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Posted by CancaGal

Posted by jeane

Posted by CancaGal

Thanks for your input.

He did try to prove me that he has nothing to deal with her by asking me if I want to go thru his phone etc but I didn’t do anything. I didn’t even ask him to change her name in his contact lol. Just let him do what he thinks is right and fair to me.

I’ve always been a cool and chill girlfriend and never asked him to do anything to please my selfishness. However, would it be too much if I ask to him tell his ex that he is with someone now when she contacts him next time? She doesn’t know we are together now as he hasn’t spoken to her and last time she called he cut it off

just be honest and tell him the "pretty girl" is hurtful. from what you've said he'll change it.

who cares what the ex thinks? it really is between you and him and besides, she seems quite brazen, perhaps saying he is with someone would cause her to double her efforts.

Thanks jeane. That’s exactly what I concern about

worrying about other women is a waste of time and emotion.

if he is going to stray, no amount of trying to control the situation stop it from happening.

my guy has women throwing themselves at him all the time. his ex girlfriend even made a play for him. the other day, a plainly woman offered him sex. i don't worry. i know the person he is. he tells me about it and we laugh at their boldness.

all you can do is feel reassured that you picked a decent guy who genuinely cares for you and cares about maintaining your relationship. if your relationship is solid, it can withstand a constant stream of thirsty women.

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Posted by thatlibralife

...and yes I think he was.....

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Posted by Soul

Does this count?

Damn, dude. You put that shower together? You picked those colors and did the work?

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Posted by Phantom_Dangus

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Posted by Phantom_Dangus

You're teaching him a bad lesson right now...if he tells you the truth when he hears from another girl, you're gonna freak. Next time he might just not tell you.

Oh no this is the first time we bring this up. But being a cancer just makes me overthinking. I was not that freak tho. Just think that it would be better if he tells his ex that he has someone now so that she can stop contacting my bf but stay focus on hers

I understand. It's natural to feel that way. If I understood correctly, you didn't ask him about this or catch him in it, correct? He just told you on his own that she contacted him. Right? That is him being transparent with you, which is a good thing and something to be encouraged. Now, if you found out because you were rummaging through his phone and saw "Pretty Girl" and asked about her, that's a whole other thing.

I saw her name by accident when I borrowed his phone to make a phone call but I didn’t ask until he told me about that later.

Then how do you know that she is the one listed under that name?

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Posted by thatlibralife

...and yes I think he was.....

I just texted him that I sent him a big kiss and he texted thanks babe sending you a tender kiss back but that's it.....I dont know I feel like hes not chatty anymore. I think I'm getting paranoid AF too

Do you guys live near each other? I would ask about a meet up soon to hang out.. for now just chat him up about how his day went today and anything interesting that happened with you. His quick response seems like he was waiting to hear from you. Try not to think the worst...you seem to be in good shape here...

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Posted by saggurl88

Not many Pisces women answered. I will answer based off my friendship with a Pisces for 15+ years.

My friend tells everyone yes because she's nice. Then she does what she wants based on how much fun she will be having and how much she likes the person.

If she is making you a priority and doing this to others, I wouldn't worry about it. (I'm sure she always has a great excuse as to why she didn't make it)

If you are on the receiving end of this, I would start planning stuff that is fun and that will catch her interest. My Pisces friend doesn't like chilling and sitting around, she wants to be out socializing and having a great time.

She's punctual when things are important for her. If there is something booked that starts at a particular time, otherwise, she shows up around the time she says. She really doesn't expect people to be waiting on her. If you guys are meeting for drinks or food, she will be late so that you can have something ordered already

Posted by stillstillwater

Well he always comes back... but for what? I mean if you're not on the same page... either you need to change your desires or he does.

Since you see him in person, why don't you want to have a "what are we" conversation and then hold him accountable to it.

For example, if he says I dont want a relationship and you decide that then you rather not be friends at all and ask him to no longer contact you but he still does... you can remind him that you don't want the same things so you've moved on.

To answer your question, normally to break a friendzone bubble you'd need to make it sexual but since you guys are already sexual the issue is not being friendzoned but more so that he doesn't want a relationship with you.

Now regarding finding the 5th box, why not ask? Just be like hey out of curiosity since we've been seeing each other sexually for so long, what is it about me that keeps you from wanting to be with me in a relationship?

if he says it's because he's in love with someone else...that is a legitimate answer . Because sometimes people can be sexual with one person but their commitment/heart belongs to someone else.

Why are you holding back? I mean how much worse can being vulnerable be than waiting for someone 2 years. You might as well express to your heart's content and then decide what to do. Isn't life to be lived after all?