Chart advice @LeoM @CapW

OP is she answers with “I like you as a friend only” then is up to you to decide how long you are willing to wait for her to open up. If you love her that much and are willing to wait, then be honest. Tell her that you understand her hesitation to commit and that you are willing to give her more time to think about it. This still leaves you in control because you can revisit the question in a few months or years, and end it at any time if things are not going the way you wish. And if you wait for her then treat her as a friend only (don't take about your feelings at all until you are ready to ask again). This combo makes for a good loyal friend. Who knows you might lose interest in time or another girl might come along that will catch your interest…..(a self-fulfill prophesy of the cap/scorpio moon). Or if you are not willing to wait you move on and stop wasting time on her.

You are young, and I’m a semicentennial hence my approach might be a bit different than yours. Anyhow being honest does not make you boring or take away the attraction factor. Trust me in her mind she knows that by turning you down she runs the risk of losing you. Also don’t lie because this combo has a gifted memory and will remember everything you say, and do. If you don’t keep a promise or forget something for a legit reason explain it to her in detail and she will understand. I hope this answers both of your questions. Let me know how it goes, and good luck.

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