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Posted by UndinePosted by taugem13Posted by Undine
My mum is Taurus with Gem Venus. Father is Aqua with Leo Moon.
She took the initiative, in fact she "tricked' him into marrying her. They are still together.
So yep, go ahead!
I’d love to know what your mom did! Shoot me a DM so I have some inspiration 😂 (I’m born on the 11th actually)
They were dating for a few months (and were university colleagues). She said she may take a teaching job in the same village as his mother, for the next decade or so. She may keep her company and look after her, but only if she becomes her daughter in law soon! The Aqua happily agreed/proposed. He already had a position at the University and thought he will get to enjoy his freedom while being married, and also have his mum looked after for free.
The wedding was planned for May. A few weeks before, she tricked a colleague of hers into taking the job in that village. She came home crying crocodile tears that a rogue person stole the job from under her nose. And what now...is Aqua going to abandon her...?!!!!
Aqua said he will keep his commitment to marry her.click to expand
Posted by Black-MambaNo woman! lol I like you.Posted by nikkistar
I'm so close to posting quotes like the cancer man left me thread and making this thread a fucking legendary one.
tag me alreadyclick to expand
Posted by dilettanteYeah its frustrating. I never told him I wanted to be friends though, the time I confronted him for his ghosting I told him he was disrespectful for what he did and that I was really into him but he never made himself clear etc. I laid my cards out and he only told me hes figuring things out. To that my response was ok you do that i hope im not gone by the time you figure it out, im gonna go do me now. I never once mentioned friendship.Posted by aquatar1Posted by dilettantePosted by aquatar1Posted by dilettantePosted by aquatar1
I was dealing with one. He was hot and heavy/into me for 3 months straight, talked to me daily, went out of his way to see me almost daily etc. full on interest, then completely pulled away out of nowhere and told me hes still figuring out where he wants this to go.... i was like ????. That messed me up, man. I still dont know what happened but its like i have PTSD from this. I let my guard down for this piece of doo doo.
how long have you been dealing w/ him?
Well we've "known" each other for years. but back in january he started to express romantic interest in me, after stalking me casually for some time lmao. He felt safe cause I'd expressed interest in him so then he went full force to pursue. From March to end of June we spoke almost daily, saw each other at least a few times a week in person (we work in the same building and he'd always come over to my area when he could). He even asked me out and we arranged a future date (he ghosted before we could go out lmaoo)
The second I let my guard down...he bounced. Started to ghost, didnt come around anymore etc. I confronted him about it and he doesnt mean to ghost me and told me hes figuring out where he wants this to go??? I was like wtf? I even mentioned maybe I'd done something wrong and he told me I didnt.
I was like k you do you and left him alone. He then reappeared at my workplace again 3 weeks after that... didnt speak to me, Just looked at me from a distance, observing my reaction. I pretended all was well, now we're cordial but i dont trust him.He hurt me man. I still have feelings but F this. I dont get what happened.
aha right, i remember your thread
ok if you dont trust him, thats a huge red flag.
i dunno about you but i dont fuck w/ people i dont trust. & it is verrrrry hard to get trust back from me, when it’s been broken... especially if its a repeat offense.
when was the last time you two talked? like not just said hi but had a real convo?
I dont trust him because I dont like inconsistency, he didnt technically do anything super bad, im just hurt lol. I agree.
when he came back around, I waved hi all friendly like nothing happened, being the bigger person. Then we had brief small talk after that, last week, about work/parking tickets etc. I initiated this cause he was keeping his physical distance from me at first, I think he didnt know if i was mad or not. I didnt bring anything up.
He was the same as he'd always been when we talk in person, fidgety but normal lol thats his usual stance. He\s always been very passive and reserved. its his thing.
I'm now confused if he thinks we are just friendly/cordial buddies or what. I dont even know why he came back around to my workplace if he wasnt gonna say anything. He legit was just there, looking at me from a distance. I was like ??? bro.
When I confronted him back in July i told him flat out, that its good for him to take time to figure his stuff out, and that i hope i'll still be here once he does sorta thing (aka im not waiting). I put myself out there. i doubt hes figured anything out by now lol.
the virgo i know did the exact same thing... but i let it happen repeatedly for an entire year. until i finally felt pushed by him & laid it all out on the table & flat out told him he can not be my friend.
i think virgos will continue to come around until you tell them to stop.
it’s up to you whether or not you want to continue w/ him in your life.
i also do not fuck w/ inconsistency. it drives me crazy. but, chances are, it wont stop until he figures shit out... which may never happen.
it’s the age old “how much patience do i have for this?”... mine maxxed out at one year & numerous failed attempts for friendship.
take time to think about, whether or not, the back & forth is worth your time & patience. if it isn’t & you think you’ll constantly feel drained, it’s time to try & move on.
while i am not totally against workplace romances, i avoid them bc of situations like this 😕click to expand
Posted by Araujo97Posted by saggurl88
Here’s a pic of me when I was 19 and barely had eyebrows 😅
Boobsclick to expand
Posted by Phantom_Dangus I'll just note that you never see dudes make take-down threads like this about another group of dudes.dxp primates are more like bonobos than chimps....mainly females at the top of the dominance hierarchy....as the ritual violence ends and order is being restored, the males are beneath the branches gathering crumbs from the tamales...
Posted by Black-MambaWho? Cause she is talking about impulsv.Posted by nikkistar
God damn woman hater, you are. Lol
but she is a woman hater, she's hating on someone who hasn't logged on in 2 years...who is a womanclick to expand
Posted by Araujo97lolPosted by saggurl88Posted by Araujo97Posted by saggurl88
Here’s a pic of me when I was 19 and barely had eyebrows 😅
BoobsI was a D cup inn 6th grade lol They will be kept over my shoulders and tucked in when I'm in my senior years!
Lol you had your personal slaves basicallyclick to expand
Posted by aquatar1When you say came back do you mean he is making a effort to talk to you or give you attention? or still just standing there watching you? coz if its the later then that is kinda strange and gives me a stalker vibe.Posted by dilettantePosted by aquatar1Posted by dilettantePosted by aquatar1Posted by dilettantePosted by aquatar1
I was dealing with one. He was hot and heavy/into me for 3 months straight, talked to me daily, went out of his way to see me almost daily etc. full on interest, then completely pulled away out of nowhere and told me hes still figuring out where he wants this to go.... i was like ????. That messed me up, man. I still dont know what happened but its like i have PTSD from this. I let my guard down for this piece of doo doo.
how long have you been dealing w/ him?
Well we've "known" each other for years. but back in january he started to express romantic interest in me, after stalking me casually for some time lmao. He felt safe cause I'd expressed interest in him so then he went full force to pursue. From March to end of June we spoke almost daily, saw each other at least a few times a week in person (we work in the same building and he'd always come over to my area when he could). He even asked me out and we arranged a future date (he ghosted before we could go out lmaoo)
The second I let my guard down...he bounced. Started to ghost, didnt come around anymore etc. I confronted him about it and he doesnt mean to ghost me and told me hes figuring out where he wants this to go??? I was like wtf? I even mentioned maybe I'd done something wrong and he told me I didnt.
I was like k you do you and left him alone. He then reappeared at my workplace again 3 weeks after that... didnt speak to me, Just looked at me from a distance, observing my reaction. I pretended all was well, now we're cordial but i dont trust him.He hurt me man. I still have feelings but F this. I dont get what happened.
aha right, i remember your thread
ok if you dont trust him, thats a huge red flag.
i dunno about you but i dont fuck w/ people i dont trust. & it is verrrrry hard to get trust back from me, when it’s been broken... especially if its a repeat offense.
when was the last time you two talked? like not just said hi but had a real convo?
I dont trust him because I dont like inconsistency, he didnt technically do anything super bad, im just hurt lol. I agree.
when he came back around, I waved hi all friendly like nothing happened, being the bigger person. Then we had brief small talk after that, last week, about work/parking tickets etc. I initiated this cause he was keeping his physical distance from me at first, I think he didnt know if i was mad or not. I didnt bring anything up.
He was the same as he'd always been when we talk in person, fidgety but normal lol thats his usual stance. He\s always been very passive and reserved. its his thing.
I'm now confused if he thinks we are just friendly/cordial buddies or what. I dont even know why he came back around to my workplace if he wasnt gonna say anything. He legit was just there, looking at me from a distance. I was like ??? bro.
When I confronted him back in July i told him flat out, that its good for him to take time to figure his stuff out, and that i hope i'll still be here once he does sorta thing (aka im not waiting). I put myself out there. i doubt hes figured anything out by now lol.
the virgo i know did the exact same thing... but i let it happen repeatedly for an entire year. until i finally felt pushed by him & laid it all out on the table & flat out told him he can not be my friend.
i think virgos will continue to come around until you tell them to stop.
it’s up to you whether or not you want to continue w/ him in your life.
i also do not fuck w/ inconsistency. it drives me crazy. but, chances are, it wont stop until he figures shit out... which may never happen.
it’s the age old “how much patience do i have for this?”... mine maxxed out at one year & numerous failed attempts for friendship.
take time to think about, whether or not, the back & forth is worth your time & patience. if it isn’t & you think you’ll constantly feel drained, it’s time to try & move on.
while i am not totally against workplace romances, i avoid them bc of situations like this 😕
Yeah its frustrating. I never told him I wanted to be friends though, the time I confronted him for his ghosting I told him he was disrespectful for what he did and that I was really into him but he never made himself clear etc. I laid my cards out and he only told me hes figuring things out. To that my response was ok you do that i hope im not gone by the time you figure it out, im gonna go do me now. I never once mentioned friendship.
Do you think hes back around just to remain friends?? It'd be a little weird considering I laid my feelings out to him.
maybe he doesnt like conflict/wanted to ease his conscience and came back to see if we were cool idk.click to expand
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