentence, coupled with the first sentence ??. She now wants him to communicate to her how he's feelings ? and she NEVER told him how she felt about him.
?bottom line is I love him, never told told him but from the first day I met him?
She is in shambles because this man won't reciprocate loving feelings that she NEVER told him.
Virgo's, Virgo', Virgo's ????. We ARE emotional beings ? we will NOT feel loved if you do NOT express it to us ? we cannot read your minds, or your hearts.
Can you NOT see how this woman above has caused this P-man to misunderstand her heart by NOT telling him how she feels about him? Now, she's left to feel helpless because he won't talk to her. Of course he won't talk to her ?. for 10 months these two have trying to have a relationship and for 10 months she loved him and NEVER told him. Why should he talk to her now?
For 10 months, her silence in NOT expressing her emotions left the Fish cold.
?but I can only do so much if he's not talking to me. I even asked him yesterday why he's turn to hate me so much and I got nothing., and truly, after the engagement comment, I'm so hurt. It makes me feel like I wasn't worth anything, I don't want to be angry with him even though I think I have evey reason to but bottom line is I love him, never told told him but from the first day I met him.?
Look at the last sentence, coupled with the first sentence ??. She now wants him to communicate to her how he's feelings ? and she NEVER told him how she felt about him.
?bottom line is I love him, never told told him but from the first day I met him?
She is in shambles because this man won't reciprocate loving feelings that she NEVER told him.
Virgo's, Virgo', Virgo's ????. We ARE emotional beings ? we will NOT feel loved if you do NOT express it to us ? we cannot read your minds, or your hearts.
Can you NOT see how this woman above has caused this P-man to misunderstand her heart by NOT telling him how she feels about him? Now, she's left to feel helpless because he won't talk to her. Of course he won't talk to her ?. for 10 months these two have trying to have a relationship and for 10 months she loved him and NEVER told him. Why should he talk to her now?
For 10 months, her silence in NOT expressing her emotions left the Fish cold.
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I will be the first to admit I forgive far too easily and because of this a certain person is taking advantage. It isn't because I can't stand up for MYself or that IM trying to prove something to others. MY willingness to overlook a friend's awkward behaviour has a lot to do with how much I care for them and MY reluctance to make them feel even more inept. The question is: AM I making life too easy for them by doing this? I find it hard to ignore someone who is acting in a hurtful or destructive way.
ok, dont say the "L" word, or at least not for this. If you're moving i suggest you talk to him about this, why didnt you tell him personally? he might feel like you've been hiding a lot of things now since he had this new info was told to him by someone else. Might wanna just get to talking about why you didnt mention it and what direction you life is going, because i for one would feel like 'well obviously im not that important if shes moving away and wasnt going to tell me'.
Everything up to fate, but last min details are always up to you. Just go up to him and talk, aries are very direct and you should know this by now. Good luck!
Everything up to fate, but last min details are always up to you. Just go up to him and talk, aries are very direct and you should know this by now. Good luck!
i hope i'm not being a bit too expectant when i anticipate some fine tea with that curtsy
Well yes, yes you are.
I am not a tea person myself.
I am not a tea person myself.
So since I first started typing away my thoughts and questions on dxp, I've noticed out of all the boards the scorpio board seems the most productive... wtf!? Granted I've enjoyed their conversations and it's given me great insight into the scorpio mind (i.e. my bf) and i've learned how to move around certain situations into my favor, but still.
I was watching Harry potter 4th movie (something of fire?) last night and the last quote of the movie stood out to me. "there will come a time, where we must decide between what is right and what is easy'. Ever feel like you give the most useful advice and never find yourself taking it? I have a tendancy to put my foot right back into my mouth after a screwed up comment i had or moment of 'omg that didnt just happen'. I give fairly useful and realistic advice to others and due to my aries moon i've been able to go a lot farther in most adventures then i probably would've with my other timid side. How do you finally make yourself take your own advice? it's like i have good advice, and i know what i 'should' do, but thats not gonna always get the odds in my favor. maybe thats why people fear taking their own advice? Just curious, implusive behavior is an aries thing and im VERY implusive... how do you calm urself down?
something i felt like sharing!!
I'm a Ox
While my closest sister was an Goat
During my youth, as she was 6 years older than me..
we always quarrel.. but after my 18.. we'r very close.. we could even talk about anything!! And i love my sister.
as she was an aries & I'm a Sagittarius!!
pretty amazing haha!
I'm a Ox
While my closest sister was an Goat
During my youth, as she was 6 years older than me..
we always quarrel.. but after my 18.. we'r very close.. we could even talk about anything!! And i love my sister.
as she was an aries & I'm a Sagittarius!!
pretty amazing haha!
At the end of the day, if that were even true, does it/should it matter to YOU? Being hated is just a stones throw away from being loved....Now, if I'm hated, I can illicit strong reactions in folks that a lesser person couldn't: so why should I be so weak as to be bothered by everyone's reation to me?.....but most importantly, I don't hate myself no matter what anyone else thinks of me....quite frankly who gives a rats' ass if they do? It doesn't stop my show....other people's opinions of me are small potatoes in my book....
When will you ladies understand fuck buddy never works. Most women are not built for that shit (says the feminist)...Im sorry its the truth.
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