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May 26, 2019Comments: 466 · Posts: 596 · Topics: 7
I would never date someone with ptsd.
Just because he was the first one you had sex with doesn’t mean you owe him your life and it DOESNT MEAN you are actually in love.
I couldn’t really read the whole thing I only skimmed it, cause too much drama. Now I’m stressed and want to break up with him myself and I dont even know the guy!
I wrote about her in my previous post, but there's more now and I wanted to keep it short and ask what is her issue now as IM very close to cutting her off from my life as I feel like im not getting a good vibe from her:
So....we're both females & have been friends for a few years. I got married about a year ago for the 2nd time, but my hubby lives overseas as we're waiting for his green card so my friend onyl seen his photos and I must say that everyone claims what a beautiful couple we are and how good looking he is, but she never told me anything like that as in we are a beautiful couple etc. So every time she asks something about my hubbie in terms of our relationship, she doesn't say "so ... your husband?" but she keeps referring to him as "that man" as if we're talking about a stranger or someone who is 65 years old lol, plus 'that man" is only 12 years older than her (she 30, hubby 42). The other day I was complaining how much weight i gained & mentioned how my hubby wants me to lose it too & that hubby told me to start exercising & she goes to me "tell him shut tha F*** up bia****!" I didn't say anything but her reaction surprised me callign my hubbie biatch and also tellign him to shut the fuck up lol" . Also, this is my 2nd marriage & im 36, so she goes "after your 1st divorce at 28, you should have moved to NY from LA, gone to a law school there (im studying paralegal now btw), & would have met a lawyer to marry & been happy by now. I told her "Im very happy now" to which she didn't respond. All my other friends refer to ym husband as your hubbie or your husband but she's the only one calls him 'that man' as if 'that man' has no association with me. She's single & 30. She's seeing a guy but he's not serious with her & she's thinking about having a baby on her own in a few yrs if she doesn't marry. Should I cut her off? It does bother me that my husband is referred to as 'that man' i feel like as king her next time 'which man is that?" lol that's how it feels like.
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May 26, 2019Comments: 466 · Posts: 596 · Topics: 7
You said he has ptsd
You need to back off of him. I know of a lot of men who had ptsd and murdered their significant others. Just leave the dude alone!!
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May 26, 2019Comments: 466 · Posts: 596 · Topics: 7
Also-I find some of the girls on here really bad. It almost seems like a cry for help to save them from their insecure, daddy issue selves. 🤷🏼♀️
The men I snicker at and gloss over cause they sound so stupid and it’s obvious why a lot are single...but the females are just embarrassing at times how they treat each other.