Posted by ClairDeLuneSo I take it you don’t live in the Midwest then?Posted by Black-MambaPosted by ClairDeLune
Awwwwwww, I know you're gonna hate me......
But have never been attracted to asian men sorry
🙅♀️🦐
why not, they're hot
To me, it feels like dating a cousin or a brother
Plus, I know how mother-in-law can be............
No thank youclick to expand
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Posted by BumblebebeNoPosted by _DazedPosted by BumblebebePosted by _DazedPosted by BumblebebePosted by _DazedPosted by Bumblebebe
@_Dazed this for you
Why?
Here you are pretendin.
I'm 4.5 inches on a good day and thin like a sharpie.
Do u have any pixs?
Of my short sharpie dick?
Siclick to expand
Posted by LostinmyMind11That's a great word for the Leo/Virgo cusp time we are at right now.
#humblebrag
Posted by alexscarieslol
I've been looking for an excuse to post this camp classic:
Posted by PuzzlePiecesjust coz you're self-absorbed doesn't mean you don't care about other people.Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by PuzzlePieces
1st house stellium & cap soft stellium ( cuz it’s 3)
1st house - I see things from a me perspective but I am not self-absorbed. I have typically put others first. I have a tough time with others trying to dictate who I should be though. As if it’s I’m not good enough, well it’s been a working through thing from childhood to midlife, and I do understand self care must better now.
Probably part of that is due to a 12th house sun & mars I guess.
i think about other people in connection to me
but i have 'martyr' placements too so....
though i am deeply self-absorbed and i mean i can spend hours just thinking about me, no kidding
I guess self-absorbed but put others first? That seems opposite and weird but that’s how life has been. A therapist Who I went to helped me understand it was because when you can’t solve your problems it’s easier to solve others. Haha but not really!!! It started at 8 when my parents got divorced and I tried to fix it. He says how’s that working for you? 😂😂😂😂😳🤦♀️🤷♀️ Not so well I said. So I learned others have choices and to concentrate on me! Omg funny be your first house or something. I was 50 at the time 🤦♀️🤦♀️
I am also caring & taking care of others.. for those I love. Kids, spouses, boyfriends, friends. So that seems weird to say I’m self-absorbed. 🤪click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPIt’s introspective and understanding yourself is not a bad thing. In fact, it is good to be more aware and figure out what makes you tick, how you relate to others instead of blame others or events for everything. It’s good to have self care and have a bigger picture of what’s happening around you. In fact, in therapy they say that’s healthier. Rather than making someone or things outside you responsible to make you happy, you make things internally responsible. That’s my take on it anyway after years of trying to be what others told me I was supposed to be.Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by PuzzlePieces
1st house stellium & cap soft stellium ( cuz it’s 3)
1st house - I see things from a me perspective but I am not self-absorbed. I have typically put others first. I have a tough time with others trying to dictate who I should be though. As if it’s I’m not good enough, well it’s been a working through thing from childhood to midlife, and I do understand self care must better now.
Probably part of that is due to a 12th house sun & mars I guess.
i think about other people in connection to me
but i have 'martyr' placements too so....
though i am deeply self-absorbed and i mean i can spend hours just thinking about me, no kidding
I guess self-absorbed but put others first? That seems opposite and weird but that’s how life has been. A therapist Who I went to helped me understand it was because when you can’t solve your problems it’s easier to solve others. Haha but not really!!! It started at 8 when my parents got divorced and I tried to fix it. He says how’s that working for you? 😂😂😂😂😳🤦♀️🤷♀️ Not so well I said. So I learned others have choices and to concentrate on me! Omg funny be your first house or something. I was 50 at the time 🤦♀️🤦♀️
I am also caring & taking care of others.. for those I love. Kids, spouses, boyfriends, friends. So that seems weird to say I’m self-absorbed. 🤪
just coz you're self-absorbed doesn't mean you don't care about other people.
i care about my pets and people i love but i spend a HUGE amount of time thinking about myself, my interests, my feelings, my thoughts and my situation in life.
in fact, this is my #351354545 me thread.
i'm trying to understand why i'm so self-absorbed and why that may not be such a bad thing.click to expand
Posted by La_MariposaDamnnnnn. You're almost perfect.
I don’t have this problem lol
I can cook, bake, garden, care for children, and clean (thank you Hispanic grandmas 🙏🏽)
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