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Aug 07, 2013Comments: 14265 · Posts: 5321 · Topics: 61
I have frequently asked the same questions of myself. In younger years, my car was an extension of myself. So when I no longer had it or any car at one point, I asked myself, "who am I without it?" Or, "who am I without (this person)?" I think is perfectly natural to self evaluate the more self aware you become. Particularly in your 30s, you start wondering where you fit in society, and what you contribute. And thats really all you have to do! Think about who you really want to be, who you see yourself being truly and work towards that! We arent perfect and bettering ourselves is not a bad thing! Often times we get so preoccupied with our selves that we need to step out and become more worldly, learn where we can help others. If you want to feel fulfilled, ponder upon what you really want and need as a person. Set some tangible goals for yourself and as you acheive them, your self image will improve and strengthen. Knowing who you are and what you have to offer as a partner is extremely empowering and will make you more confident in your relationships. Like someone else said, once you love yourself and feel pride in yourself, jealousy will seem sillier and sillier. Think you are boring? Pick up a fun hobby! How do you set yourself apart from the pack? Do what you love and do it to the best of your ability!! You will always succeed when you follow your heart, and keep that level head at the same time. Yoga sounds like it is right up your alley! Do some and let us know how you feel! Best wishes in your transition!